Indlela ukutshela umama ukuthi yami isikhathi ongafikanga?

"Oh, amantombazane, Angazi ngawe, kodwa nginenkinga: kanjani ukutshela umama ukuthi yami isikhathi ongafikanga? Emzimbeni, mina kwamiswa insikazi omdala, futhi le nsizwa enginakho uwukuba sihlangane njalo baye ocansini, kodwa ngandlela-thile alizange kuze kube namuhla. Ukubambezeleka ka kwezinsuku ezimbalwa, kodwa ngiyesaba ukuthi "landizela".

Nokho, the last ubuhlobo bobulili ngaphandle kwekhondomu, kodwa wakwazi ukudonsa umthondo kusukela ngaphambi emomozini ukuze okwamanje kwesidoda yakhe "waxoshwa." Kuzokwenzekani manje? Mina nginengu-15 kuphela, futhi ingasaphathwa. Ukuya wezifo zabesifazane esabe namandla eziphakamisa? "

Lab 'odokotela ukwazana izindaba, kodwa ubatshele yesikole ongenalwazi kuphela uma ekuseni ukugula iqala ukuba ahlukumeze noma isisu zikhule. Okufanele ukwenze nge abasha unomzimba ucela, kodwa ikhanda lami ligcwele "hhayi convolutions engaphezu kweyisithupha"? Ithiphu eyodwa: ukuqala izingxoxo ngezindaba isihloko obuseduze ngaphambi kokuya esikhathini ukumemezela ngokwawo.

Yebo, amantombazane amahloni efana naleyo, kodwa ngamunye wabo ungayithola indlela, ngoba akekho owaziyo kahle kakhulu ingane yakhe, umama. Kufanele uqale ingxoxo ngaphandle nezindinganiso zokuziphatha futhi uthando, ngoba indodakazi yakhe.

Ubani okufanele uhambe yombuzo "kanjani ngithi umama ukuthi yami isikhathi ongafikanga?"

izinkulumo Okuyimfihlo kulezi zihloko kungaba kwenziwe futhi isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uma wayekwazi ukwenza abangane naye bese uba ingane cishe nomkhaya. Kuzothatha isikhathi nesineke, intombazane wembula umphefumulo awuyona nezintombi ngengqondo, uyakwazi imvume noma izaba ekhoneni imfihlo ubudala yakhe siqu, kodwa namanje amaningi ukuhleka mayelana akwazisa piquant asifane ukuze esikoleni sisonke, kanti yena ungumuntu wabantu.

Manje zicabange uyileso bathole ibhulogi nengane efunda nayo esikoleni, lapho wabhala lokhu:

"Noma kunjalo, indlela ukutshela umama ukuthi yami isikhathi ongafikanga? Ungasondeli okufanayo wakhe ekhishini lapho yena iklabishi isobho chops, hhayi aphahluke izindaba yaya embundwini kusukela lapho othandekayo kungenzeka kudingeke ushayele i-ambulense. Kudinga indlela ezintekenteke, isibonelo, ayifake ukuvelela sokukhulelwa test ngaphandle ngeshwa emapheshana ezimbili. Mhlawumbe umama ukuqagela yena, futhi kuqala ufuna ukukhuluma?

Lolu khetho, yebo, enhle, uma ubuhlobo kuwukuthi emndenini efudumele. Kungenjalo, kuze eduze scandal, kodwa mhlawumbe abazali pokrichat kancane, bese, waqinisekisa, unqume ukuthi wenzani? Kusukela endlini, ngokuqinisekile, hhayi axoshwe: Ngiyabonga, ukuthi umthetho ungakimi, futhi ukuya wezifo zabesifazane is singakabi sibi kangako. Namanje engenanina Kodwa akazange azamukele.

Kungenzeka, isimiso, futhi amanga okuthi ngenyanga babe 2 izinsuku nje into, kodwa othile kusuka kule kuphela kuyoba lula? Scared ukuya ekamelweni nabazali bakhe, kodwa kunzima nakakhulu ukusebenzelana ukuba kalowo of ubuthi ke bonke bayakukwazi ukuthi angisona eseyintombi umunwe chokoloza isiqalo.

Mina sebakhulile, mhlawumbe nje yisona ukubambezeleka? "

Yini okumele uyenze uma ungezi nyangazonke?

1. Ukwazisa umzali.
2. Qiniseka ukuvakashela emtholampilo.
3. Zihlolele isifo.
4. Yenza ultrasound esiswini.
5. Musa ahlupha ngokwakho ngombuzo "kanjani ngithi umama wami engibanike imisiwe menses?"

Kungenzeka ukuthi ungeyena okhulelwe: ngezinye izikhathi umzimba kokushayeka, kanye shift nyangazonke kufikela kuzinsuku ezingu-10. Kodwa ngokushesha nje lapho le nkathi luyanda, kungenzeka ukuthi umkhaya wakho ingane uyeza maduze.