Izinhlobo zobudlova
Ukubukeka kwengqondo kwengane yesikole yansuku zonke kubonisa ngokucacile ukwehluleka kwezenhlalakahle. Futhi enye yezinkinga ezibalulekile ngesikhathi semfundo yengane yilezi zingcindezi esikoleni. Kuyini, futhi yiziphi izimbangela ezibangela ngemuva kwayo? Ake sizame ukuyihlola. Ubudlova esikoleni bukhona emafomu amabili - ngokomzwelo nangokomzimba. Kusukela ekuhlukunyezweni ngokomzwelo kwalowo ohlukumezekile kukhona ukungezwani kwesibindi, kuyamthobisa futhi ukuzethemba kwakhe. Lolu hlobo lobudlova lungabandakanya ukuhleka usulu, ukuhleka usulu, ukuhlazeka kwezinye izingane, iziteketiso, iziteketiso ezihlaselayo, amazwi angenhlamba, ukwenqaba ukuxhumana nomuntu ohlukumezekile (abadlala nomntwana, ungahlali eduze kwedeski). Ubudlova emzimbeni esikoleni ubudlova nokusetshenziswa kwamandla. Ngenxa yodlame olunjalo, ingane ingase ibone ukulimala. Lokhu ukushaya, ukukhonsa, ukuthatha izinto zomuntu siqu nokuzilimaza. Ngokuvamile lezi zilwane zihamba ngezandla.
Ubani oyisisulu?
Noma ubani angaba yisisulu sengqondo enjalo. Kodwa ngokuvamile kaningi bangabantwana abahluke kwabanye. Bangase babe nokukhubazeka ngokomzimba; Ezinye izici zokuziphatha (ukuhlukaniswa, ukuhlelwa kwe-phlegmatic noma, ngokuphambene, ukungabi nesisindo); Ukubukeka okungavamile (isibonelo, izinwele ezibomvu noma isisindo somzimba esiphezulu); Ungaphenduli kahle emphakathini (akukho ukuvikelwa ebudloveni ngenxa yokungabi nalwazi lokuzivocavoca nokuxhumana); Ukwesaba esikoleni (ngezinye izikhathi ukwesaba izindaba ezanele ngomfundisi omubi nobi noma amamaki angalungile); Ukungabi nesipiliyoni sokuba eqenjini (lokhu kuyinto evamile yezingane zasemakhaya ezazanga ukuya enkulisa); Izifo (izingane ezinama-stuttering, enuresis nabanye), ukuqonda okuphansi nokufunda kanzima (amakhono aphansi engqondo aphazamisa ikhono lakhe lokufunda, yingakho ukusebenza komntwana okubi kungena, futhi ngokufanayo, ukuzethemba okuphansi kuyakha).
Ubani umdlwenguli?
Ucwaningo oluningi lwabahlengikazi emhlabeni jikelele lubonisa ukuthi laba yizingane ezikhuliswe ngokunganaki, ezingasondelene nabazali bazo, izingane "ezingashadile" noma ezizindlini zezintandane. Bona, ekukhuleni, bavame ukwedlula ubudlova kunabantwana abakhulela emindenini evamile.
Bavela kuphi abantwana abadlwengula?
Izinto ezibalulekile zobudlelwane phakathi komndeni zibalulekile. Ziyisisekelo sokwakheka kwemvelo yengane kubudlova. Imindeni engaphelele ivame ukukodwa kwezinto ezibangela ingane. Amantombazane akhuliswa umzali oyedwa abonisa ukuthambekela kobudlova kaningi kunezingane. Imindeni futhi lapho omama abanenkani khona futhi behlukumeze umhlaba wonke, futhi ikakhulukazi esikoleni. Ukubonakaliswa kobudlova enganeni akulahlwa, kubhekwa njengendlela evamile yokusabela ekukhulumisaneni "nezitha". Ngaphezu kwalokho, imindeni lapho abazali bavame ukuphikisana nokuxabana phambi kwengane. Ezimweni ezinjalo, ingane inephethini yokuziphatha. Izingane ziyakhumbula ukuthi abazali baphathana kanjani futhi bahlolisise ubuhlobo nabangane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izingane ezithathwa ngokwezakhi zofuzo zivame ukusebenzisa udlame esikoleni. Lezi yizizathu eziyinhloko. Ukuxhomeka kwenkampani efuywayo yasekhaya kuyenzeka. Ngakho, sazi ukuthi yini ubudlova esikoleni. Ubani umgqugquzeli, futhi ngubani oyisisulu, nokuthi kungani lokhu kwenzeka. Okwamanje, izinto ezintsha emfundweni zivumela abazali ukuba babheke ngokucophelela impilo yengane esikoleni. Kodwa ungakhohlwa ngezinto ezilula: bonisa uthando olwengeziwe nokunakekelwa kwengane yakho. Inkinga efana nodlame esikoleni kulula ukuyivimbela kunokulungisa.