Kungani iphupho izintwala

Mhlawumbe hhayi isinambuzane, okuyinto obungenza ikhomba ngokunembe kakhudlwana izingqondo kakhulu abantu, ubumpofu nokungahlanzeki. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lezi zinambuzane zinezikhathi labantu eliphezulu futhi ungafi emangalisayo, zingabantu mobile kakhulu kabasi lula ukubamba. Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, izintwala ayisihloko ukuklolodelwa, usulu abantu ukubuyisa futhi flighty. Ngenxa yalokhu ubuhlobo lezi zidalwa cishe ngeke ahlale lomuntu okunguye kuyoba ezithakazelisayo ukwazi ukuthi uyaphupha izintwala.

Ukube ubungakhetha izintwala kanjani kungafiseleka ukusiduduza, kodwa leliphupho ubikezela wena akukho okuhle. Uyabikezela eziningi izinkathazo nosizi, kanye abanezifo ezimbi kakhulu. Bheka nezintwala ezifuywayo cishe njalo kusho ukulahlekelwa kanye nokulahlekelwa. Uma izintwala ngiphuphe ukuthi khasa kuwe, kusho elimile yakho ngokushesha maqondana umuntu abasondelene nawe.

Kungani iphupho izintwala, okuyinto nibona ngokwakho? Lokhu kusho ama-ambulensi isifo nokuthola enkingeni. Into esemqoka akukona ukunikeza ukubaluleka kakhulu kulezi amaphupho, ezingasetshenziswa kuphela babhebhethekisa lesi simo. Imizamo ukubabulala kusho umsebenzi engenamsebenzi, akazange ekulindele, emzamweni oyize. Izintwala ukuthi amaqanda, futhi lisho onzima, umsebenzi wemfanelo, okuyinto kuzodinga kuwe isikhathi esiningi nokunakwa. Ukube ubungakhetha izintwala ukuthi gxuma, kungcono iphupho kubonisani nokukhathazeka izindaba ezephula njalo zokuphila kwakho.

Ngomqondo onabile, inkulumo iningi iphupho amabhuku uphendule umbuzo othi, yini uyaphupha izintwala, ecacile - nibe nilindele Ngokuzayo ukujabula futhi nakho okungokomoya, okuzokwenziwa kuhlobene ekuhlaseleni izitha futhi yakho nokuphazamiseka kwempilo.

Nokho, abanye eziqeda amandla ukuphendula umbuzo, yini izintwala amaphupho, kungukuthi omubi ahumushe ezinye amaphupho ngombono omuhle. Ngokwesibonelo, izintwala ukukhuluma ngiyakutjela izindaba ezingalindelekile ukuthi kuyokushiya umangele kakhulu. Biting wena ungayeki izinambuzane ukuphumula kusho yinzuzo yemali ezingalindelekile noma eningi kuzo ukusekelwa ngezinto ezibonakalayo, okufanayo iphupho lapho kukhona izintwala eziningi amaphela kanye nit angu. A iphupho lapho indoda amawashi emzimbeni wakhe noma umzimba wathela inani elikhulu izintwala noma izinyoka, ingcebo enkulu. Ukucinga amathuluzi, okusindisayo kubo, bayakuba kusho izinkinga razresheneya unomphela osekuyisikhathi eside labetibambile wena.

Amaphupho, lapho kukhona izinambuzane kohlobo olulodwa ngokuvamile sihlanganise ezinye izinhlobo zawo isinambuzane (izilwane), lapho umuntu olele kungokwalabo nemizwa efanayo. Ngokwesibonelo, kwelinye iphupho lapho ngiphuphe izintwala, ungakwazi ngokuvamile babone izingane zabo (ama-nit angu), izinyoka iminenke (babangela nemizwa efanayo okunyanyekayo). Uma, yithi, umuntu akabashiyi ngabandayo ukuvela izinambuzane eziningana (nezintwala iminenke) ephusheni kuba umuzwa ezicacile, kungcono ukuthola futhi yini uyaphupha iminenke, bese ngilanda ukuxhumanisa amanani amabili.

Ngokusho ukutolika iningi iphupho izincwadi, iminenke ephusheni wawusho umcimbi efanayo naphakade izintwala, okubonisa ukuthi zivela non-okungahleliwe. Zibonisa isimo samanje okungenamsoco abakuzungezile futhi umnenke ochotshoziwe uthembisa umhlangano abantu kubuhlungu ngempela.

incwadi iphupho Freud ichaza lokho amaphupho iminenke, passivity ubulili. Mhlawumbe omunye umuntu, ngeke uthole ukuthi kuba nobunye, ukuthi udinga, kodwa kwalolu mbimbi umlingani wakho usebenza okuningi ukhona, futhi kudingeka ukushintsha ukuziphatha embhedeni. Kukhasa phezu umnenke umzimba okukhulunywe ngaphezulu imizwa ebukhali engavamile uhlelo ngokobulili eyoshiya uphawu ekujuleni umphefumulo wakho.

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