Izimpawu zangaphandle ze-autism ezinganeni ezineminyaka emibili ubudala

Izingane ezincane ziyamnandi kakhulu! Kuyinto injabulo yabazali abazali abavame ukugula ngayo, futhi kuhle uma udokotela wezingane enza izifo zokuthola izifo ezingekho lutho - i-ARD noma i-ARVI. Ngeshwa, lezi zifo zihlukile, futhi eziningi zazo zimbi kakhulu, ikakhulukazi uma umuntu ebona okuthile okungalungile ngezigaba kamuva, lapho inqubo isivele idlule kakhulu. Kodwa amanye ama-pathologies ngobuqili angabonakala eminyakeni yokuqala yokuphila. Ngaphambili isifo "sibanjwe", lapho ingane ingcono kakhulu yokuguqula impilo yanamuhla. Uma abazali beqaphele izimpawu ze- autism ezinganeni ezineminyaka emibili ubudala, ungesabi futhi ungesabi ingane. Yebo, lezi azizona izibonakaliso ezinhle, kodwa azizona ezibalulekile. Ingane ingaba nokuphambana okumbalwa, okunganqotshwa ngokusebenzisana nomfundisi osebenza kahle-isazi sengqondo.

Kwenzeka kanjani-ke?

Ngomama ngamunye, ingane yakhe yedwa futhi iyingqayizivele, kodwa isimo lapho umntwana ezalwa isiguli, abazali njalo bayithatha kanzima. Abantu abaningi bacabanga ngokulahla umntwana, ngaleyo ndlela bekhipha umthwalo wemithwalo wemfanelo kusuka emahlombe abo.

Kodwa isifo sokubeletha akusiso sonke isinqumo! Ikakhulukazi uma ubona lesi sifo ngesikhathi (kithi, isibonakaliso sokuqala siyoba izimpawu ezikhanyayo ze-autism ezinganeni ezineminyaka emibili ubudala).

Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi isimo salesi sifo siseseyimfihlakalo esintwini. Kunamakhulu ezinkolelo, kodwa akekho kubo okuyi-axiom futhi ayihlanganisi lesi sifo kuzo zonke izici. Ososayensi bangacabanga ukuthi izimbangela ze-autism zilele ezinkingeni zokuthuthukiswa kobuchopho bomuntu esikhathini se-embryonic. Mhlawumbe ingozi yengozi yokushintshashintsha kwe-hormone. Kodwa ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi lesi sifo singabanjwa esiteji sokuqala futhi ngangokunokwenzeka ngangokunakekelwa kwesikhathi sokulungisa ingane. Ingabe ingane yakho izohlala emphakathini? Ukuxhumana nobulili obuhlukile? Yenza abangane noma ube nomndeni? Kubantu abane-autism, zonke lezi zici zokuba zingavunyelwe noma zivele zingadingekile. Akukho lutho olwesabekayo kubazali kunokuba ubukele ingane futhi uzizwa ungenasici. I-autist ayithembi abantu, iyabesaba, izama ukuzifihla futhi igxile njalo emkhatsini wezwe langempela neliphakathi, elungisiwe. Ungamkhipha lapho?

Isibalo

Nakuba kuyadabukisa, kodwa kubalulekile ukubhubhisa ngokushesha ithemba kanye nokulindela kwabazali bese uthi i-autism yisifo esingelapheki. Kumele aphile naye konke ukuphila kwakhe. Kodwa ngamacala angu-95%, ungakwazi ukubona izimpawu ze-autism ezinganeni ezineminyaka emibili nangaphambili. Kungani kubalulekile ukukhomba inkinga ekuqaleni? Iqiniso liwukuthi lesi yisifo sengqondo-ngokomzwelo esithuthuka uma singelashwa ngesikhathi. Ingane ingahle ivele ngemuva kokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo, ucingo oluvela emphakathini, ukhohlwe imithetho eyisisekelo yokuhlanzeka komuntu siqu. Futhi akuyona iphutha lakhe, ngoba akawazi nje ukuthi angabhekana kanjani nenkinga enjalo. Iphutha labazali ukuthi liyizibuko ezibomvu futhi abanikezeli usizo olufanele ngesikhathi esifanele. Phela, amasu anamuhla anikezela ithuba eliyiqiniso lokuba i-autist ivumelane nomphakathi, ithuthukise ukuhlakanipha futhi ifunde nendlela yokuveza imizwelo yabo ngaphandle kokwesaba.

Izingane ezincane zibhekene nempumelelo ekuhambeni kokuqondisisa kwezwe, kodwa abantu abane-autistic bahluke ezinganeni ezijwayelekile ngisho nangonyaka wokuphila. Iyini i-autism enganeni? Isithombe asikwazi ukudlulisela isithombe sangempela. Le kid ayinakuzivikela ngaphambi kwezwe. Uvulekile kakhulu futhi usengozini. Akakwazi ukumelana nomunye umuntu, futhi akanalo amandla okulwa nendawo elangeni. I-autistic ibuthakathaka, futhi uma ingekho ukwelashwa, ngaleyo minyaka angayenqaba ngokuphelele ukuhlangana nabanye abantu. Ama-autistics amaningi azama ukuzihlukanisa ngisho nabazali bawo, nakuba ezimweni eziningi kuphela abavumela.

Kubantwana

Ngakho, izimpawu zokuqala ze-autism ezinganeni zibonakala kakade ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele, uma ingane ingabi nesimo sobuso, izici zobuso zibonakala ziqhwa. Akajabuli, futhi ubuso abubonakali injabulo. Ngenyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye, i-karapuz enempilo isivele ilingisa imisindo, ukuzama ukubiza amagama ngabanye, ukuphendula okushiwo kwangaphandle, iyaqaphela izihlobo. Ku-autist lezi zinjabulo aziwa. Inyane elilodwa elineminyaka elilodwa elingenayo i-bluster, alihambanga futhi alenze imisindo ehlekisayo, - niyabona, lokhu kuyamangalisa. Ngisho nasemindenini engasebenzi, izingane eziphilile zijabule ngosuku olufikile, zithinta elangeni, zihlaba umomese futhi zihleka, ziyakuthanda ukudla okumnandi. I-autist ayinandaba nabanye. Izimpawu zokuqala kanye nezimpawu ze-autism emntwaneni kufanele zixwayise abazali, kepha ungapheli amandla. Kusukela kubantu abadala kuxhomeke ngalesi sikhathi. Hamba okuningi nengane, funda ngokuzwakalayo izinkondlo kanye nezindatshana, uhlabelele izingoma udlale nazo. Ukusabela okuyingqayizivele kwengane kungabonakalisa umcabango wakho kuphela, kodwa awukwazi ukubhala zonke izinkathazo ngefantasy. Bheka udokotela uma uqaphela ukungaqondakali. Khona-ke ungazibonga ngokuqapha kwakho.

Ngemuva konyaka

Ngalesi sikhathi umntwana usuvele unamandla ngokwanele. Uyabona umndeni wakhe, uhlangana nabo ngokumomotheka, uzama ukukhuluma. Izimpawu ze-autism ezinganeni ezineminyaka emibili ubudala - lokhu kuthula nokuhluleka ukuveza amagama acacile. Ngokumangazayo, ingane eyisithulu kusukela ekuzalweni isabela ngesimo sobuso, kuyilapho i-autistic ihlala ithule. Izwe lakhe alikho imibala nemizwelo, kodwa lesi yisikhathi esihle kakhulu sokuphazamiseka kwangaphandle. Ngalesi sikhathi ingane ikulungele ukuthuthukiswa, ingakwazi ukunqoba yona futhi ikhule njengomuntu olungele ukuba khona emphakathini. Yini okufanele ngiyenze?

Okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ingane kufanele ijwayele futhi yamukele izwi lomama, ukuxhumana ngokomzimba naye, iphunga layo nokufudumala. Bonke othintana nomama we-autist bafana namandla okuphulukisa, okwenza ukuba kuthuthukiswe. Ubaba woxhumano olunjalo ngokuvamile akenzeki. Ngendlela, ngumama ongasolwa nge-autism ezinganeni ngaphambi kwakho konke. Izimpawu zokuqala ze-pathology: ingane ayimomotheka, ayibheki amehlo, ayithandi ukuba abe ezandleni zakhe; Ngezinye izikhathi akayikuhlukanisa nakwabanye abantu, akanikeli okubonakalayo okuthintana naye.

Iminyaka emibili

Ngisho nengane enempilo enempilo iyazi ngokuzimela kwayo kancane kancane. Ekuqaleni ucabanga ngobuqotho ukuthi uxhumekile nonina futhi empeleni ukuqhubeka kwayo. Kodwa eminyakeni engu-2 kukhona kakade izinguquko ezithile. Kulezi zikhathi, ungakwazi ukuhlukanisa izimpawu zokuqala ze-autism enganeni. Iminyaka engu-2 iyinyaka ethakazelisayo, ecebile ekutholeni. Ingane kuqala ihlangana futhi ibona izinkathi zonyaka, ithola izipho, mhlawumbe iya enkulisa noma okungenani ixhumana nabangane kwisayithi. Ake ubheke ingane yakho. Uhlezi ekhoneni lika-Beech futhi akacabangi lapho amathoyizi akhe ethathwa omunye umntwana?

Yiqiniso, lesi akusona isizathu sokucabangela ingane yakho igula. Mhlawumbe unamahloni futhi unamahloni. Zama ukudlala nawe ngokwakho. Ingabe ufika oxhumana naye? Ungabheka emehlweni akho? Ukuthinta kuwe? Akesabi ukuthatha ithoyizi yakho kuwe? Hlala emaceleni? Zonke lezi zenzo zitholakala ezinganeni ezivamile. Uma kungenjalo ... Khuluma njalo nengane. Izwi lomuntu wasemakhaya liyancipha futhi lilungisa isimo sengqondo esihle. Uma izinsolo zakho ziqinisekisiwe, futhi udokotela atholakale ukuthi "i-autism", thinta ukuthi ingane izokwazi ukuzikhomba njengomuntu ohlukile kuwe. Zama ukwenza izinqumo ndawonye. Njalo thintana nomntwana bese uchaza izenzo zakho. Kusuka ku-autist ayikwazi ukuxoshwa, buyela kabusha umbuzo, kungenjalo uzovele uvale uqobo. Uma ufingqa, khona-ke umbuzo wokuthi ungabona kanjani i-autism enganeni engama-2 iminyaka, ungaphendula lokhu: lalela futhi uzwe!

Kuze kube ngu-5

Kubazali abanothando, ingane ihlala iyingane njalo, kodwa ingaphansi kweminyaka emihlanu ingabizwa ngokuthi i-pre-school ngokuphepha. Ingane ehlongozwayo ngokuthi "i-autism" isencane kakhulu esikoleni akufanele inikwe. Esiklasini esikhonyayo, ngeke akhululeke futhi esabe. Uma ubheka ngokucophelela ukuziphatha kwakhe ngaphambili, mhlawumbe waqonda indlela yokubona i-autism emntwaneni oneminyaka emibili: udinga ukuqonda izwe lakhe, ukwesaba kwakhe. Ingane ngempela iyesaba iqiniso elizungezile, ngakho hamba ukumhlangabeza ezindabeni ezithile. Masibe nesikole, kodwa esikhethekile, ngamakilasi amancane, lapho abafundi abangu-5-6 kuphela, futhi kukhona isikhathi sokulungiselela. Ngothisha ingane kufanele ibe nabangane, kungenjalo uzobona isikole njengokucindezeleka.

Kuze kube iminyaka emibili, izimpawu zesifo zingafihleka, kodwa-ke zingabonakala, njengoba zisho, ngamehlo. Buka ukuxhumana nabangani bakho. Zama ukusiza indodana yakho / indodakazi yakho ivumelane nezinye izingane. Ivuselela futhi iguqule ekuhambeni okuhle okuhlangene nabangani abanomntwana. Qaphela ukuthi ungabangela izingxabano phakathi kwezingane. I-Autistic ayibangeli umlilo, kepha ingabangela ukucasuka ngokuziphatha kwayo, ivuse umngane kumidlalo yokuhlukumezeka.

Izinkinga zomkhaya

Sidlula emfundweni ukuze sizenze. Yiziphi izimpawu eziyinhloko ze-autism kanye nokuxilongwa kwezingane ekuqaleni? Ingabe kuyadingeka ngempela ukuba ingane iqhubeke nokubhekwa? Yebo, kunjalo. I-autist ayiqondi imibono yezinganekwane, ngeke iphangazwe yiyo. Uthola izindaba ezinokuthula, futhi ukuthula kwakhe kungafaniswa nokunganaki. Into eyithatha ngempela i-autistic evela kuye yilephula umthetho wakhe. Abagunyazi banezinkumbulo ezinhle zalezo zinto abafuna ukuzikhumbula. Bakhumbula ukuhlelwa kwefenisha, isikhathi sokudla ukudla, imithetho yomdlalo ofundwayo kanye nezingubo eziphakanyiswe imicimbi ethile. I-autist iyethusa uma umbhede wakhe ushintshiwe waba yinto entsha, kusencane kakhulu ukuvala ukukhanya ebusuku, ukukhala umsindo, noma ukulaja i-pizza ngesidlo esikhundleni sesobho evamile nenkukhu. Ngeminyaka emihlanu, igebe lobuhlakani phakathi kwe-autism nezinye izingane selivele libonakala.

Lapha kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi "i-autist" ayifani ngokufanayo negama elithi "isiwula". I-Autism yilephulwa emsebenzini wobuchopho, kodwa ukuphazamiseka kuyingqayizivele. Ingxenye eyodwa kuphela yobuchopho ingathinteka, kuyilapho bonke abanye bezosebenza 100%, noma ngaphezulu. Umbhali ongenakukwazi ukuqinisa ibhulukwe lakhe angakwazi ukuxazulula ukulinganisa engqondweni yakhe, ukufaka ama-theory, ukubhala izindaba ezinhle kakhulu noma ukudweba izithombe. Kumgibeli wakhe kuyoba nephuzu elilodwa kuphela - induduzo nethuba lokuhlala yedwa. Ngendlela, ekuphileni kwansuku zonke kulula ukubona i-autism ezinganeni. Izibonakaliso zokuqala zibonakala ngendlela ingane ihlupheka ngayo. Ingabe kuhle ngaye? Ingabe usheshe alale lapho abantu abadala bephuma ekamelweni? Ingabe ukwesaba ubumnyama noma ukugqwala? I-autist ngeke isabe lokho okungaqondakali, ngoba lokhu kunemizwa embalwa kakhulu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukuhlambalaza kanjani, kodwa ingane enjalo ihlala ikhetha isizungu emphakathini womuntu, ngisho noma abazali bayo noma abangane bakhe.

Amafomu anamandla

Iyini i-autism enganeni? Isithombe singadlulisela okuyisisekelo saleso sifo kuphela. Kuyinto yokugula kwengqondo-okuqhubekayo okuqhubekayo okubandakanya ukuchithwa okuphelele kobuntu , uma nje kuvunyelwe ukuhamba yedwa futhi ngeke ukulwa nayo ebuntwaneni. Ezigaba zokuqala zesifo kunganciphisa, futhi ngisho nokumiswa. Qaphela inkulumo yengane, ikhono lakhe lokuhlaziya idatha, isimo sengqondo sakhe sokugqoka. Uhlobo olunzima lwe-autism luhambisana nezenzo ezingachaziwe. Ingane ingazizwa ihlazekile ngezembatho, zama ukuhlukumeza uhamba. Angakwazi ukuthandana nezinto ezingenakwenzeka, aqale ukuziphathe kabi futhi ngokungahloniphi. Ukulala ku-autistic akusizi kahle, ngoba angesaba noma yini ephathekayo. Kodwa izingozi zangempela azimboni. Izibalo ezibonisa: manje izingane ezingu-90 zitholwa ngenye yezingane ezingu-90 ezixilongwa ngokuthi "i-autism", nakuba eminyakeni eyishumi edlule izibalo zahluke kakhulu: i-kid eyodwa ku-1 000. Ososayensi abakwazi ukunikeza impendulo ecacile embuzweni wokuthi yini echaza izinga lokuzalwa kwe-autistics nokuthi Lokhu kugwenywe.

Izimbangela

Kungenzeka ukuthi ungene ngaphakathi kweqembu eliyisimiso zonke izici eziyingozi ezingabangela ukuzalwa kwengane ngokuxilongwa okunjalo. Isizathu sokuqala, yiqiniso, ukuguqulwa kwezakhi. Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ingane kufanele ihlelwe futhi ifakwe, uma kungenjalo abazali abasha bangamvuza ngesiguli sezifo ezikhulile ngesisekelo sokuphuza ngokuhlanganyela, ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa nokuzithokozisa ngezidakamizwa zokudla. Ngokucophelela kufanele uqale ingane, uma omunye wabazali enezinyosi eziphilayo zesimiso sezinzwa eziphakathi, ukwehluleka kwe-hormonal noma i-mercury poisoning.

Isici esibalulekile umthelela wokutheleleka kwamagciwane nesibindi, ukusetshenziswa okungenamkhawulo kwemithi noma imiphumela yamakhemikhali emzimbeni wesifazane ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa.

Kuvela ukuthi i-autism kulula ukuvimbela kunokwelapha. Nakuba, ngokwesibonelo, e-US kunezindlela eziningi nezinhlelo ezihlose ukuphatha lesi sifo. Ngokuyinhloko, ukwelashwa kusekelwe ekufundiseni izingane kwezinye izimo zokuziphatha. Umqondo wezifo zengqondo ungakwazi ukubona i-autism enganeni. Isithombe kwezinye izimo kuzokwanela. Isazi singakwazi ukubhekana nayo ngabanye noma eqenjini, kodwa umsebenzi kufanele uhambe ngendlela eyinkimbinkimbi, okungukuthi, kuzo zonke izigaba zemfundo. Ingxenye yengonyama yokuphumelela ixhomeke kubazali nezihlobo abangafaka ingane emakhono okuphila okudingekayo ekhaya. Isibonelo, izifundo zokuhlanza amazinyo kufanele zenziwe njalo, okungukuthi, udinga ukufundisa ingane yakho ukuba iya endlini yokugezela ndawonye. Uma ngabe i-oda eliqinile losuku lihlelwe ekuqaleni, ngeke liphulwe. Futhi ngaphansi kokuvinjelwa ukuguqulwa okubucayi esimweni kanye nendlela enhle yokuphila endlini. Awukwazi ukumangaza ingane bese uphakamisa izwi lakho. Ukumemeza okukodwa kungabulala iminyaka eminingi.

"Izigcawu" ezikhathazayo eziphathekayo

Ukwesaba ukuxilongwa - i-autism ezinganeni. Izimpawu zesithombe azidlulisi kahle ngokunembile, kodwa kakade ukude ungakwazi ukubona ukunganakwa komuntu, izici zobuso ezibandisiwe, ukungabi nomusa kanye nokubukeka, izandla ezikhukhumezayo, izibhamu. Ngokuxhumana okubukhoma, ukuzwa kungaphazamisa inkulumo: izingane ezikhulile zingakwazi ukuhamba, lapho noma ukukhala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-autistics ikhuluma ngokwayo kumuntu wesithathu, isebenzisa ukungahambisani okuningi ngaphandle kwamazwi kanye nezikhalo zomuntu siqu. Kumathoyizi abonisa isithakazelo esincane kakhulu, ngoba abasazi ukuthi benzeni nabo. Izenzo ezifanekisayo azizithokozi kubo, ngoba ukucabanga okungabonakali kusezingeni eliphezulu. I-Toys autistics isebenzisa okungezona okujwayelekile, okuyinto, ngendlela, ingaba yisibonakaliso kubazali. Isibonelo, ingane ingakwazi ukuguqula amasondo omshini, hhayi ukuyiqeda; Ukuba nesithakazelo kuphela ezinyaweni zedoli, hhayi yonke into. Lapha kusiza ukuchaza i-autism ezibonakalweni zezingane. Izithombe zezingane ze-autistic zingase zibonise ukuziphatha okungafani. Laba bafana basuke bezungeza ukusuka kolunye uhlangothi, bahlale bezungeza okuthile. Futhi banezimpawu zomzimba ezibonisa isifo. Lezi zihlanganisa ama-cramps ahleliwe, igciwane elingaphelele, isifo sofuba esiswini, nezinye.