Singakwazi yini ukuthinta omama abakhulelwe ukuba baye emathuneni nezinye izinhlobonhlobo zokuthembela ezeni omama.

Ukukhulelwa - ngalesi sikhathi hhayi kuphela ngilindele into enhle, kodwa futhi amaningi ukukhathazeka. Ushintshe ngokuphelele isigqi wokuphila, kubalulekile ukuba bangayeki ezinye imikhuba futhi zithole abasha, ukucabanga hhayi ngaye ngokwakhe kodwa ngale ngane esizayo. Ngalesi sikhathi esijabulisayo omama zithambekele ikakhulukazi enkolweni wonke engavamile futhi kwemvelo. Kunezinkolelo eziningi ezeni abesifazane abalindele umntwana lidlule ngomlomo. Singakwazi yini ukuthinta omama abakhulelwe ukuba baye emathuneni ukuze uthole ukugunda izinwele noma cha thunga noma ukuluka, nokunye okuningi. Ngokwengxenye enkulu zonke izimpawu umsuka ezikhathini zasendulo. Owesifazane yesimanje kufanele kube abanekhono kakhudlwana futhi ngokwanele ukubheka umhlaba. Kungakhathaliseki kubalulekile kwabesifazane abakhulelwe ukuya emathuneni noma ukulungiselela ingane isipho anganquma yilokho futhi akekho omunye.

Into wukuthi inkolelo zonke ezinye zalezi zimpawu, wena lahlwa wena yokuthi izinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye kuphela bazokwesaba sihlalele ovalweni ukwenza okuthile okungalungile. Uma uke zahlelwa ngokwakho kunoma-ze, kuyafaneleka ngokuqinisekile aqala nini ukugcwaliseka. Ngokuqinisekile phakathi kwezihlobo noma abangane bakho kunezimo ukuthi bathande ukutshela, isibonelo, ukuthi abesifazane abakhulelwe abakwazi ukuya emathuneni, kanye ihlezi emnyango, wangiphica noma ukudlala cat. Ake ubone ukuthi ubani kwesokudla futhi ngubani zokuchitha imizwa yakho ngokuphathelene nokukholwa namanga.

Abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi kuyinto isisu okuqaphelekayo, awukwazi nganoma iyiphi indlela ukutshela abanye mayelana nokukhulelwa. Lolu bandlululo esefikile kithi evela abantu basendulo babengazi ngaleyo ndlela ababezama ukuvikela owesifazane kanye nengane avela emimoyeni emibi. Okwamanje, lesi siphakamiso kungenziwa kuphela ephathelene ne-ukunakekela ukuphepha sokukhulelwa nosongo yokwehluleka ukuvikela abesifazane kusukela imibuzo ehlukahlukene.

Singakwazi yini ukuthinta omama abakhulelwe ukuba baye emathuneni? Kungani kungenakwenzeka? Kulokhu kukhona uyayazisa izinga ukuzwa futhi sengqondo ngezindleko zomngcwabo kuphela. Cabanga uma wafa alikho eduze kakhulu umuntu, kungase empeleni ngcono ukuhlala ekhaya futhi hhayi ukulimaza psyche waphinda. Kodwa uma ufuna ukusho Some umngane oseduze kakhulu, umbuzo ukuthi abesifazane abakhulelwe ukuya emathuneni futhi akufanele kwenzeke. Akukho sizathu, ngaphandle umbhedo bakholelwe ezeni, hhayi ukuhamba, isibonelo, i-suku luwusuku ethuneni okuthile okulimazayo ezihlotsheni zawo.

A uphawu lokuthi awukwazi Ngagunda izinwele ixhunyiwe kuphela ukholo wawobaba ngokuthi kukhona igazi. Okwamanje, akukho bufakazi ngokuba lokhu akusikho ezeni. Ngakho Striga ngenjabulo, ingavuleki okufanayo izinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye e isidalwa okungekuhle.

A uphawu lokuthi ngokuphelele azikwazi ukuthengwa ezintweni kusengaphambili ingane, futhi kufanelekile kuphela ezikhathini zasendulo. Khona-ke kwakucatshangwa ukuthi uma izingubo ibhalwe, khona-ke kubonakala sengathi senzelwe omunye umuntu, amabutho otherworldly, ngoba ingane akazalwanga okwamanje. Manje bonke abesifazane zanamuhla ukuthenga ezanele ingane isipho ungakazalwa nakuzalwa. Kungani ukuphathisa kamuva nomyeni wakhe, umama wakwakhe, uma ungathola injabulo kukhethwa amasokisi encane yeqiniso futhi CAPS kakhulu?

Zonke izinhlobo yenkolelo ukuthi abesifazane abakhulelwe abakwazi ukubheka efile, abantu okumbi izinto ugly ezahlukene futhi akudingeki ngezizathu okwanele. Vele ososayensi ukweluleka nawe ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa zibabaza amahle, ukulalela umculo okuhle futhi ukubukela amabhayisikobho ezinhle. I ingane esibelethweni isivele uxhumana nezwe elingaphandle.

Kukhona umbono wokuthi kuyinto engenakwenzeka ukuba thunga, ukuluka, sicacise ifindo nokuningi. Kholwa yimi, isikhathi iba intambo ayikwazi elihlobene ne amakilasi idatha. isikhathi Ngakho esilandelayo uma ufuna ukubuza, ingabe kungenzeka ukuba omama abakhulelwe ukuba baye emathuneni noma uhlanganyela izingubo, cabanga nje ngokunengqondo, ukulahla izinkolelo-ze nezinganekwane izizathu esilula. Jabulani ube nokukhulelwa injabulo kuphela.