Futhi lapho izingane ziqala ukulala ubusuku?

Njalo umama abasha kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuphila ngizibuza njalo: "Lapho izingane ziqala ukulala ubusuku?" Konke ukubhala izincwadi, ukuthi utshela abantu asebebadala, lokho sibopha umphakathi, umndeni nabangane - ngandlela-thile akusebenzi, ngisho isithiyo. Othile luckier, futhi kudingeke ukuba umuntu sifinyelele eside futhi kanzima elamukelekile. Kuyinto into eyodwa - izibalo, lodokotela, kuhlukile - emphilweni kanye nokuqonda ukuthi awuwedwa njengoba befuna. Ngakho, uhlu kafushane imiphumela ebalulekile kanye neziphakamiso ngokuthola kwethu.

Okokuqala nokusemqoka, ukuqonda ukuthi ngathola - yilokho zonke izingane bahluke ngokuphelele. Konke lokhu amabhuku le nkulumo: "Izingane kumele zidle kakhulu, ubuthongo ke, futhi kunjalo nangabalandeli ..." - ayikaze uyakwazi bona. Uma kukhona okushaya amanzi evamile kwabanye, abanye akuvumelekile. Ngakho-ke, asikho isidingo ucede wena ingane izama ukushintsha into. Zama ukuqonda isimo sabo nzima kakhulu kangangokuba angabi naso, kodwa uzibona noma ingane yakho akathandi yini ukuthi "normal", liphindelela ekuzameni ukushintsha konke nakancane.

Ngokusobala, kule nkathi esiphila kulo namuhla, qaphela ukuthi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sizama, kodwa izinqumo ezifanele, akwenzeki. Ukweluleka omunye wezingane, thola izeluleko ezinhle, zonke ezinengqondo futhi elungile. Ukuvula kwenye Uchwepheshe - nokuzwa imibono okuphambene ngokuphelele kanye nezincomo. Ngicabanga wena futhi ujwayelene nalo. Ngoba bonke, ngisho abalobi ezihlakaniphile kakhulu nje baxoxa ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo kanye nolwazi kusuka othile. Futhi empeleni, umuntu akakwazi ukwazi ingane yakho kangcono ukudlula wena. Lokhu ngokuvamile kusho abanolwazi wezingane bendawo abeza ukubiza. Futhi manje ngizama ukuchaza ukuthi kungani.

Iningi izincwadi ziye zahunyushelwa kusukela izilimi zaseYurophu, kululekwa ukubeka umntwana usuke engakabi umane zahlukana nabazali bazo, kodwa ngisho ekamelweni elihlukile - nursery. Uma ingane ilale, wokumemeza, ukuklabalasa nokuxokozela ke pick it up akuzona kudingekile, kodwa kungafika kuphela ngemva 5-10 imizuzu, kafushane ukulibala kanti ushiye ingane futhi. Lena European futhi American nakho prime, okuyinto okunzima kakhulu singagxila isikhala post-Soviet. Mentality yingenxa ihluke kakhulu. Ayikwazi umama buthule ulalele amakhefu izinyane kwelinye ikamelo. okunzima ngokukhethekile unamathele ibhodi bengqondo ukuthi uthathe wengane isandla neqinisekisayo kungenzeka ezimweni lapho strong ukukhala akagcini imizuzu engamashumi amane. Kodwa, ngombono wami, uma ingane, futhi uzokwazi ukuchaza yini noma ukuzwa impendulo ke le ndlela kuyafaneleka. Kodwa ingane kufanele sihambisane nokucwaningwa novivinyo olunjalo, ngisho nalapho kunenkinga impilo - inhliziyo lo mama ayenalo wehluleka.

Lapho izingane ukulala ubusuku? Yebo, ukwethembeka, ungalokothi. Ingabe thina, abantu abadala, musa ukuvuka ebusuku, nalapho okuthile ngephupho noma lapho okuthile okukuphatha kabi? Ngezinye izikhathi umuntu ephelelwa ubuthongo akafiki, uku epholile futhi uvuka. Izingane zonke okufanayo. Kodwa akakhulumanga uqale baphaphame ezimweni ezinjalo, kwabendlu yakhe nakubo musa bophezela jabulisa. Kodwa izingane siyawuvumela. Ngezinye izikhathi bafuna usizo lwethu ke kumelwe sikhuthalele khona. Kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke sethu kufundisa izingane zethu ukwenza ngendlela ethile, bese kubo salokho futhi ngithukuthele. Ngakho-ke umbuzo: "Indlela ukufundisa umntanakho ukulala ebusuku?" - kukhona nempendulo eyodwa kuphela elungile: "Fundisa ingane yakho ukuthi baziphathe kanjani lapho evuka ebusuku." Okuwukuphela kwendlela le nkinga ngeke kusaba inkinga.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, odokotela batusa i-omama abasebasha ukwethula esiqinile ubuthongo futhi yokudla, ukubeka ingane yakho yisishiyagalolunye ebusuku, ukunciphisa sokuthatha isithongwana, faka evamile isinyathelo-nemikhuba eyobonisa ingane ukuthi sekuyisikhathi ukulala. Ngokuvamile, sibonisa ukuthi ngempela Kuyancipha isimo. Ngokuvamile unenkinga elele ngenxa yempilo yengane, izinyo kuqhuma, imizwa ngokweqile yosuku, ushintsho elibukhali nendawo abayijwayele, noma ngisho ukukhathala kanina. Odokotela bezingane bangase ukweluleka ingane yakho amakhambi homeopathic, uma kungenzeka ukuze uthole ukuthi iqondeni izimbangela ubuthongo ompofu. Neurologists zivame ebekiwe zezinkambi lwamakhambi noma ukubhukuda amakhambi akhethekile ngaphambi sokulala. Libuye kahle uthulisa isimiso sezinzwa wengane, ngaphandle kokudala engemihle. Kodwa ukuze mnikeni ngokwakho yimuphi izidakamizwa akuvunyelwe nakancane. Bheka kuphela ochwepheshe.

Futhi nangu kwenye indawo ngokuvamile ethatha webele futhi uncelisa ibhodlela in umongo inkinga. Kukholakala ukuthi grudnichki uvuke kaningi futhi zidinga ukunakekelwa kuphela umama futhi akekho omunye. Kodwa kuvela, nje ebusuku grudnichok ngempela futhi akusho uvuke eduze umama, ngemva kokulunywa ebusuku nesokulala ngokuthula esilandelayo. Usana ibhodlela akuyona kuphela, kodwa futhi uvusa yena ngokuphelele. Njengoba nje ibhodlela kuzoletha, khona-ke kuyadingeka ukuze udle kahle futhi benze konke okunye. Yingakho, mhlawumbe, wayengafuni ukuba baphaphame kaningi. Wavele wayenza zidla kancane empeleni, engazishiyanga nje uhlala nezinye izimo zokuphila kwakhe.

Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngaqala ukuya udaba ngaphesheya. Bafundzi nabacala ukulala ubusuku? Lapha manje, Ngangiye ngithi: "Kusukela azalwa". Ngenhlanhla, ngakwazi ashintshe isimo sakhe sengqondo kwakuyoba umbuzo ohlukile: "Lapho izingane ziqala ukulala ubusuku?" - mina zahlukumeza kimi kuze kube manje. Indodakazi yami ineminyaka engu emihlanu, kodwa njalo ebusuku yena weqa ukusuka izikhathi zi oyedwa kuya kwabahlanu. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi ngingenile lokhu, futhi, mina wagxuma. Ngezinye izikhathi kufanele ukugxeka, ngezinye izikhathi uyavuma. Kodwa ngakho kuyindlela umzimba wengane, ke akuxhomekile kakade, ngisho ezivela kuye. Kancane wafundisa ukuthi imbiza oma eduze indlwana, futhi abazali kufanele bangavuki. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, isimo sethu kungenziwa libhekene ne a plus elikhulu. Ngemva konyaka nengxenye hhayi siye sasebenzisa namanabukeni, kodwa embhedeni ngesikhathi esifanayo ayikaze ekuseni ezimanzi. Indodakazi yena njalo ephaphama nje ngakho. Okuhlukile ezingavamile eziye zenzeka kuphela uma ingane walala ubusuku bonke futhi akazange avuke. Ngakho-ke, uma ingane evuka ebusuku, khona-ke has incazelo yalo futhi imbangela. Mina namanje abazi lapho izingane ziqala ukulala ubusuku bonke. Kodwa angisenawo ukuphazamisa ke lapho ngabona izidingo ingane yabo. Zama zonke ukuqonda, futhi nakanjani ukuthola isisombululo bona. Ngikufisela inhlahla!