Indlela onamabala lokubi kithi ngokwethu futhi emhlabeni

Kuleli zwe lanamuhla abantu asetshenziselwa letha yodwa kusukela ngokwakho, bayakhohlwa izithakazelo zabanye, ukulimaza abanye bafinyelele imigomo yabo. Abaningi bakholelwa lokhu kuziphatha Nokho, kuyinsakavukela khona, akekho ofuna maqondana ke ukwenza kanjalo. Kuyini okubi futhi uvelaphi? Ibangelwa yini? Indlela onamabala okubi emphakathini wesintu, futhi kungenzeka?

Kuyini okubi?

Umqondo elithi "okubi" kusho infliction ngenhloso ukulimala komunye umuntu kuya kwesinye, umonakalo nokuhlupheka. Lokhu kuhlanganisa konke ezazithandwa abantu ngomqondo ongemuhle. Ngo Ezinye izibonelo UBUBI: amanga, ubudlova, umona, inzondo, ukuthopha, okukhohlisa.

Ububi kuhilela Ukuzilimaza zokuziphatha noma ngokomzimba kwabanye abantu, izilwane, izwe lonke. Zonke izidalwa eziphilayo singadala ubuhlungu omunye phezu komunye. Kodwa umuntu kuphela bakwazi uyaqaphela, ukuze bayazikhethela bebheke izenzo ezimbi.

Ubunjalo okubi womuntu

Kusukela umbono ubuKristu okubi indoda, lapho u-Adamu no-Eva bazivumela ukuba angene esilingweni sokuthandana, bangamlalela uNkulunkulu, banambitha isithelo esenqatshelwe. Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, izinsana ngisho osanda kuzalwa ababengazange nikwenzile ngaphakathi lo pilo is lutho olubi, isono idluliselwe ucezu wawoyise. Man ekuqaleni kuka ebuntwaneni has a Ukuthanda ngenxa yokungalaleli kwayo, okubi futhi izenzo yokungathembeki.

Ekuqaleni, zonke izingane zizalwa okumsulwa futhi ongenasono. Indlela lapho abantu kuyoba encike ngqo kwi akhuliswa ngayo. Ngaphansi kwethonya zabazali nezomphakathi akhiwa zonke izimfanelo ngamunye. Ezweni lethu, lapho Nokho, kukhona amadoda aqotho abakulungele ukusiza yebo umuntu ongaziwa, emancane ngenani ezinjalo. Izingane ezikhulela emikhayeni enjalo, njengoba umthetho, zama ukuba bangakwenzi okubi, hhayi nodlame aphatha ngayo abanye.

Indlela ukuqeda ububi obusemhlabeni

Mhlawumbe, iningi lethu ungathanda ukubona emhlabeni nanini ukumisa impi, ubugebengu khona, futhi abantu baphathana mayelana nomunye. Uma isifiso esinjalo kumele bondle bantfu labanyenti kangaka, kungani okubi kusalokhu kukhona?

Ngeshwa, abantwana abaningi ikhulele endaweni enobutha negcwele ukukhonza futhi umphumela waba ukuthi sithola kusukela lezi abadala babe abanonya futhi uzimisele ukwenza lutho ukuba afinyelele imigomo yabo. Indlela onamabala okubi, uma kusuka ebuntwaneni abantu babhekene yonya nobudlova?

Eqinisweni, ukwakha umphakathi lapho kukhona abanabo neze ububi kunzima kakhulu, futhi mhlawumbe kungenzeki, okungenani esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Uma ababusi bawo wonke amazwe, hlanganani, senza umzamo baye banyathelisa uchungechunge imithetho nezimiso okuhloswe ngazo ukuthi onamabala okubi, ukuxazulula le nkinga kuzoba lula kakhulu. Nokho, lokhu kubonakala kungeke kwenzeke, ngoba abantu amandla ungafuni ukushintsha izwe, engozini yokulahlekelwa ukuma emphakathini zonke izinzuzo ukuthi banayo.

Wenzani kubantu? Vele uhlale bese ulinda okubi ngeke zinyamalale ngawodwana, ukujabulela esintwini akababhubhisi ngokwayo izimpi nezinhlekelele zemvelo? Abaningi banomuzwa wokuthi abakwazi ukulungisa noma yini futhi uzoqhubeka uphila engacabangile ukuthi othile endaweni ethile ihlangabezana ukuhlupheka. Noma kunjalo, yilowo nalowo bukwazi ukuthonya ukuphila kwabo, aqale ukwenza okuhle kwabanye futhi ukuhlonipha izithakazelo zabanye.

Qala nge ngokwakho

Uma ushintsha izwe amandla alulona olwawo wonke umuntu, bese ucabanga indlela yokuqeda ububi uqobo, noma yimuphi umuntu. Ngempela, abantu abaningi ngeke alinge ukuze uvimbe yonke imibuthano izenzo kahle, i-enomusa futhi ihlanzeke ngeke emphakathini wethu.

Uma ucabanga kufanele kulwisanwe okubi ngokwayo silula, wena iphutha ngokujulile. Labo abafuna ngobuqotho ukwenza kanjalo, funda umusa kukho konke ukuphila kwakhe. Akulula kanjalo ukwenza izenzo ezimbi, ikakhulukazi ezimweni lapho ngakuwena isinyathelo ehlukile.

Ukuqeda okubi phakathi kwethu lisikisela ukuthuthukiswa unomphela engokomoya yomuntu, isifiso uzochoboza yonke imicabango emibi, ikhono lokuhlukanisa phakathi kokulungile nokungalungile, ikhono simelane nezilingo kungaholela ezenzweni esinesono. Kuyinto omningi ku ngokwabo, ukuthi amandla alulona olwawo wonke umuntu. Nokho, uma umuntu uzimisele nje ukuphendula umbuzo kanjani ukuqeda ububi, kodwa zama ukuba benze kanjalo, kumelwe uqale kuqala kunazo zonke naye.

Indlela ukukhulisa ingane indoda enhle

Okunye ongakusho ukwenza izwe lethu libe yindawo engcono yithuba ukufundisa ingane yakho enomusa umuntu onozwela. Namuhla, bonke eziningi izimo, abazali njalo umatasa, ukuqinisekisa umndeni ezingokwenyama inhlalakahle. Abaningi sintula amandla anele ukuze banike abantwana babo ukunakisisa izimpawana.

Ukuze ukhule ube umuntu omuhle, ingane kumele njalo bazizwa uthando nokunakekelwa kubazali babo. Izingane zidinga ukulungiswa njalo yezenzo zabo nokuziphatha phezu ingxenye abadala. Abazali kuphela bangafundisa umntanakho ukwakha isimo sengqondo okufanele okuhle nokubi, wasibeka sisendleleni efanele, ukugxilisa isimo sokulindela okuhle emhlabeni.

Adult nakubona ukuthi uyaphila akulungile, kanzima kakhulu ukuba baqonde indlela onamabala okubi phakathi kwethu futhi sifunda indlela ukuba sikuqonde emhlabeni futhi abantu ngendlela ehlukile. Izingane zizalwa ngonembeza omsulwa. Kulula kakhulu ekuqaleni ukukhulisa uhlobo lomuntu, kunokuba sizame ukulungisa amaphutha ke futhi ozosusa ububi.

Kungenzeka yini ukuba kuqedwe ngokuphelele okubi

Izwe lethu yakhelwe ukuze uhlale khona, kokubili okuhle nokubi. Kungenzeka yini ukuba umuntu ngokuphelele nokuthi onamabala okubi amadoda?

Kuyaziwa ukuthi intuthuko yesayensi ngaphezulu ifinyelela esintwini laziwa nomusa ngaphezulu emphakathini wethu, iba. Mhlawumbe, eminyakeni embalwa engamakhulu, ukuthuthukiswa impucuko yethu uyofinyelela ezingeni yokuthi ubugebengu nobudlova kuyobe kuyehla kube sezingeni eliphansi, futhi abantu ngeke baqonde indlela ozosusa ububi. Impendulo yombuzo uma lokhu kuzokwenzeka, futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi into enjalo kwakuyokwenzekani asiyazi.

Uma ezimpilweni zethu, akukho ngempela kunoma yikuphi okubi, umuntu Kunzima ukuqonda okuhle. Ububi obusemhlabeni kungenzeka khona abantu ukuze bakwazi sokuthi sikuthokozele konke okuhle nangakho ukukhanya, lokho okwenzeka kubo. Nakuba singazi aphumelele namuhla ukuze kuqedwe ngokuphelele okubi emhlabeni, wonke umuntu angakwazi zama okwenza izimpilo zabo kanye nezimpilo zabanye kangcono.