Yini kungabi ukhulelwe, uyakholwa noma qha?

Uma owesifazane uthola ukuthi ukhulelwe, yena-ke kwabonakala sengathi uqale aphinde aphile. Kusukela ngalowo mzuzu kuqhubeke konke empilweni okushintsha, izinto ezilula abe eziyinkimbinkimbi, kuba nombono okuhluke kakhulu zomhlaba futhi kuleli zwe. Ngokushesha kuphakama umbuzo - lokho angenakudliwa phakathi nenkathi yokukhulelwa? Ngenhlanhla, kukhona inthanethi futhi akudingeki ukufunda inqwaba yezincwadi, njengoba esikhathini esidlule, zifuna ababezoba izincomo eziwusizo imenyu omama esizayo. Futhi kukhona owesifazane esimweni obucayi can ukudla okunempilo kuphela, futhi ngisho nangalesosikhathi akubona bonke. Lokho akunakwenzeka amafutha ukhulelwe futhi amnandi izinto eziningi ezinkulu, kanye anosawoti ngibhema uyazi, mhlawumbe ngamunye. Kodwa lokho akutuseki adle ngisho kuzo izithelo ezithile nemifino, kuze kube manje, hhayi yonke. Ikakhulukazi, it is hhayi Kunconywa izinhlobo amnyama yezithelo, ezisawolintshi - ngoba kungabangela komzimba ingane, ikhabe futhi amagilebhisi - ngenxa ngokweqile okuqukethwe ketshezi, ukuze ugweme edema.

Mayelana ekudleni abesifazane abakhulelwe jikelele, ungabhala yonke le ncwadi. Iqiniso lokuthi abesifazane abaningi babhekana toxemia ezinyangeni zokuqala. Ngenxa yalokho, inkulumo kungeyona into ingahambi ukudla, ngokuvamile ungakwazi ngaphezu kwalokho linqume umsoco yezokwelapha - droppers. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba kudlule toxicosis njengoba omama esizayo sebeqala uhambisane. Badla konke, imini nobusuku, ehlupha abayeni babo kwaneliswa nezifiso njalo. Kodwa ngolunye usuku ngokushesha ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuba umzimba. Khona-ke iqala emzabalazweni isizathu ne isisu.

Yini kungabi ukhulelwe? Ngeke babe kakhulu, kodwa okubaluleke kakhulu - ungenzi izinto eyayiyozuzisa besifazane ababengewona ama-abakhulelwe ayizange. Ngokwesibonelo, ukubhema nokuphuza utshwala, akukho senzo baphule ekudleni. Futhi ngisho nangaphezu kwalokho, noma kunjalo ayikwazi ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa kanye izinto psychotropic, izidakamizwa eziyingozi, futhi equliswa-X-ray emisebeni. Yiqiniso, kumelwe futhi bangayeki ngokwedlulele, hhayi ukuba bakusize noma cha sihlanganyele emidlalweni asebenzayo.

Kodwa kungani ungathintani nezinwele phakathi nenkathi yokukhulelwa? Leli akulona ukuvinjelwa imithi, kuba ngokwezifiso, nanganoma esidlule, njengoba abanye becabanga. Kodwa, noma kunjalo, abaningi induku yakhe futhi kunzima hhayi ukusika noma ukudaya izinwele zabo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Bonke baya inkolelo yokuthi ukusika izinwele, owesifazane sifushanise impilo umntwana wakhe ongakazalwa. Omunye angase athi lokhu akunangqondo, futhi Cishe bekungeke kube esifanele. Kodwa abesifazane abakhulelwe - uhlobo olukhethekile abantu abangekho alien imibono yabanye, bese uvale zonke izinhlobo zezinkolelo-ze. Bakhetha ukuthumelelana hhayi ukuba engozini, ngisho azi ukuthi kungcono nje kuyinkolelo-ze. Ngeke futhi wazi?!

Nokho abanye bakholelwa ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukuba omama abakhulelwe ukuba obumbene, thunga, umthungi. Ifuna ingane ukugaxela umzanyana, njengoba uma intambo ebamba unina. Ngempela, izingane ngokuvamile intambo singabanjwa. Kodwa akekho oye wathola ukuthi ihlobene intambo ukuthi knits umama. Kodwa kokubili ofuna ukuxhumanisa kulesi simemezelo lutho krasivenkoe zengane!

Into ayikwazi ukuba ukhulelwe futhi uzilungiselele isipho kusengaphambili futhi kuphazamise kakhulu. Lokhu kubuye kuwuphawu olubi, okuthiwa. Kodwa uma empeleni ayilungele esibhedlela, kuyobe sekuba i-eziningi izinkinga, yebo, uma omunye amalungu omndeni ngeke ahambe ngezinyawo izinsuku ezitolo zezingane. Dower elungiselela nosana, njengoba umthetho, hhayi inyanga eyodwa. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kudingeka ukuba amphuzise uhlu konke okudingayo ukuhambahamba futhi eziningi ezinkulu zezingane ziyofuna izinto ezincane. Futhi indlela ukucabanga isitatimende ephuma esibhedlela, lapho indlu alikhulumi nanokukhuluma abe uhlaka? Yiqiniso, ekuqaleni ingane kungenziwa wabeka ngisho kubhasikidi, wayesalokhu ayizange iphele. Ngokuvamile, wonke abakhulelwe enquma ngokwayo - ukulungiselela isipho sakhe noma cha, yikuphi ukubandlulula ukuziba futhi okuyinto ukwamukela njengoba iqiniso. Ekugcineni, kwaba yena esasiphethe impilo entsha engaphansi enhliziyweni yakhe.