Yini kuwukuthatheka: inkimbinkimbi isegazini futhi ubulima umphefumulo?

Uma ngaphambi enjalo uhlamvu imfanelo ethinta inhliziyo, efana naiveté, yaziswa kakhulu ezingabantu, kodwa manje, kuleli zwe eligcwele unya nokungabi isimo sokugxeka, kuba cishe kuyinkinga yembulunga yonke ngoba umnikazi walo. Abantu babuka izwe 'yokuchuma, "baba njalo izisulu imikhonyovu zivame ishiywa dengwane futhi akakhohliswanga imizwa yabo best. Futhi zonke ngoba bakholelwa abanye abanjengami, ngokungazi bekholelwa ukuthi izwe siqukethe kuphela abantu okuhle. Ngakho kuwukuthatheka, kubhekwa inzuzo ukuba ngidle leli izinga ngingahlukanisa ayibulale?

I naivete akuyona okuphambene?

Naiveté (kusukela isiLatini nesiFulentshi nativus naif - .. azalwa naso) - nenshisekelo izimfanelo ekuqaleni elilinganisiwe nemvelo (zemvelo, evulekile, nesengane) bonisa kamuva kwavela ukuzenza amakhono. Kule ncazelo, kusobala ukuthi ngesivinini zokuphila kwanamuhla esandayo isimo sokugxeka abantu kufanele bagqoke buso, likhinyabeze lula, ngobuqotho ukwamukela imithetho ngokoqobo angaba nonya kangako, lapho ungeke ukwethemba omunye umuntu kodwa wena. Abantu sebekhohliwe ukuthi naivety, futhi baqala ukuhleka usulu futhi akhohlise labo ephethwe alondoloze ukuhlanzeka komphefumulo.

Isizathu umuntu ukuzikhohlisa kungaba ekuphileni kwakhe serene futhi awanaki, lapho asikho isidingo bazivikele nezwe noma ukulwa naye. Umuntu onjalo ungayazi imithetho yawo yokuphila, futhi wayengenazo isidingo amanga, ukufihla isimo sawo sangempela. Okuhle noma okubi - unquma.

A ubuwula - lokhu naivety?

Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ubumsulwa akunakubangelwa ukuntula biko. Lokhu akulona iqiniso. Naiveté kubangelwa yokungabi nokuhlangenwe nakho kunokuba nokucabanga. Abantu abanale izinga, obethembayo abanye, ukuzidela, nabanomusa, bese nibheka umhlaba kusukela iphuzu kancane ehlukene, kodwa singeke sisho ngokuqiniseka okuphelele ukuthi uyisiwula. Kukhona umqondo 'silly ukuzikhohlisa ". abantu Silly ukuzikhohlisa ngezinye izikhathi kunzima kakhulu ukuba alandise kuleli zwe. Bakholelwa ngobuqotho abanye, akazange akhohlwe nakancane ecabanga yokuthi bangakwazi akhohlise. Silly ukuzikhohlisa kuyingozi ngoba defies izifundo zokuphila, ayikho ngaphansi isipiliyoni, ukuthi enenkani, ngokudabukisayo nokuphila.

Uthando nobumsulwa

uhlobo Common ubumsulwa lensikazi ubumsulwa. Vula umlomo, abesifazane abazimisele ukuchitha amahora ukulalela izindaba zakho ozithandayo, othethelela sonke emacaleni nokuceba kuye. Futhi hhayi umphefumulo uyakwazi ubabonisa ngenye indlela. Inamandla futhi enenkani enkolelweni yawo.

Nokho, lokhu akukhona imsulwa isegazini futhi ayibulale kalula, uma kabi kushiswe ubuhlobo. Lapha-ke Kuhle kokusho inkulumo ethi "uthando oyimpumputhe". Uthando kusinika umuzwa naivety, futhi uthando lwethu wamuka ukususa "yokuchuma." Ngakho akukho ocacile phakathi kothando ithemba futhi naivety.

"Izibuko rose klebhu" Indlela ukubabulala

Kungakhathaliseki futhi kungenzeka balahle naivety? Naivety akukho yomuthi othile, kodwa uma beqaphela ukuthi okukuvimbela ephilayo, ekuletheni ezinye ngokuphazamisa - ke kuyisinyathelo sokuqala nesibaluleke ekulweni inkimbinkimbi umphefumulo. Khumbula ukuthi naivete - yisifiso ukubaleka, ukuze Nqamula ukuziqhelelanisa Eqinisweni, isifiso ukubona akunjalo njengoba sinjalo.

• Cabanga futhi sihlaziye izimo lapho ziye hit kanzima by nokuvuleka zawo futhi zihluke kanjani ukuthi zaphumela wena.
• Cabanga ngekutsi ungacala kanjani ukushintsha ukuziphatha kwakho, futhi bazama ukuba liqine futhi lisithinte ngokwengeziwe futhi ngokucophelela esikhathini esizayo.
  
• Bukisisa abanye futhi sizame ukubabheka njengoba amashinga ezingaba lamasela. Lokhu akusho kufanele abe sverhpodozritelnym like ejenti yokulwa nobugebengu, kodwa ukuqapha nokuba anakekele silinganisela ngendlela enengqondo namanje akekho owalimala.
• ichaze Kusobala bona ngokwabo ukuthi yikuphi kuwubuwula futhi kuyisidala ucabangisise ukuthi udinga kuyinto izinga futhi kungani.
• Ungavuli abantu ezingajwayelekile, othembela nakubangane obathembayo kuphela.
• Lawula kwentukuthelo yakho ngokomzwelo, isifuthefuthe bonke ngokucophelela nge ikhanda esisangulukisayo.

Ngokulandela lokhu amathiphu, uyokwazi ukuqeda inkimbinkimbi nokuvuleka kwengqondo. Nokho, kungazelelwe wavula ngokoqobo ungaba umbono emangalisa: abantu abanonya kanye ebukekayo. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokuba ususe "izibuko rose-ezinemibala", cabanga ukuthi ufuna ngempela ukubona sezwe samanje?

Ngakho kuwukuthatheka: isifiso bayazi silibalekele lelo qiniso noma ubulima umphefumulo? Umbuzo uwukuthi bokukhuluma. Futhi ngamunye wethu angasho ukuwuphendula ngendlela yakhe, ngokuhambisana subjective umbono abanawo emhlabeni wonke.