Ukuhleka - ke ... Incazelo, izinhlobo, kubangela uhleko

Ukuhleka bandisa nokuphila. kanzima ukuphikisana nalesi sitatimende. Phela, ososayensi kudala wafakazela ukuthi ngesikhathi ke ukukhishwa umuntu-hormone injabulo. Asiza ekubhekaneni nokucindezeleka kanye nezinye izinkinga buyinkimbinkimbi. Kodwa ochwepheshe bathi uhleko - lokhu iyisici enezici. Kunezinhlobo ezingaba ngu-kweshumi zinhlobo ayo, okuyinto ahambisana imizwa akuhambisani ezahlukene. Kuyini abantu ukuhleka? Futhi sibangelwa yini?

definition

Ezweni yesayensi kukhona incazelo ecacile lomkhuba yinsini. Ukusabela Lo muntu ukuba namahlaya, engalindelekile, imisindo emnandi, imiphumela ethintekayo, nokunye. N. Ukubonakaliswa le ndlela yokusabela ukushintsha isimo sobuso nokunyakaza okungalindelekile we-apharathasi ukuphefumula.

Lolu cwaningo yokuhlekwa nemiphumela yayo yomzimba womuntu iye kwaba wezifo zengqondo - the gelotologiya isayensi. Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, izazi zefilosofi nazo ziye alalelwa lo mkhuba uhleko. U-Aristotle, E. Kant, Bergson enza khona umnikelo eside cwaningo isimo sawo. Ngakho, ukuhlanganisa watholwa womuntu uhleko nobungane, ubudlova, isifo, sokudlala, nokunye. N. It is wafakazela ukuthi kukhona izinhlobo eziningana uhleko. Futhi ngamunye wabo izimbangela ezahlukahlukene nemiphumela ehlukene emzimbeni womuntu.

ezihlekisayo

Adult bathambekele ukuhleka lapho ebona noma uzwa okuthile ezihlekisayo, akunangqondo, ezingalindelekile. Kungaba ihlaya, funny imisindo noma isenzo lomunye umuntu umhlibitho. Lesi simo esibangela yamahlaya noma uhleko. Futhi ngolimi IsiRashiya sinamagama inkulumo ezinzile "Ukuhleka ezithathelwanayo." Ngempela, kufanele umuntu oyedwa ukuhleka, ukumamatheka, insini futhi avele kwabanye.

uhleko ezihlekisayo bangase bathande (ngokuvula lip) kanye evaliwe / izibambe (ngezindebe evaliwe). Odokotela bengqondo bathi ubuntu bakhe kuhlobene izimfanelo siqu futhi izimo lapho kukhona umuntu. Njengomthetho, evulekile uhleko sici umbuthano nomndeni, abangane, umsebenzi ithimba. Yena ukhuluma ukusondela ezithile (ezihlobene noma ngokomoya), ubuhlobo obuseduze nabanye, ithemba. uhleko Kuvaliwe - zisabela kanjani abantu ukuthi kufanele akhulekelwe kulo- izimo noma amazinga athile.

ingane

Ngo isigaba ekhethekile nasekuhlekeni zezingane. Lokhu ngiyibona abaqotho ingane, ahlanzekile, ugeleza kuholela kwajabula futhi injabulo nxazonke. Ngokombono ongokwesayensi, kudala kungenzeka iyiphi futhi ezingalindelekile imisindo emnandi, ezihlekisayo kulingisa, ethintekayo (tickling). Izingane ezincane angazi kanjani ukufunda futhi abone amahlaya ngesimo lapho kubangela imizwelo eyakhayo kwabadala.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ochwepheshe uqaphele ukuthi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izimo ezibangele uhleko yezingane okufanayo. Lokhu kuwukubonakaliswa evulekile zenjabulo. Kwenzeka ngokungazi, futhi ihlala njengoba nje kokuqhubeka ithonya zangaphandle. Ngakho, uhleko zezingane lungolomzuzwana futhi ngeke liphinde livele njengesikhumbuzo sokuzinikela isimo.

akahlanye

uhlobo ezahlukene kuyinto uhleko akahlanye. Lihlobene nokubhekana ubuso Neuro-ngemilingo overexcitation indoda. I-trigger kuyinto acacile izenzakalo kanye kubange ukushaqeka. Awudingi izibonelo ezinhle. uhleko akahlanye iqala angesabi, njengoba inketho - lapho umuntu olimalayo, uyesaba noma ubuhlungu.

Lesi simo esiyingqayizivele sibangelwa akakubangeli imizwelo eyakhayo evela elihlekayo yena nabanye. Kunalokho, inhlanganisela yithemba futhi bemangele. Ekulalelweni kusolakala njengenhlangano uhleko ngakanye kuphenduke uhleko elikhulu. Ngu ukuhlaselwa ngokuphinda umuntu udinga usizo lwezokwelapha.

Nokho, kukhona omunye ukuchaza uhleko akahlanye. Wayeqonda njengoba uhleko runaway futhi isikhathi eside.

Ngokwendlela umzimba owakheke ngayo

uhleko bokuphila - impendulo obujabulisayo nabanye ukuba emizweni ethintekayo (ukushoshozela), nakuba kungase kube ngenxa yokuphathwa izidakamizwa kwezidakamizwa. It libhekene nokuvuleka, okungalindelekile nomqwayiba. Lapho bakitaza ke kuvumelana isikhathi nobude impendulo ethintekayo. Lapho ethola ezinye izidakamizwa kwezidakamizwa, kubangela uhleko bokuphila kubangelwa izinqubo engqondo. Ubude kwemizwelo aphakeme kungenziwa okuthiwa, insini ngakanye ebusweni, okungasekelwe ndawo. Uma uthi nhlá sifana uhleko akahlanye, kodwa isikhathi eside futhi ayinayo sezinzwa ukushaqeka iziqephu.

yezenhlalakahle

Ngokuthi uhleko nomphakathi wabantu bahlanganiswe umqondo ezivamile, isikhathi umhlangano. Isibonelo esiyinhloko kungaba ukusabela izenzo zombusazwe izilaleli. Lena injabulo jikelele, wokuthokoza. Yiqiniso, it has ukufana ne nohleko ezihlekisayo okubangelwa izilaleli ukuba amakhonsathi osomahlaya. Nokho, esimweni sokuqala kukhona, ubunye obungokomoya ngemibono yabantu. imimoya High ngenxa yokufuna amathemba amathemba lekusasa. Lena akuyona fun angomahlalela injabulo. Njengomthetho, kuba uhleko evulekile noma neqondayo, ephelezelwa nokumemeza ukwesekwa kanye ihlombe.

isiko

uhleko Siko - i yokufakelwa, nkulumo umdlali zenjabulo, iconsi, ubudlova, ukwesaba noma eminye imizwelo. Njengomthetho, isetshenziswa mummers e imikhiqizo ka amahlaya izigcawu ezihlekisayo. Umsebenzi main - ukuhleka kwaba ngokunembe ngangokunokwenzeka okukhulunywa ngaso umuzwa othile, sihambisane kuyadingeka ukuba naye lo isenzo, isimo sobuso, futhi lidluliselwe isilaleli / umbukeli. Ukuhluka zako Yiqiniso, okuningi. Kungenzeka okwe zidla laughing, evulekile futhi bebahleka usulu, uCoward esifanayo esikisela ngeziphansi izibambe, ehlanganise amazinyo noma itshekula, ukuthula.

sokugembula

uhleko sokugembula, njengoba umthetho, kungabonakala abantu uphazamisekile emqondweni. Nokho, muva nje, ukuthandwa okwandayo waqala ukuthatha yokwelapha uhleko, noma ukwelapha ukucindezeleka nezinye izifo ukuhleka sezinzwa. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu indoda ku futhi ngaphandle kwesidingo ukuhleka kwenkathi ethile yesikhathi ngamabomu. Le nqubo kungaba kudidaniswe nohleko isiko. Nokho, izinhloso kulezi zinkanyezi ezahlukene. Endabeni wangaphambili, siwulimi uhleko ubuchopho kushukumisa pulses omuhle. Esikhathini yesibili (isiko) kudingeka ukuhleka ukuze afeze umsebenzi wokwenza - ukuze udlulisele imizwelo isinyathelo esifanele.

uhleko sokugembula kufanele kube evulekile, olujabulisayo lolu. It ngokuvamile i isakhiwo undulatory noma ukudilika. Lokho, kungaba kukhuphukele emakhaleni ami futhi bafe phansi futhi. Noma mhlawumbe uya wokugaklazeka resonant, bangempela kusukela okuthulile, izigaba yokufakelwa.

Ukuhleka nokuzilibazisa uhlamvu

Nge izindlela zocwaningo ezijulile kuwukubonakaliswa ososayensi uhleko kwase kunesiqiniseko ubuhlobo baso ubunjalo indoda. Ingabe ukwabelana kokuma ezithakazelisayo kakhulu:

• Uma umuntu uyahleka obala, wamshaya emuva ikhanda lakhe kancane ke cishe, it has a uhlobo ububanzi. Yezimfanelo zako ezisemqoka kungenziwa ngokuthi ukuthatheka, lokuthatheka nokubonakaliswa ngokushesha omkhulu wokudlulisa imizwelo.
• Uma uhleko engumngane kancane ethinta izindebe umunwe kancane, ngokuqinisekile uthanda ageze ebukisa ithobela imikhuba emihle neyesigodi.
• Uma umuntu hleka isandla ihlanganisa emlonyeni wakhe, kungenzeka ukuthi ine amahloni esingokwemvelo. Lokhu kulula ukudida interlocutor. Yena ukhetha ukuhlala emthunzini.
• Ngokuvamile, kungaba kuqashelwe ukuthi abantu sizoshwabana amakhala abo nasekuhlekeni. Odokotela bengqondo bakholelwa ukuthi le ndlela kutati fanele Moody abantu ngubani ukushintsha umbono nemizwa yabo ku kwemizwa.
• Lapho umngane nasekuhlekeni kabanzi avule umlomo, singasho ngokuqiniseka ukuthi ezithathekayo, nemvelo uyisififane. He is isikhulumi omkhulu abasishaya indiva abanye sidumale.
• Ekugcineni, uma, ngaphambi elihlekayo buthule, le ndoda Nyakazisa ikhanda lakhe kancane ke likhuluma yakhe ezithambile ezithandayo, conscientiousness. Ekuphileni, kungcono conformists isigamu ezithandayo. Kunzima ukuqagela ukuthi yini uzizwe empeleni.