Kuphi ukuthola Psychology ezishibhile?

Mina ngokwami, ngangikuthola akudingeki izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo, futhi mina ngokwami Awukwazi ukuhlunga izinkinga zabo. Uma into akusebenzi - kancane ngokwanele sokulila komqamelo, futhi ngokushesha ukuthola indlela yokuphuma nokuthi konke azocaca. Ngezinye izikhathi umuntu ophuma crisis ngaphandle odokotela bengqondo nabakhulumeli uma ngisho ngaphandle kosizo lwabangane. Bonke abantu zihlukile. Nami zikhona izinsuku lapho ungafuni lutho futhi konke kungahambi kahle. Nokho, uma lolo suku ngikhansela zonke izimo, futhi bachithe isikhathi ngendlela ofuna. Zonke bazinqumele ngoMgqibelo. Ngeke isebenze ngoMgqibelo, umisiwe kuze kushaye iSonto. Abantu abaningi zama ukugwema ubuhlobo nge wezengqondo ukuba ixazulule izinkinga zabo ngokuzimela. Futhi akusiwona ukwenqena kangaka ukuze bathole usizo, njengoba ukuswela imali, isikhathi, ukungabaza mayelana nobuchwepheshe bale ezinye izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo. Kwenzeka ukuthi ngisho onguchwepheshe abahle akunakusisiza. Kodwa umuntu uyaludinga ngempela usizo ngokwengqondo. Umuntu nje ufuna ngempela ukukhuluma wezengqondo. Yena iyalidinga.

Wenzani lapho ungafuni ukuba overpay, futhi usizo lochwepheshe kuyadingeka?

Indlela elula kulesi simo - oshibhile saqala sokusebenza kwengqondo. Yiziphi izinzuzo is novice kwengqondo? ochwepheshe Young basuke bezimisele ukusiza abantu abazama ukwenza umsebenzi wabo kahle ukuthenga idumela elihle. Plus futhi ukuthi kube nokuxoxisana kuqala hhayi kuyodingeka bakhokhe eziningi, ngisho noma ngesikhathi uyazi, "kungasi yakho" Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo. Kunoma ikuphi, yangasese ekuzibandakanyeni sokusebenza kwengqondo elusizo kakhulu lowo usebenza enkabeni sengqondweni ngempela, njengoba esimweni sesibili, kuzodingeka ukuba sizinake ngaphezu futhi kucocisana isikhungo. Ngakho ukhululeke ukuxhumana imfundamakhwela ukuze wezifo yangasese, futhi, kudingeka umuntu ukuqala.

Manje ku-intanethi ungathola inombolo ezanele iziphakamiso, ukuba umuntu amane nje olithayipha injini yokusesha - i sokusebenza kwengqondo engabizi. Ukuhlola ukuthi ikhambi sokusebenza kwengqondo yakho, kubalulekile ukubona isithombe sakhe. Ngokuvamile, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo ezinhle - kuba Ungumuntu omuhle. Ukubheka isithombe ngokuvamile kwenza kube nokwenzeka ukuba baqonde, obungenza ufuna ukuhlangana lowo muntu. Ukuze uqale ukukhuluma kuye, bengalaleli ilizwi lakho kwangaphakathi, imizwa yakho. Lokhu kuzokusiza uqonde kangcono ukuthi ungafaka sekusondele contact ezingokomoya.

Kukhona omunye wesithupha lapho ukhetha izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo, okumele ilandelwe: umgwaqo wezengqondo akusho ezinhle, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo engabizi - akusho ezimbi! Izinga eliphezulu nobuchwepheshe (njengoba kuboniswa izibalo) ongakaphathelani high intengo ukubonisana. Ngaphambi behlangana onguchwepheshe, qiniseka ukuthi ngempela uchwepheshe. Bheka ikhophi amaphepha akhe ziqu. Njengomthetho, professional ngenjabulo ukukubonisa amaphepha adingekayo.

Njengoba kuveziwe ngodokotela, indoda kumelwe ihlangabezane ngezikhathi singene ezimweni ezicindezelayo. Sonke, kuye ngokuthi kuyokwenzekani kithi uma empilweni, kukhona schizoid futhi akahlanye futhi bacindezeleke, kodwa ukucindezeleka okungapheli kungayilimaza kakhulu ukulimaza umzimba. Ngakho-ke, kwezinye izimo akukuhle ukulinda yezinkinga ukubona wezengqondo. Phela, umsebenzi wengqondo kule futhi ukusiza.