Ukuphi wancibilika zezingane

Ngokuvamile, abantu abadala abazona ukubonakaliswa ukwesaba wazehlisa uma hhayi ukunganakwa kwengane. Basuke zijwayele ukucabanga ngendlela ehluzekile, kunzima ukuba aqaphele sina ukukhathazeka umntwana ngenxa esilandelayo "podkrovatnogo silo." Ngakho-ke, abazali athobe izingane zabo ezinengqondo kusuka umbono wabo kuphela, kusho ukuthi: akukho waqinisekisa (ngokuvumelana Ingane) isiqiniseko sokuthi izilo abekho. omama Ngokuvamile ukhathele futhi oyise izingane akudingeki baziqambela umbhedo futhi ngokushesha alale, nakuqaphela real kanjani "silo" ingane.

Ingozi omubi wokushaya indiva yokwesaba

Isimo sengqondo esinjalo asisho sixoshe ukwesaba zezingane, ngokuphambene nalokho, ke kuzenza zibe zimbi nakakhulu kubo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngeke kuthinte ingane. Ejwayele yokuthi isiqalekiso sakhe hhayi athathwe ngokungathi sína, izinyane nje sime ukukhonona futhi ivale ngokwako. Kodwa ungakhohlwa ngokwesaba futhi ukhathazeke kuyoba wedwa yakhe engazi lapho ukuze uthole isivikelo. Ezimweni ezinjalo, abantu abangenacala ukwesaba ebumnyameni noma abantu ongabazi ngeminyaka kusondele senyukele yokwesaba yangempela. Kushintshwe ukuze umuntu ayisekho uyakhumbula nemvelo yakhe yokuqala, ukwesaba uzoqhubeka aphishekele inyamazane ukuphila lonke omdala yayo.

Uphiko ngokomzwelo

Kungani ukuqonda lapho kwesatshwa ezinganeni? Ikakhulu ukuze bakwazi kahle basabele ngokuphuthumayo kulokhu. Qonda isizathu - kuyisinyathelo sokuqala endleleni eya wokuhlengwa. Ngoba kubalulekile kangaka ukukhuluma nengane yakho, ngokucophelela simlalele futhi uzame ukuthola ukuthi yini ebangela lokhu noma lokho kwesaba. Phela, njengoba wazi, thina asesabi ebumnyameni, futhi kuyini.

Ukwesaba ingenye eziqine womuntu imizwa ayikwazi phansi. Wabadalula kokubili ngabantwana nangabantu abadala. Futhi amandla lokhu umuzwa akuxhomekile imbangela nomsuka (kuba ngengqondo noma zangempela). Ngisho noma kubonakala sengathi yokwesaba yezingane izilo ngengqondo akunangozi ukwesaba omdala kakhulu, akusiyo.

Ukusabela ingozi kithi sonke okufanayo. Instant ikhiphela igazi inani elikhulu adrenaline kubangela hormone yangempela okhuphuka emzimbeni. Kugcine akuhileli hhayi umuzwa umhlabeleli ngokomzwelo. Njalo kanye (nakuba eqinisweni - izikhathi eziningi ukuthi cha) uhlangabezane ukuzwa ezingemnandi uma umzimba kwakubonakala Lubophela, paralyzes, futhi inhliziyo ilungele siphume esifubeni. Umzimba yakhelwe ukuze abantu bangalwa isikhathi eside ngomuzwa yokwesaba. Ngakho-ke, akufanele ukucindezela sixoshe.

Ovalweni ezinganeni. Ukwesaba wokuba wedwa

Omunye ezivamile ukwesatshwa yesizungu. Futhi ungacabangi ukuthi okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe kuphela uye kuqhathaniswa esekhulile izingane. Eqinisweni, ukubonisa - hhayi ukuthi abanye, linjengezwi nekutilondvolota mine, okuyinto ikakhulukazi kahle ithuthukiswe izingane. Ukwesaba isizungu singaba ukuzibonakalisa ezinyangeni zokuqala zokuphila. Kuphocelela izingane sokukhathazeka ngenxa ukunakekelwa komama bakhathazeke nokuphatheka kabi ngokomzwelo ngaphandle ukunakekelwa naye futhi amsekele.

Esemncane enjalo nje ngumama lifanekisela Ukuvikelwa ezingozini izwe ngaphandle, futhi ngenxa yalokho ukungezwakali kwawo kuyisici esiyinhloko e kuhlasimulise izingane. Ngenxa yomuzwa ongokwemvelo, ukuzihlanganisa nalo lonke. Futhi kuphela ubudala lapho izingane sebeqala kakade ukuqaphela ngokwabo futhi ukuhlola umhlaba, ukwesaba zezingane yesizungu imizwa. ngokuvamile Lokhu kwenzeka eminyakeni emibili noma emithathu.

Ukwesaba abantu ongabazi

Enye yokwesaba lihlotshaniswa abangabazi. Ngokombono begazi buka, it is impela walungisiswa: ingane besaba lokho abazi. Kulokhu - abangabazi, okuyizinto engase abangela kuye umonakalo. Ekuphileni, lokhu kwesaba kubonakala amahloni, ukungafuni ukubingelela "izihambi" anti, abanye bezama ukufihla ngemva kukanina. Kuthatha indawo lapho ngomoya ophansi achazele ingane ukuthi lo muntu abangamazi akazange bangenzi lutho olubi.

Ukwesaba abangabazi futhi kwenzeka umuntu esemncane kakhulu. He is acute kakhulu. Kid awukwazi ngisho anakekele yena, ngakho imvelo iye endowed him lesi sifo nesifiso sokugwema ingozi. Ngemva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha ubudala ukwesaba lezi zezingane kancane kancane abohle. Izingane ziqala ngomoya ophansi basabela khona abangabazi.

Ukwesaba izidalwa ngengqondo

Ngu iminyaka emithathu izingane ngenkuthalo ukuhlola imvelo, simazi kangcono izici zezwe okukhulu. Kulokhu, ngeke akwenze ngaphandle opopayi, izincwadi kanye ezihlukahlukene izithombe. Phakathi nale nkathi, izingane ngokuvamile aba ukwesaba elihlobene ne izidalwa wasenganekwaneni, ngokuvamile ethathwe eminye imidwebo. Ngezinye izikhathi - ebekwa ukunganaki kwabazali. Kulo mBhalo, isibonelo, uma njalo ngokwanele bekhombisa abathi baluyuschemusya ingane ukuthi uyothatha uyathakatha ababi.

Kuze engu-ukwesaba ezintathu zisekelwe kakhulu isazela nokwesaba nezidalwa ngamanga - iyathinteka. Akufanele sibakhohlwe ukuthi izwe kumnandi of ingane ibonakala ngempela ngempela. Isikhathi ngasinye, scaring ubuntu bakhe yasungulwa, abazali wenze ingane ukhathazeke kakhulu empilweni zabo kwezempilo.

Impendulo efanele

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi laliyini, noma kunjalo, ningakwenqabi isimo esingokomzwelo ingane. Uma wesaba okuthile, nawe kufanele yibuze ngokucophelela. Futhi ngisho kangcono - ukunikela draw bese bembuza crumple, izinyembezi noma aphonse elihunyushwe ngakho lokhu 'kwesaba'. Kubaluleke ngokufanayo ukuthi ingane bative bavikelekile, wayazi ukuthi kwakuzodingeka ukuba usizo bese utshela wonke indaba.

Awukwazi bhinqa yokwesaba yengane, indiva noma ukuqaphela abalulekile. Kunalokho, ngomoya ophansi chazela umntanakho kungani kungafanele wesabe ke, ukuthola indlela ukuba banqobe ukwesaba. Uma kuba njalo nengane ngeke sizizwe singenamandla. Futhi phezu nezici ezithile ukuze yesabe kakhulu ezithinta ubuhlobo obuhle namalungu omkhaya, ikakhulukazi phakathi kwabazali. Lesi esinye sezizathu kungani ukuxabana, ukucacisa ngobudlelwane okumelwe zenzeke ongaphandle kwendawo ukunakwa ingane.