Ukungabi ikhwalithi ngabanye

mkhuba "umama ongumJuda" ngubani owaziwa akhuleke e umntanakho namanabukeni nengane uphefumulela: "Izzy, ungumuntu genius". Uma uthisha uzokhuluma kabi kwengane yakhe, wathi: "Izzy! Thina lapha abaqondi. Siya kwesinye isikole. " Russian is sawing: "UJohane, ungumuntu uyisiwula." Ukukhulisa izingane njengoba nashkodivshego ikati: "Ningayi, musa ukuthethisa, Shit, lokho banibulale bastard amafutha ngakho Hamba ngebhola!?!" Khona-ke sizibuze ukuthi kwenziwa yini lososayensi, abaculi, bebhange nabadlali njengoba amaJuda. Imfihlo ilula: zikhule abantu siqiniseka ngokuthi yi engokwemvelo imfundo ehloniphekile. Nokungazethembi zivela amaphutha kwezemfundo.

Ingane ilingisa ukusabela ukungaqiniseki, abazali olungenakuzisiza ukuphila izenzakalo. Eminyakeni eyisithupha ngaphambi engqondweni yakhe akakwazi ulwazi engenayo kubalulekile. Ngqo noma ngenye indlela eziyingozi iziphakamiso, ezinkolelweni, ezimweni zengqondo ubandlululo, eyiphutha eyeqisayo abazali ukucabanga aminyene ukungaqiniseki ngokuwa kwakhe ngqo enganakile wengane. Kule ukungaqiniseki udoti elakhiwe isixha fancy - uhlelo lwayo imibono mayelana nokuphila. Direct isiphakamiso eziyingozi - umusho like, "wena awufanelwe ukuba lokhu ',' hhayi Senka cap", "ngeke", "Akudingeki ngisho zama," "lapho", "kuyoba ukuphila kwabo konke ukudlala isiwula futhi odongeni sokunamathisela ". Ongaqondile isiphakamiso engemihle, "Nokho lokho ngabe usebenza ukulamba akafile" (isiphakamiso ngokuphelele: "Ngeke nokuba ngithole umsebenzi omuhle," "ungakwazi yindlala"), "wena okungenani ezinye, kodwa ngumyeni wakhe" (isiphakamiso ngokuphelele: "wena - ugly", "ungazitholi umyeni omuhle"), kanye neminye imisho esikhohlisayo ngomoya ofanayo. Ngamanye amazwi, ukungaqiniseki akuyona izinga isegazini. Ukungaqiniseki - umkhiqizo komphakathi.

Futhi manje, isidalwa diffident izinyathelo ezweni omdala. Kodwa ukufeza umgomo , ngeke ngenxa yokuntula ukholo ngokwabo. Ever kusukela ebuntwaneni, it is wezwa ukuthi zonke izenzo zakhe uyabhuntsha. Ukuzethula kancane indoda, bug, ke overstates balinganisela zomhlaba zangaphandle. Ngokwesibonelo, umgomo ukuya eyunivesithi phambi kwakhe. Bangakholelwa amakhono abo, ngakolunye uhlangothi, futhi ahloniphe igunya University, ngakolunye uhlangothi, iwela stupor, ukuze besabe. Kwangaphandle yokuvuma ukubaluleka yaseyunivesithi ukulinda eyisicefe, ingaphakathi ligcwele ukubaluleka ukuntula ukholo amakhono abo. Kuhlanganiswe, ziba engaphephile. Zonke amandla engena ukukhathazeka, ixhala ukwesaba. On Luhlolo amandla uhlala.

Ukungaqiniseki - ke ithemba, buhlanjululwe ngokwesaba ngoba ahlonipha ukubaluleka zomhlaba ngaphandle. Ukungaqiniseki owavusa by izici ezimbili ezibalulekile: yangaphakathi - yokwesaba nangaphandle - hlonipho ngaphandle, i overestimation lezinto kanye izenzakalo zezwe ezungeze (ukubaluleka). Ukungaqiniseki benamandla yokwesaba. Ngokwesibonelo, umuntu uyesaba ukubhukuda (yokwesaba), ucabanga ukuthi akazange aphumelele ukubuyisana nomkakhe (ukungaqiniseki). Noma esinye isibonelo: umuntu ufuna ukuthatha uhambo kusihlwa, kodwa uzizwa engalondekile ngenxa amacala nokuxhashazwa esifundeni. Lapho ezwa ukuthi amaphoyisa wesifunda elaliqaphile ezitaladini, ukwesaba esehambile, futhi nalo ukungaqiniseki.

Noma ubani uhlangabezana ukungaqiniseki ukungakhululeki, ngokuba ongaphandle kwendawo enekhono. Ngokwesibonelo, oligarch nezibi isilwane inja. Ilungelo lakhe "uzamazamisa ukuzethemba." Ukuzethemba, yebo, ngisho nomkhondo wahlala. Kube ukwesaba, ukungaqiniseki. Wangena indawo zeziyaluyalu yokungaqiniseki. Futhi manje wezilwane engcono. A wezilwane - ungabazane mayelana nodaba lwezezimali umuntu, kodwa professional weqiniso emkhakheni wabo. Ngakho-ke kuvela: ezezimali vet uzizwa engalondekile ngokuziqhathanisa oligarch futhi oligarch uzizwa engalondekile emkhakheni wezokwelapha, lapho wezilwane azizwa beqiniseka.

Ukungaqiniseki - kungcono ukuthembela uphawu obuhlukile. Njengoba ukuzethemba, ke akuxhomekile nje kuphela esimweni ekwesabeni, kodwa futhi ezicini wangaphandle kanye nezimo. Sizama ukuzibonela nami kanye nezwe ukubaluleka kwabo. Kuthatha share sengonyama wamandla ethu. Uma ukuyeka isifiso eniqhubeka nimkhiphela futhi afakazele kuwo wonke umuntu ukuthi wena nezibalulekile, futhi ngeke nje buthule ezihlobene ukubaluleka kwalo, ezungezile yezimo abhekene ukuwuzwa. Yakho ukuzethemba nokuzihlonipha, ngokuba nezingxabano ukubaluleka kuyoba ulingana nokuhlolwa yabanye. Okunye sixth sense bona ukubaluleka kwakho.

Ngokuhamba umuntu singumuntu ongazethembi, okungukuthi umuntu ukuzenyeza, njengoba inkemba Damocles kuthé ukubaluleka zonke zangaphandle. Okwenza isimo sibe sibi uma lokhu okuxubile futhi ngisho nomuzwa wecala. Kusukela ebuntwaneni yokungazethembi odla imizwa yecala abahudulele him eceleni ngokuqiniseka retsedivist. Ngakho umuzwa yokungafaneleki, bebancane futhi ngingafaneleki. Ngempilo wemithwalo enjalo aqala evilaphayo, omanqikanqika futhi Okuqukethwe akuzwakali. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, umuzwa wecala zithuthelekela like izimpukane kudoti, ezandleni. Idlala ku wecala, bona ngenkani ukuba bathethelele futhi afakazele okuthize. Ulahlekelwa amandla futhi zikhule ukungaqiniseki wabo, bona bagomela ngokwabo ngezindleko zakho. Yenza izaba kwabanye, akufanele.

Tshela wena: "Mina unelungelo ube nguwena: umuntu ajabule futhi lusizi, sona, ukwenza" okungalungile "ngokuya nezinye izenzo ukuvikela, uma mina wacasula ngazo. Nginelungelo ukuba kanye ukuveza imizwa yabo, okuhlaziya kanye imicabango yabantu kuthiwa ubeka izaba nokuxolisa. Nginelungelo kahle izinto eziza kuqala ayo futhi ukuba yena, naphezu ukwamukela imibono yabanye. Ukuze uthi "cha" ngaphandle kokuzizwa kabi. "

Akekho umuntu unelungelo uyokwahlulela. Thumela ezandleni ekhaya. Khumbula, ukubaluleka kwakho e-enkantolo singu mnqamulajuqu. Indlela kuphela ngeke balahle imizwa ebuhlungu wecala. Ngamanye amazwi, lingaphinde ukulwela ukuqondana abo futhi leso sifiso ukuze bathethelele unquma imibuzo ebalulekile layo langaphakathi. Kuyinto nje, futhi kubonakala ngezindlela ezimbili: ukukhathazeka nokuzinyeza futhi umuzwa wecala.

Awunayo yini kunoma ubani, futhi ubani cha kweleta lutho. Uthanda nomndeni wakho. Ingabe unendaba enecala. Ukuphoqelela nenkolelo - umehluko ukuthi kunezinja ezinkulu ezimbili. Le nkolelo ithi lapho kungekho isibopho kanye ngokucindezelwa. Zonke ngubani bephazamisa imingcele yakho siqu, uthi, "Mina Akudingeki ukuze iyoba ingelosi. Bonke abantu akuzona ongenasono. Anginayo ukuhlangabezana okulindele kwabanye, ukudiliza emithanjeni umhlatshelo ngenxa yabo enginakho abanye. "

Ngaphezu yangaphakathi, kumele ube sebeqedile ukubaluleka zangaphandle, okuyinto kubonakala ukungaqiniseki yinkimbinkimbi izinkinga. Inkulumo yesiNgisi ethi "Kuhlala kungcono khona, lapho kungekho khona kithi," nje kulolu chungechunge. Akunamsebenzi ungeqisi ukubaluleka izinto zezwe. Lokhu kubangela ukungahlaliseki nokukhathazeka. Ngokwesibonelo, ufuna ukuthola umsebenzi, kodwa ungacabangi ngokwakho njengabakufanelekelayo izikhundla oyifunayo - zokuzingabaza izenze wazizwa. Ukulwela isikhundla - lokhu akulona amasu akho kanye nesitayela yokuziphatha. Uzobona ukukhathazeka futhi kancane kancane sehla phakathi nokucindezeleka. Lezi imizwa ngizothatha yonke namandla. Uma uyaqaphela kabusha aura we ukubaluleka kwindawo oyifunayo bese ngiyabona ukuthi onkulunkulu amabhodwe, okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi uzothatha lesi sikhundla. It kuvela ukuthi ukuze kufezwe isikhundla ukuthi uyahlangabezana ngokugcwele, kwakudingekile kuphela ukwehlisa ukubaluleka okuthunyelwe. Lawo mandla ngaphambilini esichithwa waphakamisela ukuzwa ungelutho zabo, futhi manje kuya isethulo avulekile umqashi izimfanelo zabo engcono.

Ngisho nezilwane kungenziwa ubanjwe on kuyihaba ukubaluleka izinto zomhlaba zangaphandle. Kumabonakude, sitshela indaba inkunzi thoroughbred, okuyinto ayikwazanga ibhangqwe ihhashi lensikazi. Wacinga mares enhle kakhulu, futhi isikhathi ngasinye inkunzi ukuze zikwehlule. Khona-ke Kudokhu waqonda. Yena ezigcotshwe udaka mare amahle inkunzi uyaphila ke wakhwela. Okubalulekile wukuthi usebenzise i ukuthi ubuhle inkunzi namahloni, kodwa uma ezigcotshwe, ezigcotshwe ngodaka, waqaphela ukuthi wayengeyona sibi noma kangcono ngisho. Ngokuvamile, amadoda ukukhuluma kanjani amahhashi.

Ngokuvamile indoda okungavikelekile efuna isiqinisekiso yokuzibona ebalulekile emhlabeni ngaphandle ngokuziphatha boorish futhi bayazikhukhumeza. Kuze kube yimanje, angakwazi sokululaza abanye, ukuba baziphathe ngobudlova. Boors neyisayo - abantu abazizwa bengalondekile. Ukuze ngandlela-thile bagomela yena, ukuze azitholele ngokwawo ukubaluleka kwabo, isiqala ukubonakala ukuzikhukhumeza luhlaza.

Ngokuphathelene ukungaqiniseki: imigomo endaweni engazinzile hhayi kokuba ulwazi olugcwele mayelana nemicimbi ezayo, kufanele ngandlela-thile uphathe izingozi. Asazi ukubhubhisa nesimo esingokoqobo, futhi ukungaqiniseki wenzani ngalesisimo esikuso. Nge ukungaqiniseki ayikwazi ephethwe. Thatha endaweni yebhizinisi noma ezezimali. Business - kunobungozi. Uma singadli ingozi ke singazi uthole lutho. Ongenayo engozini, ukuthi, njengoba sazi, angadli champagne ejele ayihlali. Udinga ukuthatha ke ukungaqiniseki lula njengoba kuya Givens ngenakugwemeka. Sesikhathele konke izimo ezifanayo esikebheni ukuphila efanayo. The main iconsi ukubaluleka, nokungaqiniseki uzonyamalala.