Kanjani ukuze sicele intethelelo

Kubonakala sengathi kungase kube lula izwi iDemo "uxolo", lokho nje abaningi usiphiwa nobunzima obukhulu. Futhi ngokuvamile kakhulu kuvimbela nokuziqhenya ayo, noma ukungakwazi kahle bacele intethelelo. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, isikhathi kahle wathi, "Ngiyaxolisa" Kungaba esindisa impilo ngoba ubudlelwano bethu abathandekayo. Kodwa zokungazimiseli noma ukungakwazi sicele intethelelo ngokuvamile idala zimo ezimbi empilweni, ababhubhise Izinyunyana ngisho imindeni.

Kuba nzima nakakhulu ukuze sicele intethelelo labo wawucabanga kulungile. Ngakho abantu bakuthola kunzima ukuba awavume amacala akhe, ngisho emehlweni abo, bezama ukuzithethelela ngezenzo zakhe. Nakuba ngenxa sparvedlivosti, kumelwe sivume ukuthi kuba nzima kakhulu kunabanye. Batfola nhlekelele ngaphakathi, bangakwazi bezibeka icala, kodwa abasoze bazenza yena ukusho "Ngiyaxolisa!" Okuningi ku nalokho angakwenza: ukuzitshela ukuthi lutho olubi kwenzeka futhi ake slide isimo.
Kukhona abanye abantu nje angazi kanjani ukuze sicele intethelelo, ungakwazi ukuthola amagama afanele futhi bacabange ukuthi usho okuthile endaweni okwengeziwe kuphela bonakalisa isimo.

Ngakho kanjani kahle sicele intethelelo?

Ngezinye umndeni zokusebenza kwengqondo abe kokubusa ezintathu "P": lokhu kudabuka, isinqumo futhi umphumela.
Sizobe ukukhuluma kabanzi ngazo.

I "P" kuqala - lokhu akukhona ukuphenduka. ukuphenduka okuqotho - imfuneko nokubuyisana. Uma, izwi zokuthethelela kuyofika bebodwa. Uma ukwazi kukhombisa kuvisisa yokuzisola nezinye imizwelo yabantu - intethelelo yakho izokwamukelwa. intethelelo ngobuqotho kungenzeka uma kukhona okwenzeka mutual lowo okonile kanye kabi.
Eyesibili "P" - isinqumo ukwamukela zibhekane nemiphumela yezenzo zazo. Lapho ikhambi elinjalo, umuntu akazami ukuzakhela izaba ukusola abanye. Isinqumo ukulivuma icala Ibonisa ukuthi ukulawula izenzo zabo futhi otvechaeete ngezenzo zabo.
I wesithathu "P" - umphumela noma inhloso ukuba alungise isimo. Made, njengoba besho, ayikwazi ukulungiswa, kodwa kungenzeka kulungisa sikhatsi lesitako. Odokotela bengqondo luleka ecela uxolo, ukuxoxa plan of action ukuthi kwakuyoba ngcono isimo. Lokhu kuzobonisa ukuthi hhayi kuphela sorry for iphutha lakhe, kodwa ufuna ukugwema ngokuzayo.