Ngobani asexuals? Yini odinga ukukwazi ngalesi zobungqingili

Bangaki abantu ukwazi abangekho asexuals? Prakthiza ebonisa ukuthi okunjalo izakhamuzi unolwazi ezweni lethu lincane kakhulu. Futhi, empeleni, lokhu akumangalisi, ngoba lo mqondo lesiRotuma. Futhi ngakho masizame ukuqonda ngokwabo kule nzima Uma unganakile, umbuzo.

Ngobani asexuals?

Ngakho asexual ucingo abantu abangafuni ukuzwa ngokocansi. Ngesikhathi esifanayo bengakuthandi iyiphi ucansi, bobabili namalungu wobulili obuhlukile, futhi. Ngakho-ke, akufanele kudidaniswe gay noma lesbian, kodwa luboniswa kakhulu nge ngithanda abesilisa nabesifazane.

Ososayensi nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo abasuke bengakakwazi ukusebenzisa ekugcineni bahlangana ndawonye yayiyini imbangela ukubukwa enjalo ebalulekile ezimpilweni zethu ezinjalo. Nokho, kuyaziwa ukuthi abantu njalo ngonyaka ezingasho avulekele mayelana asexuality yabo.

Kungani abantu naleyo micabango?

Ziningi abanesifiso sokwazi: "kanjani ukuba asexual?" Kunemibono eminingi ngalokho eshukumisela abantu ukuba bangayeki ocansini. Kodwa phakathi kwakho konke lokhu ukwehluka kolwazi Ubonakala version ozwakalayo kakhulu kulokhu okulandelayo:

1. isikhala esikhona sokulondoloza Akuphumelelanga. Umbhali wayevame ukunezela lokhu imbangela okwenzekayo kungaba ukukhungatheka kusukela contact lokuqala obuseduze. Ngokwesibonelo, lapho omunye wezinsimbi kwaba zingcolile futhi, ngokuvumelana nomunye. Noma lapho ngokoqobo wehlukile umcabango womuntu, ngakho ayisekho edonsela kuye.
2. ukuhlukumezeka kwengqondo. Kwesinye isikhathi abantu baba asexual ngemva ubudlova abanolwazi ngokwabo. Ngemva kwale nhlekelele, baye kudala zihlotshaniswa ucansi into engcolile nokunyanyisayo.
3. Azalwa naso. Siqala ezingavamile, kodwa abanye abantu bazalwa asexuality azalwa nako. Kulokhu, bungaphezu isithiyo bokuphila kuka umoya.

Le ndoda-asexual edume kakhulu futhi ukunyakaza kwakhe entsha

Omunye ayikwazi ukusebenza indaba mayelana asexuals futhi ingasaphathwa umfana ayithande Devid Dzhey. Lokhu uMklami abasha abavela Melika kusukela esemncane wayazi ukuthi sihluke ontanga yabo. Nakuba bonke abangane bakhe kuphela eyayikhuluma ngocansi, akakwazanga ukuthola okukhethekile ngayo.

Ngoba uDavide osemusha, kwaba isenzo ezingcolile, injongo sole ukuzala, futhi akabange esakhathazeka. Lapho eneminyaka engu-23 ubudala, wayeqiniseka ngokugcwele ukuthi akusiyo ngokuphelele ubulili. Kodwa wayengumlutha wangasese ukuqaphela kancane ngubani asexuals. Wayefuna ukuthola abantu abanazo emhlabeni wonke.

Ngakho-ke, ngo-2001 wasungula kunethiwekhi yomhlaba anikezelwe izimiso asexuality. Futhi, Okumangazayo ngokwanele, ngokushesha indawo yakhe waqala ukuqoqa izinkulungwane ukubukwa. Bole kwalokho, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kwaba khona lonke ukunyakaza, okuyinto munye ngaphansi banner yayo amantombazane nabafana kusuka emhlabeni wonke.

Izwe ngemehlo abantu "entsha"

Ngakho, labo abangababiziweyo asexuals, waqonda, manje sekuyisikhathi baqonde indlela bebona izwe elibazungezile. Phela, njenganoma iyiphi ukunyakaza, banayo imithetho yabo izimiso ophila zihluke kakhulu kulezo ajwayelekile kithi.

Okokuqala, bonke asexuals kuyabanda kakhulu lelisho kulalana. Zichaza lesi senzo njengoba ukunyakaza ezingadingekile ezingcolile, ngiyajabula lonke ubuhle imizwa kweqiniso. Kule ndaba, cishe wonke amalungu enhlanganweni ukushumayela uthando kaPlato.

Kulokhu, kukhona ngisho nalabo abangamthandi ukwamukela angiqabule, uwabheka ayizidleke amagciwane. Nakuba lesi simo sengqondo namanje siyindlala ngisho asexuals. Ngokuvamile, bonke nomkhawulo bashabalala evamile sexual.

Kodwa kuthiwani ngabantu abangenacala nabantwana?

Abaningi wezwa asexuals, uzibuze lapho kufanele zivela izingane. Kodwa nakhu Kufanele kwaziwe kodwa ukuthi laba bantu akuzona abangenamandla noma nenzalo - bamane ungathandi ocansini. Ngenxa yalokho, bakwazi ungowesilisa izinkolelo zabo ukuze sifinyelele umgomo oyinhloko.

Nokho, lolu hlobo kwenzeka ukuthi kokubili abalingani nje awukwazi ukubekezelela yesenzo socansi. Base anganquma nje ukuba afihle lokho ayikho ingane. Ikakhulukazi ngokuvamile kwenzeka kulezo isikhathi eside angeke ayakhulelwa bese engafuni ukucindezela self yakho elingaphakathi.

Ubani isengozini?

Ngesizathu esithile, abaningi kwadingeka ngemibono ayilungile ukuthi lolu hlobo yokucabanga kuphela ukuthuthukisa kulabo kakade engaphezu kuka-40, noma ube losers inveterate. Eqinisweni, lithi kufanele sizikhethe esizikholelwayo, futhi lokhu kufakazelwa eziningi vo.

Ngakho, umuntu-aseksual - into efanayo evamile, efana nowesifazane. Kulokhu, ngokuvamile izimpawu zokuqala kuleli zwe ziqala ukuvela abaneminyaka ephakathi kwengu-16 kuya ku-25. Ezimweni eziningi, ukuba kwabo neminyaka asexual kakade ngokugcwele izidingo zabo nemibono 20.

Kungani baba waziwa muva nje?

Eqinisweni, asexuals eziningi manje ukufihla imizwa yabo yangempela. Isizathu ukwesatshwa ukuthi umphakathi ngeke unenyanye. + Phela, efuna ukwakha ubuhlobo nomuntu ongafuni ukuba nenze ubulili?

Izinto zashintsha lapho ngempela nje okungaqondile kolwazi mayelana nalaba bantu nokuthi awuwedwa. Ngalesi asexuals kungenzeka, ekugcineni, aphume izithunzi bese ubheka ambalwa phakathi zazo siqu.