Yini okufanele ibe yikhati lokukhipha umfana lomfana

Ekuphileni komuntu ngamunye azikho izenzakalo eziningi ezibalulekile ezithinta impilo yakhe elandelayo. Kuyinto lokuzalwa, umshado, umshado futhi, ngempela, ubhapathizo.

Mayelana nokubhapathizwa

Inqubo yobhapathizo ingenzeka ngesikhathi esihluke kakhulu, kuye ngesifiso noma kubazali, uma bebhapathiza ingane, noma ubuntu bomuntu omdala. Okufanelekile, umuntu kufanele akhethe ukholo ngokwakhe, kodwa, ngokweziko zobuKristu, abazali baphoqelekile ukubhapathiza umntwana ngosuku lwamashumi amane lokuphila kwakhe, tk. Yilokho okwakunjalo noJesu Kristu. Ngaphambi kwalokho kwenziwa kanjalo, ngaphandle kwalokho, igama elinikezwa ingane linikezwa umpristi esontweni lapho ebhapathizwa. Manje kancane kuye kwashintsha, ukubhapathiza noma ukubhapathiza izingane - ilungelo lokukhetha umndeni ngamunye ngamunye. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lokhu akukwenziwa ngokucophelela ngosuku lwama-40, kodwa uma kulungele abazali.

Okudingayo

Ngenqubo yokubhapathizwa, akudingeki okuningi. Kunesidingo esincane samaduna - owesilisa nowesifazane, i-kryzhma (ithawula lokubhapathizwa), isiphambano. Futhi-ke, kuyadingeka ukuba unakekele ingubo yengane. Kungaba njenge-suti, nekhati lokugqoka lomfana noma intombazane.

Izingubo

Umama angase abe nombuzo mayelana nokuthi yini okufanele ibe yikhati lokugcoba lomfana? Ubani owuthenga futhi ungathengwa kuphi ngokujwayelekile? Okokuqala kudingekile ukuthi, ngokusho komkhuba wama-Orthodox, isiphambano somntwana kufanele sithengwe ngu-godfather. Kodwa ihembe le-christening lomfana lithengwa ngu-unina, uthola ithawula. Yini okufanele igqoke ubhapathizo lwezingane lubonakala? Ayikho imigomo emisiwe kule ndaba. Kungaba njengengubo evamile evamile yimuphi umbala (mhlawumbe umhlophe noma omunye ukukhanya), nehembe elikhethekile. Ungayithenga ngisho esitolo sabantwana. Njengoba isiko lokuvakashela izikhungo zenkolo sanda, abathengisi banakekele izinkathi zokubhapathizwa ezinganeni.

Lokho ihembe libukeka

Ihembe lebhapathi lokubhapathizwa selifanane nehembe elifanayo lentombazane. Into kuphela uma ingekho mhlophe, ingaba ne-tinge eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka noma e-pink. I-Shirt iyinhloko yamahhala ehlukene. Kungaba kokubili phansi, futhi okufushane, kodwa hhayi ngaphezu kwamadolo. Izingubo zokubhapathizwa zomfana zingahlotshiswe ngomhlobiso wesiliva noma igolide, futhi isiphambano sobu-Orthodox singase sigqoke kuso. Izinto ezivela lapho izingubo ezinjalo kufanele zibe zithambile, zemvelo, zijabulise umzimba womntwana. Ungakha ihembe le-christening lomfana ngezandla zakho, udinga nje ukuthatha amaphethini futhi uzenze ngokwakho. Kulesi simo, ngeke nje kube mnandi kakhulu futhi ukhululekile, kodwa futhi uhlotshiswe njengoba ufuna umama noma unina.

Ukusebenza

Ngokwesiko, izingubo ze-christening zigujwa kanye kuphela ekuphileni - ngokubhapathizwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ivele igcinwe endaweni eyomile. Futhi uma ithawula ingasetshenziswa uma, isibonelo, ingane igula (ikholelwa ukuthi uma uyifaka ngodaka, ugula luyahamba), ihembe elibhapathiziwe alisayikuvela endaweni yalo eyimfihlo. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi udinga ukulondoloza kulezi zambatho. Noma kunjalo, kuyamangalisa kakhulu uma izindwangu ezithambile zemvelo zithinteka emzimbeni, hhayi izibalo.