Ukubeletha: yebo noma cha?

Isimo sengqondo sabanye kule nqubo encane njengokuncelisa ibele kungamangalisa. Umuntu ukholelwa ukuthi ukubeletha kufanele kube isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka, ngoba kubaluleke kakhulu kumntwana. Kodwa abaningi, maholwa, bakholelwa ukuthi ukuncelisa ibele kuyindawo yokudlula. Yiluhlobo luni lwemfundiso okufanele ulandele, empeleni, unquma, kodwa ungasheshi ukuthatha izinyathelo ezithathwe emphakathini.

Abagogo bethu babeletha isikhathi eside, lokhu kwakuwumphumela wokukhulelwa. Njengoba wazi, ukuvuthwa kokubeletha akuvamile kakhulu. Kodwa ukubeletha ekhulwini lokugcina kwaqala ukubuyela emuva. Kwafika ukungaboni. Owesifazane wayebhekwa ngokuthi "ihhashi lokudonsa" empeleni, kodwa ngokusemthethweni lizwakala "isisebenzi esilinganayo". Kodwa lokoqobo akuzange kushintshe. Futhi ngenxa yalokhu kuthiwa ukulingana kwamalungelo, lo wesifazane wanikezwa inyanga eyodwa kuphela kulo myalelo. Cabanga nje ngalesi sibalo - nge-crumb kuphela kuphela ozohlala ngenyanga ngemuva kokuzalwa. Kungenzeka yini ukubeletha ngokugcwele ngaphansi kwezimo ezinjalo? Yebo akunjalo.
Ngeshwa, lo mbono uqinile. Cishe lonke lama-20 leminyaka laliqhutshwa ngaphansi kwesiqubulo esithathwe owesifazane. Akumangazi ukuthi ngisho namanje abaningi baye baba izisulu zalolu cubungulu futhi bephika isikhathi eside (ngokombono wabo) ukubeletha.

Kodwa masibhekane nakho ngokungakhethi. Ingabe kuyadingeka? Iyini ukusetshenziswa kwayo futhi ingabe ubisi lwebisi lungabika ubisi lomama?

Iqiniso lokuthi ubisi lomama liqukethe inani elikhulu lamagciwane okuvikela ingane ekutheleleni. Futhi isibalo sawo asiyehli (ngokuphindaphindiwe ngokusho kwesimo sengqondo) ngemva konyaka owodwa. Ngisho noma owesifazane ebeletha iminyaka engama-2-3, ubisi abuyinto engcono kakhulu. Okunye okuwukuthi, kusukela ezinyangeni ezingu-6, sekuyisikhathi sokuletha ukudla okuhambisanayo, kodwa akufanelekile ukuyeka ngokuphelele ubisi lwebele. Izingxube zobisi azikwazi ukunikeza lokhu.

Ngendlela, ama-antibodies kanye namavithamini kuphela anika ubisi lwebele emntwaneni. Kule nqubo ebucayi ukuxhuma okungokomoya okucashile kuzalwa phakathi komama nengane. Izingane ezibelethwe ngamabele ziyancipha, zikwazi ukuzivumelanisa kakhulu neqembu. Futhi akukhathaleki, kungcono nge-enkulisa noma ngeminyaka yesikole. Ingane izwa isidingo sikamama futhi ibona ubunye bakhe naye.

Kodwa kunezimo ezinjalo: kukhona ukubeletha, ubuhlungu besifuba buzizwakala . Kuyini lokhu? Uma lokhu kwenzeka, khona-ke udinga ukuvuselela isimiso sakho nsuku zonke nokudla. Mhlawumbe awubonakali okwanele noma umntwana uncelisa ngokungalingani. Isibonelo, kulula kakhulu ukuthi ubambe isandla sakhe sokunene bese unikeza, ngokulandelanayo, isifuba esifanele.

Kunzima kakhulu ukuncelisa ngesikhathi sokukhathazeka. Ukukhathazeka akuyona into kodwa ukuguqulwa kwezicubu zesifuba, okuhambisana nokubunjwa kwezimpawu, ama-node, ngokuvamile okubuhlungu uma uzizwa. Lesi sifo sineqiniso lokuthi noma lidlula ... noma lidala isifo sohlobo oluthile, kuze kube yilapho ehlukumezayo. Ngakho-ke, kunoma yikuphi, kufanele ukhokhe ngokucophelela. Uma unenkinga enjalo ngaphambi kokukhulelwa, ukubeletha isikhathi eside kubaluleke kakhulu, njengoba ngokusho kocwaningi lwabasosayensi abaningi kusiza ukuqeda lesi sifo.

Ukushisa okungafani kunethonya elikhulu ekukhiqizeni ubisi futhi kusiza ukuvula iziteshi zobisi. Thatha nsuku zonke imizuzu engu-10-15, uhlanganise okubandayo (okupholile) namanzi ashisayo. Kubalulekile ukuwuqedela ngamanzi apholile.

Futhi siyashesha ukuxosha inkolelo eyodwa. Abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi cishe akunakwenzeka ukukhulelwa ngokuncelisa. Eqinisweni, ikhono lokukhulelwa liyancishiswa, ngoba i-hormone ebhekene nokukhiqiza ubisi igxilile i-ovulation. Kodwa le ndlela yokuvikelwa, uma ingabizwa kanjalo, ayithembeki kakhulu. Futhi ngokusho kwezibalo, cishe ingxenye yesithathu yabesifazane, ngisho nangabe kungekho-ovulation, ukhulelwe noma unethuba lokukhulelwa, ngisho nokuncelisa. Le namba enkulu kakhulu yokucabangela ukubeletha indlela efanele yokuvikela ukukhulelwa okuphindaphindiwe.

Kodwa uma kungenzeka, ungapheli ukubeletha uma ufuna ukusondelana nomntanakho.