Lomshado nelineni

Nelineni lomshado noma njengoba ibizwa ngenye indlela, emakhilayoni, kugujwa iminyaka emine ukuhlala ndawonye. Kubonakala hhayi iminyaka engu-, kodwa, nokho, kusukela kudala kungalesi sikhathi iminyaka engu-ngokokuqala ngqá pay abanaki kuphela ngobuhlobo bendoda nomfazi, kodwa futhi ekhaya kanye nenhlalakahle ambalwa. Kukholakala ukuthi yilo yilo sikhathi lo mbhangqwana kakade zanqwabelana incebo, futhi sakwazi ukwenza ikhaya lakho ethokomele futhi basamukela, futhi ubuhlobo phakathi indoda nomfazi baye baba njengamanyela nezimo njengoba wax, ayenamandla njengama yefilakisi (i nelineni akuyona kuphela ezibizayo okuningi kodwa futhi kakhulu namandla kunomFilisti Calico). Esikhathini lingabuyela ukuphila imibhangqwana eminingi nje bamshaya indiva ngale dethi, sigubha ke ebaleka noma cha sigubha nhlobo, kodwa, lomshado nelineni has a isiko ocebile, eye yasinda kusukela ezinsukwini Kievan Rus.

Izipho futhi ukuhalalisela ngosuku lwakho iminyaka lomshado 4 kumele athobele ikhasi "ilineni" isigaba. Uma sikhuluma ngamasiko kanye nemikhosi, ezinsukwini ubudala ngalolusuku umkakhe obekumele ukunika umyeni wakhe wenza siqu nelineni ihembe aluka yakhe nelineni indwangu bese bethunga embhedeni ishidi umkhaya. Lokhu laligcwele ishidi kanye kuphela (on the wedding yokugubha usuku lwesine), bese egcinwe iminyaka eminingi njengombonisi eyigugu evela kokhokho lomndeni. Godfather umakoti kufanele ukwethula womkhaya osemncane (noma kunalokho, umkakhe) isondo ukuphotha noma umphongolo, ummeli wesifazane - Izinto nelineni noma izinto ekhaya, babehlanganisa ngesandla.

Yiqiniso, ezweni lanamuhla, lezi amasiko kuthiwa ngandlela-thile modified - ezimbalwa abantu bazi ukuthi ukuba sifake namuhla, isondo ukuphotha zezinto ezibalulekile mayelana nale ndaba isibe ucezu Museum, bese bethunga amashidi eyodwa ngesikhathi bambalwa kakhulu abantu beze engqondweni. Nokho, kunezinhlobo eziningi imibono ngalokho ongasinika leli holide njengoba lomshado nelineni. Lena zonke izinhlobo zokudla kuhlanzekile yini, napkins, amathawula, izingubo zokulala, izingubo, amakhethini amakhethini ezenziwe ngelineni elicolekile, imidwebo, edwetshwe nelineni ngendwangu noma yefilakisi izimbali ebhodweni elincane, letawuba emangalisayo umhlobiso etafuleni zemikhosi. Enye isiko ezithakazelisayo ukuthi kungenzeka ukuhambisa kulezi zinsuku ochitha "ifilakisi washada" nge omisiwe imbewu yefilakisi, exutshwe amaswidi. Kungase kubonakale ngokwezifiso ezithakazelisayo ukuze abeke etafuleni izibalo yefilakisi, okumele agcinwe lumelele unyaka, futhi ngesikhathi ukugubha iminyaka engu yesihlanu somshado (okukhulunywa njengoba umshado ngokhuni) bashise.

Uma sikhuluma iminyaka engu-weminyaka emine yama-ukuphila abasenze ngokuhlanganyela, laba izipho futhi ukuhalalisela ngosuku usuku lomshado kungenzeka ukuthi umataniswe asigcini nje ngokulalela okushiwoyo zelineni, kepha ngemakhilayoni ezinezihloko. Ungakwazi ukufundisa owakwakhe amakhandlela amahle imikhiqizo bee (isib uju, okufanele kube etafuleni iholide), futhi ezihlukahlukene izimonyo ezenziwe ngesisekelo ngengcina yezinyosi.

Ukubingelelana samanje yasekuqaleni futhi ongasoze iminyaka 4 lomshado ezihlobene isihloko sale weminyaka, singakwazi beveza ngokwakho (futhi hhayi ifomu vesi - imigqa ngokusuka enhliziyweni temibhalo yephrozi netindzaba sicela Amaqhawe isikhathi, kungekho ngaphansi), noma ukuthola imithombo ehlukahlukene (Inthanethi, amaqoqo thematic kanye nezincwadi). Futhi, ungakwazi umyalelo ngokubhala la siyakuhalalisela abalobi abangochwepheshe ngobuciko uvyazhut kwelinye umkhiqizo zonke izithako futhi yenza kungafani, eyingqayizivele futhi yakhelwe nje lowo mbhangqwana.

Ngakho-ke, uma umuntu ekholelwa ukuthi umshado nelineni - lokhu akulona ukuphila ukuphila komkhaya okufanele inhlangano ka iholide obungelibaleke, kakhulu ngephutha. Phela, lokhu enye ingqopha uhambo abashadayo, elibonisa ukuthi ususondelene nakakhulu abangane futhi bafunda nokwazisa izici nokwazisa ubudlelwano babo, futhi ukunika nomunye. Ngakho-ke, kunzima kakhulu isikhathi uyakufanelekela ukuba abeke etafuleni nelineni kwendwangu, walala ezithelo yefilakisi, ukhanyise ikhandlela futhi wenze iholide yangempela!