Ah, lokhu emshadweni! Kanjani ukuhlangana neqebelengwane laba abashadayo

Lapho ulungiselela umshado uhlale eziningi imibuzo, elalikade ebhekene nje azange abe. Kuyinto isikhathi womkhosi eminyaka zihlotshaniswa ezihlukahlukene izimpawu, amasiko, amasiko, izinkolelo kanye nemithetho. Lapha, ngokwesibonelo, ukuhlangana neqebelengwane laba abashadayo? Noma kanjani ukondla it? Kungase kube eziningana.

abazali Ngokuyinhloko, noma nje ambalwa omama abasebasha ukuhlangabezana esangweni (ngaphandle-ke, kukhona indawo enjalo) noma kakade ehholo, okuzokwenza ukusingatha edilini. Kulokhu, unina kamakoti kufanele ulifafaze hlamvu ezimbalwa bese usho imisho yendabuko imilindelo rye lifanekisela uhlobo ezinhle futhi umbhangqwana enobungane. Eceleni kwakhe, umama yomkhwenyana lisinikeza isinkwa ekugcobisa uthi umakoti nomkhwenyana kufanele uzame ngosawoti, futhi ngubani ngaphezulu ucezu yizinyoka, ke uzosingatha endlini esizayo. Kulokhu, ukuhlukana kwazo ukudla futhi luyisibonakaliso isinqumo ahlangene zonke izimo esikhathini esizayo, kanti inseparability zenjabulo nosizi.

Umhlangano no-isinkwa abasha, igama elisho naso akhethiwe kusengaphambili, uphela ngokudonsa beqeda izingcezu zesinkwa ekushoniseni nabo usawoti, futhi ngokudla. Futhi umakoti nomkhwenyana ukondla nomunye. Ngemva kwalokhu, unina kamakoti ufisa them jabulile pilo ngaphakathi ndawonye.

Kunokunye ongakwenza ukuthi ukuhlangana neqebelengwane laba abashadayo. unina umakoti uthola inkulumo eside, ihalalisele izingane ekuqaleni impilo entsha, futhi kucatshangwa indlela entsha ukwethula Wabapha isinkwa - uphawu oyinhloko ukuceba nokuchuma emkhayeni. Young futhi noma ngiwunqamule izicucu niphathane noma ezinye isinkwa ngasinye anosawoti, bese bite yakhe. Isinkwa ziphuze ngisho isiphuzo, bese izibuko, wamshaya ehlombe, zehlukaniswe phansi - for inhlanhla. Kulokhu, obaba futhi kudingeka sazi ukuthi singaphila kanjani ukuhlangabezana abashadayo isinkwa, ngoba kudingeka iqhaza isenzo: zingabantu esifushane, kodwa umphefumulo lokho izifiso abasha. Khona-ke umakoti nomkhwenyana usike iribhoni nge amabhola, amabhola idedelwa, silalela unina kamakoti. Ucedzela emcimbini isethulo kanina umyeni esizayo sika. Manje, bonke ababuthanele ngokuthula agcinwe kule ballroom. Young sikulungele ukwamukela siyakuhalalisela kanye nezipho.

Indlela ukuhlangabezana abashadayo isinkwa uma ufuna uzagcina iziphuzo? Ukuze wenze lokhu, ungakwazi ukuxhuma amasede amabili abazali. Ayoletha hhayi kuphela isinkwa nosawoti (uphawu ukuceba nokuchuma inhlalakahle), kodwa futhi izibuko champagne (uphawu lokuphila okumsulwa futhi elimnandi abasha), kanye izimbali (ubuhle nesisa lobuhlobo). Ngisho nabazali kungathatha amakhandlela elikhanyayo.

Kanjani ukuhlangana isinkwa kuyilabo ababesanda kushada, ukuthi bonke kwaba mnandi futhi hhayi ngakho ceremoniously? Lilula: engeza Ukuvutha lwamarokhethi futhi okhilikhethi, yebhangqa eshaweni emacembeni ezimbali ezintekenteke (rose ngokuvamile uyawasebenzisa) noma confetti ugcwele umgwaqo acekelwa phansi zemali abasha, amaswidi noma okusanhlamvu (ngokuvamile irayisi). Ungaphinda uhlele ukuhlolwa kanye imincintiswano, kanye ukubuza zonke izinhlobo imibuzo. Izimpendulo abasanda kushada ukukhombisa ukuzimisela kwabo ukuphila nomndeni kanye ulwazi nomunye. Ngemva kwalokho, umkhwenyana kuthatha othandekayo wakhe ezingalweni zakhe. Izivakashi lingakusiza izimpendulo futhi bahlanganyele konke.