Ukuntuleka kokukhulumisana libido - kungcono inkinga ngempela?

Okokuqala, ake ukuchaza "libido" igama elithi. Ngakho, kuyini na? It kuvela umbhali ukuthi imvelaphi yabo ubophekile UZygmunt psychoanalysis ukuba Freud, emsebenzini wakhe, ke usesikhundleni emaphakathi. Wanquma ukuthi libido - uhlobo amandla angiqinise, ogama izimpande zitholakala ubulili. Empeleni, kungcono okufanayo njengoba drive ubulili ngomqondo yasekhaya.

Kwakucatshangwa ukuthi uma silandela Freud, le libido kuyinto ugqozi, ukukhangana, isifiso, ogama njongo - ukufeza ubumnandi. Amandla we libido, ukuguquguquka nezinezimo erogenous, inquma isigaba nokuthuthuka komuntu. Freud abalwa eziyisihlanu kuzo:

1. Kusukela ekuzalweni kuya onyakeni owodwa - esiteji ngomlomo.
2. Kusukela ngonyaka owodwa iminyaka emithathu - esigabeni bendunu.
3. iminyaka emithathu kuya kwemihlanu - esigabeni isitho sobulili sowesilisa.
4. Kusukela eminyakeni emihlanu kuya nambili - esigabeni esicashile.
5. Kusukela eminyakeni eyishumi nambili ukuba kweshumi nesishiyagalombili - esigabeni zangasese.

Futhi Freud wayeqiniseka kakhulu ukuthi ayephuli libido kwakhiwa nokugula ngengqondo, kodwa ngokuhamba ucwaningo ukuqiniseka yayo azitholakalanga.

Ukuze siqonde Gustva Carl Jung, le libido - a ngemilingo amandla womuntu iyonke. Uhlala libido afana namandla Qi , noma Prana, esivela empumalanga.

sexologists nanamuhla bakholelwa ukuthi libido - isifiso sokuba nobuhlobo bobulili, okuyinto kubhekwa njengento evamile kubo bonke abantu usufinyelele kokuthomba. Ukwakheka kwabo iqala engakhula naye ukuhlonza ingane ubulili babo futhi ukhule ngokugcwele ngokobulili, wedlula bonke izigaba wesibili, njengokufunda uthando kaPlato, nakho esikisela ucansi. libido Mature bobubili ubulili - iyona quintessence romance, Ukuvusela futhi ubulili ngokuhambisana nemigomo yokulunga kuka zobuntu abantu.

Izinto uphakamise wehlise libido

Njengoba libido - kuyisifiso ngokobulili, kunokuba ukushukuma kungokomzimba wo, umfutho kuxhomeke ezicini eziningi. Ngokwe sexologists American, zibulale libido ezinye zezici eziyisisekelo ezingasetshenziswa futhi kufanele walwa. Ngakho, uma ulahlekelwe libido, kungaba ngenxa:

• Life - ke kuyinkinga ngempela kwabaningi ngoba babengenayo umuntu bacwiliswa ngokuphelele ukunakekelwa indlu ekhaya, yemfanelo professional, isikhathi ngezinye izikhathi, okuyinto ayifuna ngabomvu entula ngisho iphupho. Sexologists belulekwa ezimweni ezinjalo, ukugcina ikhalenda ukuhlela ocansini, ngisho noma kungase kubonakale engenangqondo, kodwa ngeke asize ekuxazululweni ukunganeliseki nomunye amacala ocansi, futhi kamuva isidingo ke uzonyamalala.
• Ukukhathazeka, ukwesaba, ukukhathazeka. Kuleli zinga, umuntu abanayo ngobulili nasendleleni akazange akhohlwe. Kulokhu, musa avimbekile ku "umfece" isidingo ukuxhumana, uzigcine nakho akuvunyelwe nakancane.
• Isithukuthezi, monotony. Umuzwa wokuthi ubuhlobo ngokwawo iphelelwe yizakhi futhi ukukhungatheka ezihambisana luqedwe ngosizo nakho ezintsha embhedeni. izingxoxo obuseduze ngesihloko izifiso zobulili nomlingani wakho, ucwaningo ahlangene izimfihlo Kama Sutra uzobuya ezibonakala Owohlokayo nesithakazelo sobulili komunye nomunye.

Kwehliswe libido ezingabantu

Isikhathi esining impela, le libido owesilisa uhlushwa izizathu ngokwengqondo. Muva nje, sexologists uthi ukwehla isifiso sobulili e abasha, abesilisa enempilo. Isizathu salokhu ngokuvamile kukhona banal ukufakwa ayilungile, esibekwa kusukela ngisemncane, abazali, isibonelo, isibopho ukudala izinto inhlalakahle ngekusasa umndeni, ukuthuthukiswa umsebenzi kanye nokunye okufana nalokho. Lokho ebangela abantu abasha ukubeka yonke imizamo yabo ku ekuzuzweni kwemiPhumela umgomo "omkhulu", kuthatha iminyaka, babekwazi ukuphila ngenjabulo emshadweni.

Abesilisa kungenzeka babe ukukhathala okungamahlalakhona, ukucindezeleka nokucindezeleka okuhlobene, okungaholela ukusetshenziswa kakhudlwana utshwala nezidakamizwa, ngendlela kakhulu, ukusetshenziswa eside insangu ithiya ukukhiqizwa kwesidoda. Ngezinye izikhathi imbangela libido ongaphakeme kungaba uchungechunge amaphutha ngokobulili. Ngokwemvelo, nethonya elikhulu futhi izitho zomzimba, okungukuthi, ezingeni kwe-testosterone.

Indlela ukuxazulula le nkinga?

1. Qala ukudla evamile, ungakhohlwa mayelana izithelo nemifino, kanye aphrodisiacs besilisa.
2. Bedla ukudla nge wokuqukethwe lelisetulu zinc - material ukwakhiwa ezidingekile testosterone-molecule.
3. namahora ayisishiyagalombili okulala egumbini elimnyama nokunokuthula - ekulesisimo ukukhiqizwa evamile hormone.
4. Akubalulekile ukuba sishisekele ngotshwala, ikakhulukazi ubhiya, okuyinto abacebile phytoestrogens - analogue hormone zesifazane.