Ukulahlekelwa ubuthina. izinganekwane eziyishumi

Umuntu ngamunye konke empilweni kwenzeka okokuqala. Kungokufanayo uya ubuthina. Abantu abasha, abesifazane angakaze ubulili, zama ukufunda okuningi mayelana nenqubo ngangokunokwenzeka. Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi emhlabeni isihloko "ukulahlekelwa ubuntombi" is ukuphotha lenqwaba izingcingo, izinganekwane. Ezinye zazo sizozama debunk.

Futhi ngakho inani inganekwane eyodwa wukuthi abantu abaningi empeleni bakholwe ukuthi ukuqala ubulili ezimpilweni zabo kumele njalo kube kungakadluli nanhlanu hhayi ngaphambi kweminyaka engu-nane. Kuphi konke lezi zibalo, akucaci. Ngokwezibalo, ezweni lethu, abantu abasha yabo yokuqala ubuhlobo bobulili cishe engu-nesithupha. Njengoba for izibalo zomhlaba, ukubaluleka inyuka ngo ngonyaka. Kodwa lokhu kuyinto isilinganiso. Eqinisweni, inani labantu abalahlekelwa zobuntombi babo at nambili - iminyaka eyishumi nanhlanu, okuningi kakhulu kunalokho abaqale aphila ngayo ngokobulili umhla iminyaka eyishumi nesikhombisa. Konke kuleli cala kuncike ngokuyinhloko isimo umndeni, kusukela inhlalakahle yakhe, ezingeni intelligence intombazane noma umfana nemfundo. Ayanda ngalezi zinkomba, kamuva ngeke ukulahlekelwa ngqo siqu bobuntombi.

Enye inganekwane siphathelene yokuthi lo okuthiwa hymen ukuthola mkhulu njalo ngonyaka. Ngenxa yalokho, abesifazane abalahlekelwa zobuntombi babo kweminyaka kuka nesikhombisa, bezwa ubuhlungu kakhulu. Eqinisweni, isakhiwo se-hymen ngayinye ubulili fair kukhona ngokuqinile ngamunye. Kungokufanayo uya kwabantu bayo kanye imbobo. Konke lokhu neze sincike yobudala intombazane. Ngokwesibonelo, uma wakhe hymen at nesishiyagalombili kwaba nokunwebeka kakhulu ke lokhu impahla ngeke ulahlekelwe it yiminyaka engamashumi amabili nesishiyagalombili.
Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi ngempela ngokuvamile e imithombo eminingi ukuthi ukuqala ekuqaleni komsebenzi wocansi ngokuvamile iyashesha ezilimazayo empilweni. Kulesi simo, ukulahlekelwa ubuntombi emantombazaneni kungabangela abanye ukuvuvukala. Nokho, lokhu kungenxa ngokuyinhloko iqiniso lokuthi epithelium lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane yilezozintombi mncane kakhulu. Ngenxa yalokho sobuhlobo bobulili, wayevame abalimele, lapho-ke kuholela ukungazali noma izinqubo ukuvuvukala.

Insumansumane lesine wathi ngezingozi kuqale ngasekupheleni ocansini. Ngakho, ukulahlekelwa ubuntombi akunakwenzeka ukuba kuyokuqeda induna, migraine nokunye okunjalo. Lezi zifo kuthiwa cishe axhunywe kuqala, uma kuphela kancane ezingeni hormone. Ngokuvamile, baba nesisekelo ngokwengqondo.

Uma ungakabi wathola isipiliyoni sabo kuqala ngokobulili, akusho ukuthi amakhambo waqobe ukuya le wezifo zabesifazane musa ezithinta wena. Lena enye inkolelo-ze. Intombazane noma osemusha kufanele qiniseka ukuthi uvakashela onguchwepheshe yakho. Ngakho, kungenzeka ukuvimbela ukuthuthukiswa ukuvuvukala ngendlela efanele usaqala.

Ukulahlekelwa bobuntombi, noma njengoba ngokuvamile okubizwa ngokuthi, deflowering akuyona njalo inqubo ebuhlungu futhi igazi. Konke kuleli cala incike izici bokuphila abesifazane anatomy of hymen wakhe. Ezinye ubulili bubuhle, ngempela, ukulahlekelwa ubuntombi kuhambisana ezinkulu.

Yiqiniso, kungaba kuhle uma umlingani wakho, uyoba umuntu abanolwazi kakhudlwana kule ndaba. Nokho, kulesi simo akubhekwa saziso. Ngakho, silahle enye inkolelo at Isikhombisa.

amanzi afudumele, aromosvechi nokunye okuningi - kuyinto izimfanelo romantic. Nokho, i-ubuhlobo bobulili lokuqala emanzini ngokuvamile kuphela inkimbinkimbi konke ngoba impela nje ugeza kude okubizwa ngokuthi Lubrication yemvelo, okwenza kube emomozini nzima. Uma kungenakwenzeka ukuba ulahlekelwe zobuntombi babo, iye kwelinye igumbi, ushintshe ukumisa kanye uphumule.

Amantombazane amaningi ozama ukuxazulula le nkinga ubumsulwa. Yebo, kuba inkinga, ngoba ngabo kuba ezinjalo. Ngokwesibonelo, abanye abantu bobulili fair ubuhlungu ngezenzo eziningana ngokobulili. "Angikwazi ukulahlekelwa ubuntombi" - wezifo zabesifazane okuzwayo esimweni esinjalo. Empeleni, konke kulula kakhulu. Iqiniso lokuthi umuzwa emnandi emva ocansini okokuqala akakwazi ukwamukela wonke umuntu. Udinga ukubekezela kancane, ukushintsha izikhundla bese usebenzisa Lubrication yokufakelwa.

Amakhondomu kumele isetshenziswe okokuqala. Abagulayo lokhu, ngeke. Nokho, le ndlela sokugwema ukukhulelwa okungafunwa, ngoba ngisho ebusuku wakho wokuqala kungenzeka.