Izingane nezinkinga

Ukukhulisa umntwana - akuyona umsebenzi olula. Ayifuna abazali ukuba amandla okuziphatha kanye ngokomzimba, amandla, nokuhlakanipha, ikhono ukuze bahlabele nezifiso zabo siqu ngenxa izidingo zengane.

Uqala kanje ekuseni kakhulu, ngokushesha nje lapho umntwana iqala ukuhamba, ukufunda ukuze badle, ukwenza izinqubo eziyisisekelo inhlanzeko. Ngu iminyaka emithathu ingane ukuqaphela ngokwabo njengoba behlukile umama nobaba ubuntu. Lapha kulapho izinkinga ziqala, okuyinto zokusebenza kwengqondo ushayele crisis neminyaka emithathu ubudala.

Le nkathi ekuphileni komntwana kubaluleke kakhulu. Yiqiniso, kubalulekile konke okungenzeka umntwana. Kodwa eminyakeni emithathu ubudala yonke imininingwane, kuwo wonke amazwi, impendulo sabazali zibaluleke ngokukhethekile.

nobunzima umzali

Eyokuqala ezinhlanu noma eziyisithupha zeminyaka yokuphila zengane ukubaluleka ebaluleke kakhulu yemfundo, kuyisisekelo sokuthuthuka ivumelane ngokuphelele. Kwakuphakathi nalesi sikhathi kwakheka zokuziphatha, ezingokwenyama izinga engqondo. Uma abazali uyolakha imodeli okungalungile ezemfundo, ngeke bahlanganise futhi uguqule impilo yomkhaya ukungqubuzana engapheli. Lapho ngineminyaka engu-esikoleni, ingane iyokhula isuka ekubeni ingane emangalisayo, obani okuyodingeka hhayi ukufundisa futhi kabusha ukufundisa.

Abazali ingane ofinyelele umkhawulo yobudala iminyaka emithathu, kulula kakhulu ukuba uphendule umbuzo othi, yini ubunzima umzali? Ngokuvamile uhlu izinkinga kuhlanganisa izinto ezilandelayo:

• ukusabela okungekuhle yokwenqaba yimuphi isiphakamiso;
• inkani;
• inattention;
• ukungahlaliseki;
• ukucasuka, uvalo;
• ukuthambekela iconsi ezindaweni zomphakathi.

Zonke lezi izimpawu ubudala crisis. I ingane ifuna ukuqinisa imvelaphi yabo, enqaba usizo omdala. Kodwa yena wayengekho ngaphansi kanzima ukwedlula igugile iconsi nokungalaleli abazali: ingane ayiqondi ukuthi kwakwenzekani kuye, kungani wayethethelela egxekwa, zonke uvinjelwe, likhishwa, bajeziswe.

Kanjani ukufundisa bethanda

Kungenzeka neze ukuze usinde Inkinga eminyakeni emithathu ngaphandle kwezinkinga. Ngisho umzali ohlakaniphile ikhula akuyona ingane yokuqala ngezikhathi babe nobunzima ekukhuliseni izingane.

Kanjani ukuze asize lo muntu omncane? Okokuqala, ukubekezela. Bese - ukusebenza, umsebenzi kanye nomsebenzi. isimo oyisibopho imfundo efanele - umusa, ukuqina ukungaguquguquki. Banned ithoni kobushiqela, ama-oda izinhlawulo. Yiqiniso, akufanele bavunyelwe intando yeningi kakhulu: ingane akukakabi zisencane ukuba zizenzele izinqumo zazo. Kodwa ukuqondisa ke ngomusa kodwa ngokuqinile, njalo ukhuthaze, udumo impumelelo yabo hhayi ukugxila amaphutha kubalulekile.

Okubaluleke Ukhiye nabo nsuku zonke nengane. Ngezinye eneminyaka emithathu, esebenzayo komphakathi kid: uyahamba enkulisa. Ezinye izingane kalula ukubekezelela Ukushintsha kwenkundla nokuhlukana eside kunina, omunye ucindezelekile, okuyinto isikhathi eside akakwazanga ukuqeda. Yiqiniso, le nkathi ukulungiswa kuhambisana izinyembezi, negativism, iconsi. Kuyadingeka ukuba usichithe ingane ngangokunokwenzeka: ukuya ngezimpelasonto epaki, cabanga kwezwe elisizungezile futhi ukuze baxoxe ngalokho abakubheka wabona, ngenkuthalo ezihambayo emgwaqeni futhi udlale ethule ekhaya imidlalo, ukufunda ukudweba ndawonye sculpt okuthile plasticine. Basuke undendende nezinyane lembuzi: ukutshela izindaba, zihaya izinkondlo, ukuchaza imithetho kuxhunyanwa nabanye izingane kanye nabantu abadala, ukugqugquzela okhulumayo asebenzayo, ukuhlola izwe elisizungezile.

isitayela ngumzali ukuba zakhelwe ngokuhambisana nezimiso ezilandelayo:

• izimfuno okwamukelekile;
• ukukhuthazwa nokuzethemba;
• ukuthuthukiswa umsebenzi ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo;
• nokubambisana baqhubeka.

Uma kwenzeka e usinga zomphakathi, kuzomele ugcine ezolile Olympian. Akunakusetshenziswa abakwazi sokudedela nezidingo kid - kungasizi ukuvimbela okwalandela Antics nenkani. A endaweni esekusithekeni, lapho kungekho khona izilaleli, ithoni ezolile, ukubekezela - yilokho okudingayo ukuze uyeke yokungalaleli ukuboniswa. Ingane, noma kunjalo, kudingeka bazizwe uthando, ukwesekwa.

Izindlela ezahlukene imfundo

Ngokuvamile abazali basuke enqubeni zokukhulisa ingane ibhekene ukuqonda ezahlukene izinhloso nezindlela inqubo yemfundo. Abanye babazali esithambile futhi, futhi umuntu evumela yena ukugxila futhi flip flops. Konke lokhu kuvela ukuthi umndeni, lapho abazali akhulela khona. Uma umama nobaba bengavumelani, izingxabano azinakugwenywa. Isikhathi esining impela, they jikisa ku amahlazo futhi ingase iphele ngesehlukaniso. Futhi kuthiwani umntwana? He khula sezinzwa, ukwesaba nolaka noma buthaka sengingene. Izinga lokukhathazeka kule izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo yezingane kuholela okukhulu.

Kukhona futhi ukushayisana njalo phakathi kwabazali kanye nogogo nomkhulu. Umzamo wokuqala ukuba unomphela ichaze imingcele, ukuphula ukuthi akufanele kube, kanti eyesibili lula ukukhipha yonke imithetho. Nokho, yini engalungile ukondla ingane nge ushokoledi, nimyeke ahambe emuva kwesikhathi, ukuxazulula ukudla phambi TV? Empeleni, lo mehluko futhi kuholele nemiphumela ebuhlungu, kubangele izinkinga ezingathi sína bekhulisa ingane.

izidingo Uniform, kusekelwa wonke amalungu omndeni - yilokho okudingayo ukuze sifinyelele. Izingxabano nokungezwani, akwamukelekile neze, ngoba umntwana usuke eduze ukuqapha okwenzekayo. Akabange esakwazi ukuthatha uhlangothi omunye umzali, ngenxa yokuthi uyabathanda bobabili. Ngokuqaphela indlela abazali ukuxabana phezu kwalo, ingane ehlelwa okukhulu becindezelwa ngokwengqondo futhi engenabulungisa wecala. Futhi lena emqondweni, okuyinto kungahlanekezela isiphetho umntwana.

Yingakho-ke kubalulekile ukuba nivumelana. imfundo Proper esekelwe nenhlonipho nothando kwawo wonke amalungu omkhaya ndawonye, oyokwazi ukuzixazulula zonke izinkinga.