ingane ubhapathizo - omunye imicikilisho emaphakathi futhi ebaluleke kakhulu lwenkolo yobuKristu. Lesisimiso unika umuntu omusha esifubeni besonto sihamba-ke ngaphansi kwesivikelo umnakekeli yingelosi yakhe. Lapho ukubhapathiza izingane? Ngo-Orthodox wanquma ukuba ngibhapathize ingane ngosuku lwama-40 kusukela ngosuku lokuzalwa. Kwesinye isikhathi lokhu eside kungaba, futhi izinsuku 8 nje - ngokuvamile ngosuku 8 kwamagama ingane zenzeka, futhi kwenziwe nge amagama futhi ubhapathizo. Nokho, iningi rush iphutha ezimweni lapho umntwana azalelwa khona ababuthakathaka noma ubuhlungu, ukuze bambambe iSidlo ngoba amasakramente esonto, futhi ngaleyo ndlela uzama ukusindisa noma ukuvikela. Ngezinye izikhathi ukubhapathiza izingane ezinjalo isinqumo ngokushesha emva kokuzalwa, futhi ukwenza kanjalo ngenxa yokuntuleka kwezinhlelo ezibanzi umpristi ayengaqala yiliphi ikholwa Orthodox, nangemva yokutakula ukwenza umcimbi ukugcotshwa nokugeza.
Nokho, i-kahle lapho izingane ziyabhapathizwa ngosuku lwama-40. Kukholakala ukuthi kube yilolu suku kukhona ukuhlanzwa okuphelele abesifazane ngemuva kokubeletha, futhi ngendlela lo mama Ungafaka ethempelini nengane. Zonke labapristi bama-Orthodox bathi yokuphikisa ukubhapathizwa kwezingane, mhlawumbe ngaphambi kokuba afinyelele eminyakeni 7 ubudala (nge imvume yabazali). Futhi lapho ukubhapathiza izingane ezineminyaka engu-7 kuya ku-14, ke akudingi nje kuphela isibusiso wabazali, kodwa futhi kwemvume yengane. Futhi emva kweminyaka 14 kwanele enifisa ingane ukwenza isiko sikhathi ngokuphathelene nobhapathizo.
Eyesibili inkinga ebalulekile le isakramente ubhapathizo ukukhethwa esiphambanweni. Manje kukhethwa godparents ngokuvamile isuke ibangelwa uzwela abazali, ngenxa esiphambanweni kube - lo mthwalo ohloniphekile. Lokhu kusho ukuthi abazali umuntu othembekile nge eqolo - umphefumulo wengane. Futhi umbuzo kukhethwa godparents kumele wasondela njengento ebaluleke kakhulu. Kungenzeka yini ukuba ngibhapathize ingane ukuba indoda, abathi inkolo? Lena engathandeki kakhulu, ngoba isiko yobuKristu, udwendwe kumelwe accustom umfundi wakhe ezindabeni zokholo, ukuhalalisela ku amaholide isonto futhi ukubhekana imfundo yakhe engokomoya. Yiqiniso, kungcono uma ulifunda kuyoba indoda eyodwa nabazali nengane zenkolo. Futhi ngeke sibe godparents ehlatshwa, abantu uphazamisekile emqondweni.
Kungenzeka yini ukuba ngibhapathize ingane ngaphandle odwendweni cross , noma okuphambene nalokho? Lona omunye umbuzo ukuthi ngokuvamile kwenzeka lapho ebhapathizwa. Ngomqondo onabile, ngokuvumelana abapristi ukubhapathizwa godparents eyodwa kuphela - bobulili obufanayo njengoba ingane, okuyinto abazobhapathizwa. Nokho, manje, avame abazali balinge ukuphakamisa yebhangqa godparents of abesilisa nabesifazane ezahlukene. Ngokuvamile, kuyaqondakala, ngoba abazali wengane, futhi, ababili, kungani umfundisi engokomoya okufanele babe munye. Kodwa ingabe kufanele sikhumbule ukuthi abakwazi kube godparents kokubili abantu emshadweni, kanye nabazali ingane ngokwabo.
Imithwalo zihlanganisa kwemukelwa engu- ngendlela ekhethekile ithawula-kryzhmu umntwana emva babezihlambulula isiko, futhi ubeka isiphambano engu- wengane. Ngakho, esiphambanweni evamile ku neketanga - lokhu kuyisipho lokuqala godparents icala lakhe. Kodwa imisebenzi isiphambano ayigcini. Lapho izingane abhapathizelwa, abantu ngokuzithandela iqalise yemfanelo maqondana godson yakhe - manje kumele nsuku ukuthandazela izingane zabo zibhapathizwe, lokhozi konke ukuphila kwabo njengombhangqwana nentuthuko engokomoya. Godchildren, soglasnotraditsii, vakashela godparents kwabo Christmas, kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi asikho isidingo ukuba zivakashele phakathi nonyaka. Kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ubhapathizo - kuwumthwalo, kodwa okufanayo futhi injabulo enkulu - ukuba abazali ezingokomoya umfana omncane.