Ubulili ukuqeqesha ingane yakho

Izwe lethu lamanje yesimanje - kuyinto oluyingozi kakhulu futhi iyaguquka. Yena abizele nemithetho yayo siqu kanye neziqondiso, osibekela izinto eziza kuqala. Emphakathini zivela emhlabeni wonke izinguquko ezaba khona kwezenhlalo, engewona nokho kwezethu ngokuvamile kuyoholela ukuphazamiseka noma ukubhujiswa okuphelele kwalelizwe eyeqisayo evamile ephathelene ne-ukuziphatha luyingxenye wesilisa noma luyingxenye isifazane.

Kuze kube manje, ubudlelwane ubulili yeningi kakhulu futhi uye waholela futhi uyaqhubeka kuholele feminization olungaphelele amadoda kanye okuthiwa omuzhestvleniyu abesifazane. Manje cishe walahla cussing nokubhema engxenyeni bubuhle lwesintu, abesifazane abaningi abanezikhundla eziholayo izikhundla emphakathini zabantu, cishe imisebenzi non-akukho futhi izikhundla, ezingasetshenziswa kuphela ukubhekana owesifazane, noma okuphambene nalokho, kuphela indoda.

Lo mbuzo ochwepheshe kakhulu nesithakazelo. Phela, eqinisweni kukhona 'blurring "imingcele ephakathi indoda nowesifazane, futhi lokhu kunomthelela ongemuhle ebudlelwaneni nomndeni ku impilo isizwe sisonke. Ososayensi wahlanganyela kulo magazini eduze, ngemva kwalokho kwanqunywa ukwethula elithi "ubulili" entsha, okuyinto elihunyushwe English lisho "ubulili".

Ubulili futhi bakhulisa izingane - kuyinto umsebenzi onzima, kodwa nokwenzeka umzali ngamunye. Kuhloswe hhayi kuphela ukusiza ingane nokuba iqonde yena njengoba umelele ubulili ethile, ngaphandle ukuthi ingane kufanele ibe umqondo ocacile: ". I - umfana / Mina - intombazane, futhi nginezihluthulelo ezithile izindima social, izici nendlela obaphatha ngayo abanye"

Ngesikhathi kubusa amaSoviet, ukuqeqeshwa bobulili kubonelelwe ukuthuthukiswa besigaba ngobulili engazange abe khona, abafana namantombazane wathola imfundo efanayo.

Esikhathini sethu, ubulili imfundo lezingane zasenkulisa kanye nezingane zesikole - inkinga ukuthi uye wathola ukunakwa anda izinkulisa kanye esikoleni samabanga aphansi. Ngaphandle kokungabaza imfundo amantombazane kufanele lihluke imfundo abafana, hhayi kuphela ngesitayela, kodwa futhi ukubunjwa okokusebenza nokufundisa. Ngokuvamile abazali besaba khona elithi "pedagogy ubulili" ngokwalo, Nokho, njengoba usuke wazibona, lena akunandaba ngempela.

nabafundisi abangomakad 'ebona futhi ezintsha ozama ukwehlukana izingane inqubo yemfundo ngangokunokwenzeka. Yiqiniso, kahle, ngoba, njengoba kufakazelwa isayensi, amakhono ayisisekelo kanye nezimiso zokuziphatha sibekwa indoda esemncane, futhi kamuva ukushintsha into engqondweni ingane kuyoba nzima kunalokho futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho engenakwenzeka.

Cishe kufanele icabange izici isici, izimiso nezici eziyinhloko imfundo ubulili wengane yakho. Ake ngithi nje, nasezikoleni umndeni umfana kufanele avuswe ukuze kamuva Uba yindoda yangempela, umnumzana kanye umvikeli, futhi le ntombazane emva ezimbalwa waphenduka waba umama onakekelayo, ukunakekela ikhaya.

imfundo Ubulili - kuwumsebenzi onzima odinga ukuzinikela esigcwele kanye nenani elikhulu yomzamo nokunakwa. Uma unenhlanhla, futhi enkulisa kukhona yilesi sigaba, kubalulekile ukuba uqhubeke ulandele umugqa efanayo futhi ekhaya. Kungenjalo, engqondweni ingane kungenziwa elakhiwe ukuphikisana okungaka ukuthi yonke inqubo imfundo nje hamba phansi abakhwabanisi, ngoba igunya elikhulu kunawo wonke elitholwa izinsalela akukakabi kindergartener futhi umama umndeni ubaba.

Esikhathini sethu, ke akubhekwa into engavamile izinkulisa ahlukene nezikole for abafana namantombazane emizini emikhulu. Yiqiniso, lokhu kungabonakala njengoba pluses yayo kanye minuses, kodwa ukuqeqeshwa ubulili yakhelwe ukuxazulula emhlabeni wadala usongo "depersonalization" ubulili, lizokuvumela ukukhulisa futhi kufundiswe la madoda nabesifazane abanalo izimiso ezifanele.