Self-kulinywe, Psychology
Indlela ukwazi wena ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze?
Yazi wena ... cishe ngizwa lokhu ibinzana ngalinye. Kodwa nomqondo sifaka ezahlukene. Njengoba abantu basendulo wathi: bazi wena ukwazi uNkulunkulu. Khumbula dictum adumile "ukwazi ukuthi ungubani futhi niyolazi ukuthula."
Ake sibone ukuthi ukwazi wena kwenzani na?
Ngokusho odokotela bengqondo, wokwazi umuntu ngokwakhe iqala neqiniso ukuthi udinga nje ukwamukela wena ukuthi ungubani ngempela. Musa bophezela be nothile efana ukuhola noma njengoba nje isuke ibangelwa imfashini, imvelo, eyeqisayo emphakathini, noma ngendlela esiyilindele ke eduze, iningi abazali. Cha, umuntu uqala ukuba nolwazi self-ukwamukelwa. Futhi nabo kumelwe sibe qotho.
Uma une into akusebenzi, futhi niyazi ukuthi ohlangothini ezibuthakathaka, thembeka kuwe ngokwakho. Uya emsebenzini, umsebenzi, uthi, phakathi nonyaka ka-level umphathi. Kodwa lokhu - okungeyona eyakho. Futhi angisoze uyazibuza. Futhi nawe usebenza lapho, ngoba badinga imali, ngoba besaba shintsho, ngoba ucabanga ukuthi uzothola into ngisho nakakhulu namanye, nezinye, nezinye ... ajwayelekile?
Ithi wena, thembeka - akusiwona okwami. Uma ungenalo alivume ke ngakho ngeke uphethwe ukudangala, ngoba Kulezo zimo, usuke awusona iphikisana abazi futhi equlekile. Waba yini umphumela walesi kwezingxabano ngeke nezifo zengqondo, ukucindezeleka, ukugula ukuphathwa kwabathintwayo, izinkinga zokulala nezinye nezinye "izintelezi".
Uma kugcwale umlomo ukuthi lesi "hhayi yakho", kuba - kuphela esigabeni sokuqala indlela uzazi. Isigaba sesibili kungokwemvelo - uma akukhona okwami, kubalulekile ukuthola lokho okungokwami. Futhi lokho akusona ungahlangahlangani. Bayingcosana bangase bazithole esemncane, abanye kuba - yezabasebenzi. Cabanga ngalokho konke okusemandleni. Uyini nobunzima? Ngiyazi ukuthi kufanele sihlale sisihle at ukupheka / ukuthunga / ukucula / umdanso / usungula nokunye. Kodwa lapha sima yokwesaba banal, futhi othile egunjini nalo, ngisho ubuvila. Sinesicefe - kungcono ayenqaba abaqaphela ulwazi. Ukungakholwa akusho asembulela imfihlo uzenza ngcono nendlela abe kuphumelele kakhulu.
Siyazazisa abantu baphumelele, kodwa besaba ukusifaka ezimpilweni zethu. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, ukuba ngamunye wethu uyajabula ubuhlakani ezifihliwe. Futhi - ihaba. Man - a njengoba ayephelele, ngoba zinethuba lokuthuthuka. Kodwa ... kufanele ahlale emuva umsebenzi isidina, bubula yekwenta imphilo kuhlulekile nokungalungi ukudalelwa, engaboni ukuthi ukungazi kwethu thina futhi kuyakhungathekisa beyizitha lomcoka eya empumelelweni.
Njengoba ochwepheshe ukweluleka, ukuze sizazi, singakwazi ukuzenza noma okudingeka uzenze ngokuzenzakalela ukuqeqeshwa. Futhi hhayi nje amazwi. Imicabango yakho ngeke ukungena ubuchopho bakho futhi wenze uthatha bahlole zonke izimo zokuphila. Uyeka ufuna abantu ababenze ukwehluleka kwabo, kodwa sicela ubheke ngaphakathi.
Nsuku zonke, uzitshela: "Mina ngiyindlela - uyoba nokuzethemba, Ngiphelele futhi enamandla ngingubani isibindi, futhi ngiyakholwa ngokwami, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ngifuna ukwazi ngokwami kanye ube ngcono.".
Isebenza kanjani emsebenzini? elula kakhulu. Uyoba ukuzethemba amakhono abo, futhi mhlawumbe uzothola isibindi ukubheka omunye umsebenzi. Omunye ukuthi is closer kuze you, lowo evumelana nawe ngaphezulu. Futhi okubaluleke nakakhulu, niyokwazi ukuthi uzophumelela noma umane akukwazi.
Bheka abantu abahlala sibi kunawe. Abanalo imilenze noma izingalo, noma balahlekelwa izingane zabo, noma kwenzeke kubo ezinye nhlekelele embi kangaka, kodwa ukuthola amandla okuphila. Ngakho, ingabe lokhu ukuthola amandla ukuze bavuselele ukuphila kwabo ngendlela ofuna ngayo, kodwa musa kuxhomeke ezimweni umsebenzi wazonda nokucindezeleka okuphakade.
Inethiwekhi has a lot of izincwadi zokuzisiza kanye ulwazi ngokwakho uma ufuna ukwazi ukuxoxa inthanethi nge zokusebenza kwengqondo futhi ufunde kabanzi mayelana nokuthi ungakwazi futhi kudingeka uzazi. Bese ukuphila kwakho zizoshintsha zibe ngcono.
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