Intsha namuhla nokubaluleka kwalo ukuma

Ubani phakathi kwethu ongakaze ngesikhathi esisodwa ongakaze ezwe kusukela abadala ibinzana engcwele mayelana lokuthi intsha samanje namuhla akufani, kanye namagugu awo nemibono ikude le "igolide" esezingeni ngesikhathi sokugcina? Mhlawumbe amazwi anjalo usehlale iminyaka engaphezu kweyodwa, uma hhayi amakhulu eminyaka. Kodwa kungani abantu asebebadala njengoba isimo sengqondo esingaqondile siya kwesinye? Futhi abantu lanamuhla abasha abafanelwe isitatimende ongathandeki ikheli? Ake sizame ukubheka lolu daba ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene.

Ngempela, muva kungenzeka wazi ukuvaleka abalulekile uhla izithakazelo asemasha. Inkomba esemqoka mkhuba phansi ezingeni ukubaluleka komphakathi njengabantu zihlukile ukubaluleka orientation. Intsha namuhla akubalulekile kangako ti temfundvo lefanele kanye self-ukuthuthukiswa, njengoba kwaba yiminyaka engamatshumi amabili noma amathathu edlule. Yebo, isizukulwane esisha bezilokhu okulahlwa isingeniso odlule emisha ezithile emkhakheni yamanani. Nokho, manje kungenzeka ukusho ukuthi nomphakathi inkomba amaphuzu bayizinkulungwane okuningi ngokunembile kunokuthembela ezingokomoya. Ngokuvamile, intsha bathambekele sokufinyelela noma yimiphi ephakeme nje, ukukhohlwa ukuthuthukisa kwezinye iziqondiso. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, isifiso anesikhundla esiphakeme emphakathini kuyinto ngempela ehloniphekile ukuphumelela rate. Kodwa kungenzeka ukufeza okuthile ngaphandle kokwenza imizamo yenkuthalo phambili? Lutho neze. Kodwa intsha yanamuhla, ezimweni eziningi ufuna ukuthola konke, hhayi ukufaka isicelo kulo mzamo. Lokhu kuzakuba yisibonakaliso kundlu okwethusayo kakhulu.

Kubantu abasha emphakathini wanamuhla ngezindlela eziningi kwaba nethonya elibi of abezindaba. Ukufinyeleleka zobudlova nonya, ukuthuthukisa izisekelo kwezentengiselwano ubudlelwane obufanele, buka esilawulayo ukuthi ukufeza noma iyiphi eziphakeme ekuphileni kungenziwa kuphela ahlelwe ngaphansi eyeqisayo kweningi - konke lokhu yakha "amagciwane" asemasha yebutho ubuntu ezifanayo igxile ezingeni lokuphila. Iye, bangakghona futhi unayo izifiso ezithile. Nazi nje izindlela kokusebenza kwabo hhayi ngokucacile labo ababengaphambi. Futhi akekho umuntu uthi kwesimiso sangaphambili wayephelele futhi bebengenayo iphutha isimiso. Vele amafilosofi yayihluke kakhulu, okuhloswe ngazo ukuthuthukisa kumuntu yemfanelo, abanye bazizwa bephoqelekile ukulifunda nokuzinikela ekukhuleni siqu.

Asinakusho intsha ukuthi lanamuhla baphelelwa lezi zimfanelo. Phakathi ke kukhona inala abantu ngempela uzimisele ngokuqinile ukuya ngamagoli abo futhi siqonde esigabeni esisha kakhulu ekuthuthukeni ngokwabo umuntu uvuthwe futhi ezanele ngokugcwele. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokuba icala elingekho zonke futhi ahlukahlukene ngokulahlekelwa ngetenhlalo nemagugu, kufanele sikhumbule ukuthi lapho anqunyelwe phakathi kwabantu bazo zonke izizukulwane.

kumiswa Ofanele ubuntu amaningi iqala wokuqala nomkhulu kunabo bonke nemindeni. Ukuziqeqesha okufanele kuzovumela abazali ukuze banciphise umthelela omubi isimo senhlalo. Ngisho noma emhlabeni uzobe iqhutshelwe phambili ukuphila kokuziphatha okubi, ukuziphatha nemikhuba ehlanekezelwe kanye ukuphambuka kusuka kwezinkambiso imithetho esungulwe, intsha yanamuhla, kuyoba ngenxa izisekelo umndeni, zidlule ukuthuthukiswa yabo ngabanye. Futhi mhlawumbe, yena uyokwenza ukubayisa rừng uphezulu esitebhisini nomphakathi. Ngakho-ke, akunakusetshenziswa akukwazi shift ngokuphelele imfundo ingane emvelweni. Kungenjalo-ke izodinga usizo lwenu kakhulu ku ushintsho emphakathini.

Kufinyeta, singasho okulandelayo. Uhlangothi negative wayehlale kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isizukulwane asizange wabheka. The Company akusho yima, Ukuthuthukisa unwinding njengomuntu Kuvunguza. Ukushintsha indlela yokuphila, isithombe bese ukuziphatha kwabantu. Nokho, kufanele amazinga main kuyisiphazamiso esimisweni sokuhle nokubi futhi izisekelo ezigcinwe ubuntu intsha yanamuhla ingakwazi ukukhetha ukuthuthukiswa endleleni yabo, hhayi ukugxila imvelo iyashintsha ze ezingabazisayo.