Lokho kuyinto enhle, isenzo esihle? Ubugovu futhi Ukukhathalela abanye ngempela kuphakamisa

Wonke umuntu okungenani kanye ezimpilweni zabo wazibuza ngalokho yinto enhle, isenzo esihle. Yiqiniso, lokhu ungaphendulwa ngezindlela ezahlukene, kodwa bonke abantu baqonde ukuthi isenzo esihle - kuwukuziphatha zabo ukuze bakhonze izithakazelo omunye umuntu. Kulesi sihloko, sizohlola ezimbili kuphela eziyisisekelo kungenzeka imisebenzi emihle: sokukhathalela nobugovu. Asiqale nge Egoism esobala kancane ezihloniphekayo, nge.

Ubugovu njengesisekelo nezenzo ezinhle

Kunengqondo indida kanye ubuwula, kodwa ezimweni eziningi kuba. Kukhona kulo mqondo indaba, cishe umzekeliso, kodwa kwathatha sibalo zangempela zomlando --Abraham Lincoln.

Uma Lincoln wayehamba inqola eyodwa iphoyisa, bebephikisana ngokuthi isizathu ekuziphatheni kwabantu. Isikhulu umangalele ukuthi isisekelo sakho konke - oluphathelene nokuzidela, futhi Lincoln yayiqiniseka ukuthi ubugovu.

Life wahlulelwa Uphi umphikisi: Umqeqeshi wadabula emfuleni ebhulohweni, ngokungazelelwe umongameli American wabona ingulube washaya udaka lomfula, eduze kwamanzi, ie-ke sisengozini ... Imvula falling. Lincoln wagxuma ngqo isudu ngaphansi imvula Ulondoloze ingulube, edonsa ke odakeni futhi ukudonsa isilwane endaweni ephephile. Suit spoilt kodwa bejabule Lincoln wabuyela ukuthutha. Isiphathiswa wamtshela ukuthi wayesanda inqatshelwe umbono wakhe siqu. "Kungani?" - wamangaza umongameli wase-America. "Kungani, wena usindiswe ingulube, futhi bazuze ke akukho cha!" - olusemthethweni eziphakanyisiwe. "Ngokuphambene nalokho, uma ngingazimemezelanga ukulisindisa, kodwa ngeke ikwazi ke ngeke abathethelele nanini," - kubhavumula Lincoln.

Cabanga ngalokhu-ke, lokho kuyinto enhle, isenzo esihle.

Ake sithi uma abayizinjinga banikele ingxenye inhloko-dolobha yabo ukuze izingane ezigulayo, njengoba ngokuhunyushwa? Futhi uma enza kanjalo futhi isuswe ikhamera, zilotshiwe amaphephandaba? Kuyini - PR noma yinto enhle?

Futhi ngisho noma kungekho muntu owaziyo mayelana iminikelo ngomuntu ocebile, mhlawumbe kube buhlungu unembeza noma otmalivaet izono? Indlela yonke le ngokungenabugovu?

Kuyinto njalo ezithakazelisayo ngalo mqondo, cabanga ngalokho yinto enhle, isenzo esihle ngendlela, isenzakalo esisodwa ethize.

Ukukhathalela abanye ngempela kuphakamisa abangcwele spodvigaet kanye lwasemaphusheni namaqhawe ukwenza izenzo ezinhle

imisebenzi emihle futhi izenzo okumsulwa, sokukhathalela ayinzima can kuphela abangcwele lwasemaphusheni izinhlamvu. Futhi akukho lutho kumcasule lo isakhamuzi abavamile, obani, futhi, ngokwesibonelo, i-isicebi, njengoba saint - nguye enqobe imikhuba emibi zokuthambekela kobuntu futhi eduze izimiso neyobuntu. Isibonelo okuphawuleka kakhulu kulo mqondo, yebo, iisus hristos. Uma sibheka umlando zamuva, kuba Mat Tereza noma Gandhi. Bona ngokungenabugovu wakhonza abantu.

Lapho abantu abaningi abakucabangayo ngalezi namaqhawe - izenzakalo yamasiko emlandweni wezwe, akukho nokuncane ukungabaza ngalokho yinto enhle, isenzo esihle, ngoba impendulo isobala: e wokuzidela ngenxa impilo nenjabulo yabanye.

Esikhathini ifilimu Aleksandra rou "Frost", esekelwe Russian Folk yezinganekwane futhi babe isibonelo isenzo sokuzidela ngokuphelele, lapho siguqulelwa ibhere, Ivan wanquma ukuthatha isalukazi ukuze bakhohlwe izinkinga zabo kuye. Hero ngaphandle "umcabango wesibili" banquma ukwenza umsebenzi omuhle, okuyinto yini eyayidingeka kuye Old Man Mushroom, contact narcissistic insizwa nebhere.

Ngamanye amazwi, imizekeliso futhi izindaba bagcizelele ukuthi yinto enhle noma isenzo esihle engavumelekile itholakala kuphela uma umuntu renounces muntu, izidingo siqu futhi baye bacabange kuphela ngezithombe inhlalakahle nenjabulo, induduzo omunye umuntu. A enhle emangalisayo, akunjalo?

Kodwa uma siphendukela izindaba edabukisayo zethu, kuvela ukuthi akubalulekile kangako, okuyindawo uthola umthombo ezinhle ukondliwa (Ukukhathalela noma ubugovu). Into esemqoka ukuthi kwaba yisikhuthazo likhula futhi ukuthola. Kodwa abantu babengazi Ungakhohlwa ukuthi, ngaphezu kwabo, izwe ompofu nogulayo ngubani ngempela udinga usizo.