Ukuphila akulona njalo ithuthukisa lokho esikwazi ngokuthi. Perfect ekhaya ethokomele, abazali abanothando, izingane abanamakhono, umsebenzi omuhle - ngokuvamile konke kuba kuphela isithombe umagazini ecwebezelayo. Kodwa kuthiwani uma uqale kusukela ekuqaleni spoilt uma umndeni enezinkinga is ushevu lonke ithemba? Ingabe ukhona usizo? Futhi ubani okufanele sikwenze? kufanele kube namandla kanjani ukulawula isimo, futhi kungakanani - nesibopho emphakathini?
Okokuqala, kufanele ichaze umqondo. umndeni enezinkinga - akusiwona abampofu noma olungaphelele njalo. Izingane kungaba kokubili abazali, ingcebo kungaba, kodwa uma ubudlova ekhaya futhi ukuhlazeka uma ubaba noma umama wazo udakwe noma badle izidakamizwa, uma umuntu esitokisini - konke lokhu kufakazela ukuthi abantu dysfunctionality ejulile "cell ongcono". izintandane Street, iziphanzi ngokushesha. Futhi kuba sobala ukuthi umndeni enezinkinga kuphela ababekwazi ukuyisa izingane eqinisweni kumadivayisi abo futhi esekwazi ukuphila kwazo. Kodwa kuthiwani uma yonke into efihlekile ngemuva olungaphambili lwesonto ezibonisa? Lapho izinhlekelele zenzeka ngemuva kocingo oluphakeme nensimbi iminyango? Phela abezenhlalakahle azinakekeli kwengane emndenini: abazali ungangiceli izinzuzo, izingane emgwaqeni kungukuthi abaxoshwa. Izinkinga ezikhubaza psyche eliyingqayizivele, akubonakali lapho uwubona okokuqala. Ngokwesibonelo, ukuba umlutha wotshwala, futhi ikakhulukazi, ukuluthwa yizidakamizwa - is phetho of the hhayi kuphela "enhleseni ongcono". Lokhu izifo ezingaba uthinte muntu. Futhi ubudlova basekhaya ngaso sonke isikhathi kuphela kwenzeka emijondolo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma umndeni enezinkinga ngaphambili engase akwazi ukubala izinhlayiya phezu ukuzibandakanya asebenzayo kwemisebenzi yomphakathi - wayekhona sokwelapha ayimpoqo zokusetshenziswa kabi kotshwala, iziteshi esisangulukisayo-up, usizo uma khulula - manje lezi kungenzeka elinganiselwe. Futhi kukhona isimo nakuba: ku sikahulumeni inflates i scandal international: "Izingane zethu ukubulala baseMelika ngokubi!", Futhi phakathi kwezinkinga zaleli zwe njengoba ayikho noma kuba ngokuphephile namehlo avaliwe. Experience kwamanye amazwe kubonisa ukuthi okusezingeni eliphezulu lokube nawo ezingeni lekuphila akusho ukuvikela ngokumelene pathologies izifo abalulekile emphakathini. umndeni enezinkinga eziningi abadinga isekelo lezengqondo nosizo, hhayi ngokwezinto ezibonakalayo. Ubani kufanele sinake ke, ubani okufanele ube nendaba isiphetho ingane?
Izingane ezivela emindenini emphakathini labo ababencishwe amathuba ngaphambilini ngokuvamile aba ezinkulukazi izinkinga ezingokwengqondo. Sinenkosi ezingeni lelisetulu bekhathazekile, baba Zingase zisale ngemuva ekuthuthukisweni, abanayo izimo ukuthola imfundo esezingeni eliphezulu. Okokuqala ukuthi izinkinga ezinjalo zingaholela futhi kumelwe bagcine abantu abavela nesimo esiphuthumayo: omakhelwane, izihlobo, abasebenzi esikoleni. Ukunganakwa futhi okungezona ukuphazamiseka - lawa izizathu ngenxa ngalo umndeni enezinkinga engalali kungenzeka ukuthola usizo. Emazweni amaningi, nalo leli esakazwa ukukhangisa yezenhlalakahle okuhloswe ngaso ukuvikelwa odlameni. Ngaphezu izinhlelo nosizo lomphakathi, uhulumeni futhi engenzi-nzuzo izinhlangano beluleke, ezezindlu, ukwesekwa zenhlalo ezithinta ingqondo. Ngokwesibonelo, khokhela off zinhlekelele izikhungo noma tibe. umndeni enezinkinga - akuyona inkinga yangasese. Abantu abaphethwe udlame, ukuba umlutha wotshwala, ukuluthwa izidakamizwa eziyingozi, umndeni, kudingeka wazi ukuthi ukuze ujike usizo. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, e ukwazi komphakathi kubalulekile ukwakha ukufakwa ukuvikela ababuthaka. Kakade izingane babevela emikhayeni enezinkinga ngokuvamile umzwangedwa, abazi ukwethemba omunye umuntu futhi kungenzeka besitshela izinkinga zabo. izikhungo Crisis ukunikeza izisulu ithebula indawo yokufihla ikhanda kanye nodlame, isize ekuxazululeni izinkinga zomthetho futhi ezomthetho. Abantu kudingeka bazi ukuthi isimo esinzima kakhulu lapho ucele usizo.