Buzzwords okuxhumana - ikhono lokukhuluma ngomusa

Ubugagu bubaluleke kuyo yonke imiphakathi. Umuntu owazi indlela efanele futhi ngokuphumelelayo ukwenza inkhulumomphendvulwano lula ukuthola umsebenzi, uthole ukukhuthazwa ngokusebenzisa kwababusi, wenze ujwayelene nabantu ezintsha. Kuye ngokuvamile lalela emhlabeni, Monologue yakhe kubonakale ezingafanelekile noma oyisiwula.

Kodwa indida iwukuthi, ukuze abanye azibonayo wena njengoba indoda ekhaliphile futhi abafundile, ngokwanele ukuba ugcwalise uhlu lwamagama owaziyo amazwi mayelana amahlanu nje. Kwanele ukusebenzisa amagama athile buzz ukuxhumana, avele emehlweni elingaphezu kwelivamile, zokudala.

Art zokuxhumana nokubhala

Kahle le silulumagama uma ufuna kube yinkinga. kubaluleke kakhulu ngokuqinisekile zilethwe izwi, silulumagama ecacile futhi ukuhlobana amagama athile. Ngokuqinisekile ohlangabezane nazo empilweni ka esimweni lapho umuntu, siqhuba inkhulumomphendvulwano, sizama ukusebenzisa amazwi arcane ukuxhumana usebenzisa ngezinye izikhathi zabo ngokuphelele endaweni nasesikhathini isiZulu okungalungile. Imizamo enjengale ukubheka ayinangqondo futhi ezihlekisayo. Ukuze ugweme lokhu kuwe, ehlome nesilulumagama for zonke izikhathi, hhayi lazy khulu atfole inchazelo yilamagama kanye bomcondvofana kanye nabomcondvophika zabo, Nokwehla, ubulili kanye nokugqamisa. Kuphela ngale ndlela uyokwazi ukuba uwasebenzise ingxoxo ngendlela efanele futhi ngokuphumelelayo.

Ukususa banality

Into yokuqala okudingeka uyenze - kuyinto ukuze sizame ukunciphisa amathuba ukusetshenziswa izinkulumo hackneyed futhi amagama owasebenzisayo ekuphileni kwakho kwansuku zonke. Ngokwesibonelo, iqoqo banal zamagama ezifana "okuhle", "enhle", "smart" nokunye. D. Kungenziwa indawo kancane hackneyed, izindlela, ngoba ngamunye wabo ungasebenzisa uhlu eyolanda okungenani nedlanzana izibizo.

Ngokwesibonelo, igama elithi "enhle" kuye ngokuthi isimo ungashintshwa "elikhanyayo", "nenhle", "okunethezeka", "engenakulinganiswa", "emangalisayo", "okumnandi". "Iwusizo" ezingxoxweni zansuku zonke singase kahle ingasetshenziswa njengendlela "evumayo", "ezinezithelo", "kahle", "esisebenzayo", "kwesokudla". Ngisho izwi elula "smart" kukhona omqondofana eziningi. Kuyadingeka ukuba akhumbule ini futhi isikhalazo uma kudingeka. Nazi ezinye zazo: "behlakaniphile," "namasu", "elihlakaniphile", "umsebenzi omuhle," "Hlakanipha," "ezinengqondo".

Futhi akusho ubuhlungu ukufunda ezinye amazwi obuhlakani nencazelo yawo, ukuze ukwazi ukukhiqiza umphumela oyifunayo kwabanye:

- isici esiyingqayizivele - ukungabekezelelani.

- transcendental - abstract, ngokwengqondo theory.

- Esoteric - izimfundiso ezingaqondakali.

- truism - owaziwayo kahle Eqinisweni, isitatimende noma umbono.

- ngekungababati - esikhundleni abukhali, amazwi ahlabayo futhi amabinzana, kwamukeleke kangconywana futhi ezithambile.

- Sophistry - ikhono ukuqhuba ingxabano bitingly ngobuqili ukwenza amazwi.

- eziphuma - uxhumano ezahlukene kusikisela, imicabango yabantu, noma izinto.

- eyohlobo - iyunifomu.

- Invective - ukuthuka, ukuhlukunyezwa ezinenhlamba.

- baziphatha - ukwehla.

- ihaba - ihaba.

- Ukukhungatheka - ekhungathekile.

- inkulumo - inkulumo, inkulumo.

Isikhathi sokuqala usebenzisa i amazwi obuhlakani ukuxhumana, kungenzeka ngezinye izikhathi kube engakhululekile kanjani engxoxweni, ulimi lwakho uyoba njengomvini hhumuza nasesikhubekisweni kwi "izinkulumo ezintsha". Akukona scary, indlela entsha okuxoxa, njengomuntu izicathulo ezintsha, okufanele ukuthwale. Ngemva kwesikhashana akazange anqikaze, khetha omqondofana kuphumelele kakhulu futhi izinkulumo, ukuveza imibono yabo.

Elonakalisayo ke inkulumo

Into yesibili kufanele sinake yakho - kungcono izwi-izimuncagazi. Ngisho noma awuboni yobukhona babo isichazamazwi sakho, banayo cishe wonke umuntu. Amazwi wayinquma indlebe nendawo ezungezile ungqongqoze inkulumo yakho, ngoba lokhu interlocutors yakho ngezinye izikhathi kunzima ukuqonda ngisho nokucabanga ingxoxo. kakhulu Ukucabanga kulokhu ngokuphelele hhayi ukuqaphela kubo.

Iningi evame ukusetshenziswa izwi-izimuncagazi: Hhayi-ke, lokho ukusho, Ngakho-ke, ukuthi, futhi ngakho cishe akufanele ukhulume iqiniso lokuthi buzzwords ngisho kahle wafunda, okufakwe lapha nge imfuhlumfuhlu enjalo kuze Monologue yakho izejwayezi ukuletha idilike .. yonke imizamo yenu ku ekwakhiweni yokukhuluma nokubhala.

Indlela ukuqeda izwi-izimuncagazi?

Okokuqala kuyingxenye enzima kakhulu kule nqubo ingase ibe ukufunda ukuqaphela kubo enkulumweni yakhe siqu. Uma bebodwa ingabonakali, kungase kudingeke usizo zabantu abaseduze nabo ngokuvamile ukuxhumana noma rekhoda. In the isinyathelo esilandelayo kufanele kube ukufunda kubo alukho noma sithathelwe indawo amazwi obuhlakani ukuxhumana, ukuhlanganisa imiphumela kudingeka futhi ngezikhathi ulalele Monologue sakhe, eqoshiwe on tape. Ngokuhamba ukuthuthukiswa kwenhlangano kanye isiteji inkulumo yakhe siqu, zama ukukhuluma ucabangisisa, ngokunengqondo sakha ibinzana ngalinye, njengoba nje ngemva kwesikhashana uzokwazi ukuba sifunde ikhono lokubuza ngokuphumelelayo bahlanganyele inkhulumomphendvulwano.

Ngokufunda ukwakha ngokucacile imisho asebentisa emagama uhlakaniphile ukuxhumana, ukususa odla inkulumo izinkulumo, ungenza umbono omuhle kakhulu, ngoba abanekhono kakhudlwana umuntu ukukhuluma, ezinengqondo futhi kuphumelele ngokwengeziwe kubonakala interlocutors yakhe.