Kuyini yokuzilibazisa? Adult nokuzijabulisa zezingane

Wonke umuntu uyazi namuhla ukuthi yokuzilibazisa ezifana nokuthi kuyinto ejwayelekile ngaye. Ngakho-ke, kulesi sihloko sizohlola kafushane incazelo ejulile leli gama, kanye ukwandisa umbono abaningi kule ndlela ncamashi nesikhathi sokuzijabulisa kungaba kwenziwe nge inzuzo enkulu kunazo zonke futhi inzuzo. Ngemva yisibambiso izinga kanye kokuhlala ezimnandi - siyisiqiniseko imizwelo eyakhayo okwengeziwe ikhiqize kakhudlwana futhi abaningi.

incazelo "Incwadi" eside

Uma sikhuluma e okuvamile mayelana nokuthi ezokungcebeleka, kungase kuqashelwe ukuthi le isikhathi nje khulula ukuthi ngamunye wethu angasho ukuchitha akuthandayo. Abantu abaningi bakhetha ukulandela amahora ezingekho ibhizinisi nezinsuku ukuba bahlanganyele wokuzilibazisa ukuthi zingase zishintshe kakhulu: umuntu ukuhlala nje ekhaya futhi ukubukela i-TV, umuntu okhetha ukuba nabangane noma izihlobo. Ngeshwa, kulezi zinsuku, bambalwa abantu abacabanga inhlangano yomsebenzi khulula izinsuku zabo, ngakho abantu baphumule ngokugcwele, nokuthi kuthinta umkhiqizo eliphansi nemisebenzi yabo esikhathini esizayo. Nokho, thina ngeke bangene kwabantu, futhi ukucabangele ngaphezulu umqondo ewumngcingo leli gama.

Yini le esikhuluma isichazamazwi?

Incazelo ezivame kakhulu isichazamazwi lokho ezokungcebeleka, iyona esilandelayo: "kuba mahhala emsebenzini futhi ukwenza ezimweni eziphuthumayo isikhathi ukuthi umuntu angachitha njengoba afuna." Ababevumelene ngaso, ethi kafushane, kodwa ezomile. Eminye imithombo sithenjiswe incazelo obucacile ngaphezulu. Ngakho yokuzilibazisa - iqoqo izinhlobo ezahlukene imisebenzi ukuthi umuntu kungaba kwenziwe lutho umsebenzi isikhathi ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zabo zomzimba nezenhlalo ezingokomoya. Nokho, e-subtext usikisela ukuthi ezokungcebeleka kumane nje kuyingxenye yomthwalo isikhathi free, okusho kukhona ingqondo ukuthi ngoba kumelwe nakanjani babe inzuzo, amahora kungenjalo ukuthi usuke udlale ngesikhathi.

Izibalo nokungcebeleka

Kokunye ekwakhiweni okungukuthi ezokungcebeleka, futhi wabhekisela iphesenti amahora nezinsuku abantu ulichithe nokwaneliseka "non-ukusebenza" izidingo zabo. Ngokwesibonelo, emazweni umnotho ezibalulwa kanjena ngokufanele futhi umkhakha umuntu echitha amahora angaba ngu-1000 ngonyaka eholidini. Uma sikhuluma amazwe yezwe yokuqala, lemali esichithwa ezokungcebeleka iri ngonyaka sekuseduze ayizinkulungwane 4. Lezi izibalo enyuka emhlabeni wonke, abantu yonke indawo ozama kakhulu ngendlela okumele okungenzeka ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zabo, kunokuba izindaba esiphuthumayo futhi ikhaya. Ngebanga lalokho, lokhu kwandisa inzuzo lebalulekile zezimali uzijabulisa. On konke lokhu uhola amapaki, Equestrian amakilabhu, zokudlela kanye yeshashalazi, izinhlangano zezingane, kuma-nightclub kanye nezinye izikhungo sikwazi nijabula uphumule futhi angatholi sijeziso.

Indlela yokwenza isikhathi sakho khulula ezithakazelisayo?

Kube nenkinga ebaluleke kakhulu kubona bonke abantu emhlabeni liwukuphela kwenhlangano imisebenzi yokuzilibazisa ngezinga elingakanani. Kuthinta izithakazelo ngabanye, umbuthano wakhe nomphakathi, izinkolelo zakhe ezingokwenkolo futhi umbono abanawo emhlabeni wonke, kodwa into ebaluleke kakhulu - ukuze bafeze imisebenzi yokuzilibazisa ezithinta izimali zawo. Ngakho-ke, ake uqale kusukela yokuthi iningi lethu - abantu isilinganiso abakwaziyo umdlalo noma umdanso. Ukuya ejimini, zomdanso, yokubhukuda nezinye izikhungo ezifanayo izimo zivuma cishe wonke umuntu, nakuba kuyazuzisa futhi ewusizo futhi ezithakazelisayo. nebuciko bekuticambela, okungukuthi, umculo, imidwebo, ebaziwe ennoble nathi futhi kwenze kube ezilinganiselayo futhi ezolile. Njengoba sihambisana nale, kuyafaneleka ukukhumbula ukuthi kubalulekile ukuba ahlele yokuzilibazisa izingane, ngoba bona ngokwabo kodwa esimweni ukuze aqonde ukuthi yini enhle kakhulu ongayenza. Ngokuvamile, isizukulwane sentsha eligxile izintandokazi yabazali bazo.

ekupheleni Quick

Zethu ukuzilibazisa izithakazelo nethonya ngqo kwi ukwakheka sengqondo nendlela yabantu yokuphila. Ngakho-ke, ukuhlela yokuzilibazisa isikhathi sabo nokungcebeleka kwezingane zabo, qaphela bese uzama ukuthatha izixazululo nenzuzo kakhulu futhi ewusizo, ozokusiza kuphela uba ngcono.