Self-kulinywe, Psychology
Imizwa kwengqondo - kuyinto ... Izinhlobo, izici imizwa
Imizwa kwengqondo - lokhu ingenye izindikimba emaphakathi, elibangela isithakazelo esikhulu phakathi ososayensi, kanye nabantu abavamile. Lesi simo esiyingqayizivele sibangelwa kuhambisana umuntu unomphela. Kwakuthi nje lapho thina uvuke ekuseni, ngokushesha sizizwa imizwa ezithile, ezingase iyashiyana ezihlukahlukene imihlola. Yini into ebonakala ilula futhi abavamile, eqinisweni, kuba isimiso esiyinkimbinkimbi, okuyinto lafundvwako ngochwepheshe sekungamakhulu eminyaka amaningana.
Uyini umqondo
Imizwa kwengqondo - uhlobo asabela ngayo izenzakalo noma izenzakalo ezihlukahlukene. Ukuphila komuntu akunakwenzeka ngaphandle kwabo. Futhi ngisho noma kuba isimiso, ngaphandle nakho ezicacile, bese abantu uzoqala ufuna amadlingozi, ukulalela umculo, ukubukela amabhayisikobho noma ukudlala imidlalo, lokusungula. ezithakazelisayo Ikakhulukazi Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi umuntu ukuba khona ngokugcwele kudingeka kuphela imizwa omuhle kodwa futhi elibi hhayi uhlanganiswa nentukuthelo, ubuhlungu noma usizi.
Izinhlobo imizwa kwengqondo
Njengoba izinzwa womuntu kungaba okufanayo nakuzo zonke izimo, kunengqondo ukuthi banayo ngezigaba zabo. Lokhu kusho ukwahlukana ngokuhambisana nezimo nemibandela lapho kuphakama isidingo. Ngakho, izinhlobo imizwa kwengqondo kungenzeka kanje:
- izinzwa Ephakeme - konke ehlangene nomphakathi. Lokhu kusho isimo sengqondo sabantu ayephila nabo, abasebenzi, kanye kuhulumeni kanye nomphakathi wonkana. Singasho ukuthi lokhu kubonakaliswa izinze kakhulu, njengoba cishe musa ukushintsha kukho konke ukuphila. Ukuze lesi sigaba futhi kufanele babhekwe nemizwa ehambisana ne-uthando, akuthandayo nangakuthandi maqondana nezinye abantu.
- Indlela azizwa Zokuziphatha, okungase ngokuthi unembeza lahlotshaniswa futhi alawule ubuhlobo babantu. Báqondiswa kubo, umuntu enamandla okuzitholela ukuziphatha kwabo maqondana abanye. Futhi, isimilo nokuziphatha kakhulu kuthinte ukuziphatha kanye isimo sokuma umuntu othize.
- Ingxenye ebalulekile ekuphileni komuntu ngenxa yokuthi angabhekwa ngomqondo ongokoqobo. Basuke ahlobene nomsebenzi zabasebenzi obuhambisana abantu ukuphila kwabo konke. Lapha esinazo emqondweni hhayi kuphela isimo sengqondo emsebenzini, kodwa futhi yokusabela kuya imiphumela yayo emihle noma emibi. A umuzwa wesibopho - lokhu ingenye imiqondo eyisisekelo kulo uhlelo, okungase kubhekwe ugqozi eziyinhloko umsebenzi.
- imizwa Intelligent ebonakaliswa indoda kakhulu ekuzalweni kwakhe. Basuke elixhumene isifiso okuqhubekayo ukufunda okuthile okusha, ahlaziye, qhathanisa bese sifika eziphethweni ezithile. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngenxa nokuvuthwa labantu, ukuthola amafomu ephakeme futhi ukubonakaliswa.
- umuzwa tebuciko - kuba ikhono lomuntu ukwakha imibono efanele mayelana ubuhle, ekuphenduleni ubunjalo noma imisebenzi yobuciko. Nge lesi simanga sihlangana nsukuzonke, ekuhloleni ukubukeka kwabo, futhi abanye lapho bebhekene ngento enhle futhi ugly, nenhle futhi kunganambitheki nokunye.
Imizwelo kuyi-Psychology
Ekhuluma mkhuba imizwelo, eziningi abantu, ngenxa yokuntula ulwazi, eziqhathanisa izinzwa. Kodwa lokhu akulona ngempela kuyiqiniso. Imizwelo kwengqondo - yokusabela (ie - ukubonakaliswa kwangaphandle) ku izenzakalo ezithile, imicimbi noma isenzo ezishukumisa. Kusinda kwenye yezingxenye of into efana umuzwa. Imizwelo baveze nibonakala ukuthi umuntu ahlangabezane ekujuleni ngaphakathi.
inqubo Ngokomzwelo kuhambisana izimpawu ezifana:
- Isithakazelo imicimbi noma amaqiniso.
- Intokozo izenzakalo ezinhle.
- Ngokumangalisayo, ukuthi ngeke kukhonjwe noma emizwelweni emihle noma emibi, ngoba akusho ngokucacile ichaze ubuhlobo amaqiniso athile.
- Ukuhlupheka ibonisa isimo langaphakathi lidale izenzakalo ezibuhlungu.
- Ulaka ezingavela kokubili maqondana umuntu othile noma iqembu labantu (kwezinye izimo angakhula abe ukwedelela).
- Enyanya - kuyinto umzwelo engavela njengokungathi bazithoba Animate ziyaphila noma izinto, futhi kwezinye izimo.
- Ukwesaba elivela umuntu esimweni lapho kukhona basongela ukulondeka yayo (futhi lokhu kungase kube ngenxa yokwephula endleleni komkhuba ukuphila, kwathatha entsha, kwakuhileleke izimo ezingavamile).
- Shame kuphakama lapho umuntu asaba ukusabela abanye ukuziphatha kwabo.
Uma sibonisa ubudlelwane phakathi imiqondo lafundvwako eduze kakhudlwana, singasho ukuthi imizwa - kungcono inqubo ngokomzwelo.
Izimpawu izinzwa
Imizwa kwengqondo - a izenzakalo kusikisela ukuba khona eziningi izici:
- Valency - ingenye izici eziyinhloko ukuthi ukuchaza imizwa. Ngakho, umuntu angase nemizwa emihle noma emibi. Futhi, kwezinye izimo, bangase angathathi hlangothi (noma, ekhuluma ulimi isayensi, banemizwa engqubuzanayo).
- Ukugxila - ungamandla ngalo kukhona imizwa ethile. Kungenzeka ezincane, lapho cishe akunamthelela indlela umuntu azizwa ngayo. Uma umfutho kuphezulu, inkulumo ethi zangaphandle ngokomzwelo ezifanele.
- imizwa Stenichnost - umqondo ukuthi inquma umthelela wabo umsebenzi womuntu. Ngakho, kwezinye izimo, bakwazi ukukhuthaza umuntu ukuba abe abakhuthele futhi ngezinye izikhathi - ukuze ulwenze ekhululekile, isimo melancholic.
Kanjani imizwa ezithinta isimo
isimo somuntu buvezwa imizwa athole. Kuye ngalokho umthunzi banayo, abantu baziphathe ngandlela-thile, ngizizwa ngicindezelekile noma, kunalokho, - ezinamaphiko. Ngakho, lokhu okulandelayo kubenze bungabonakala anomthelela kumiswa ajabule:
- ukwazisa ezihambisana ngesimo sengqondo esiqondile ukuba umuntu owenze isono isenzo esihle;
- Uthando - uthando indlela abobulili obuhlukile;
- ngokumthanda - siwukubonakaliswa injabulo yobuhle ;
- ngesisa - umuzwa omuhle kubangelwa umuntu noma isilwane;
- uzwela - nezici ezithile ukuze omunye umuntu ezihambisana ukubukeka kwakhe nezenzo ezinhle;
- Passion - bakhangane eqinile umuntu noma into.
imizwa engakhi
Imizwa kwengqondo - into ukuthi kungaba futhi omubi, ezikhandla kahle ithonya isimo. Lezi zihlanganisa:
- umhawu - kwenzeka ukunakwa lapho enganele nabathandekayo babo;
- antipathy - ubutha okungenasisekelo noma kunengqondo yindoda;
- iwayini - umuzwa omubi, okwenzeka ngemva isenzo ngamabomu okungalungile;
- inzondo - umuzwa ubutha futhi intukuthelo, aqondiswa ku kumuntu othile;
- Fear - imizwa emibi ehambisana ne-basongela ukulondeka komuntu.
kanjani imizwa
Kumiswa izinzwa senzeka esebenzisa eziningi imizimba kuthiwa ngobulili isimiso sezinzwa esiyinhloko kolwazi kwemvelo. Siyabonga kubo, umuntu angakwazi ukubona, ukuzwa, touch, iphunga noma ukunambitheka, umuntu efuna ukushiya isithombe esithile ku imvelo bangaphandle, abantu ezungeze noma ezimweni ezithile. Ngokwesibonelo, kungase kube khona ezinye imizwa ngokuqondene ukubukela amabhayisikobho ezithakazelisayo, ukulalela umculo enhle, thinta ukuze surface ethile, kanye nokuqaphela uhlobo ukunambitheka noma ukuhogela.
Esinye isitho sezinzwa, okuyinto evame ngokungabi nabulungisa ukhohlwe ukubalula kuba apharathasi vestibular. It eyenza umsebenzi obalulekile njengoba umuzwa Isikhala ukuzwisisa ubujamo babo kuwo. Enye into ebangela eziningi mpikiswano emphakathini lesayensi, ingabe umuzwa noma ikhono lokubona izinto kusengaphambili. Ngalesi indlela, umuntu ongabikezela ukuqala isimo kusengaphambili attuning ekusizeni igagasi ezithile imizwa emihle noma emibi.
Imizwa nokuziphatha
imizwa Zokuziphatha - lokhu ingenye ukubonakaliswa esiphezulu umuntu ngokomzwelo, okuyinto kubonakala ngesimo sakhe ukuze yena, kwabanye futhi umphakathi. Kumiswa lokhu kubonakaliswa zenzeka zonke izinsuku zokuphila. Ngokuhamba esakhula umuntu iqala siwazi eduze Njengoba edlulisela amasiko nemithetho umphakathi kuzo nalezo aphila kuzo, ngenxa yalokho, kukhona amanani esithile sokuziphatha. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi kulesi sigaba sama-imizwa kubhekwa kuqhathaniswa njalo, namanje nolimi bangase babe eziphathelene ne izenzakalo ezithile emphakathini noma ezimpilweni zabo siqu.
Omunye ukubonakaliswa ebaluleke kakhulu imizwa zokuziphatha umuzwa wesibopho. Lesi senzakalo bakha ngeminyaka, enqubeni ngendlela akhuliswa nemfundo, kanye self-ukutholakala. I call of duty ungaba amazinga amaningi futhi ukubonakaliswa:
- ukuze yena - isibopho afinyelele imigomo ethile, nokunye;
- kwabanye - umndeni, abangane, umphakathi;
- ukuze ngokuhlanganyela zabasebenzi - ukusebenza ukuya empini ngenxa kanembeza futhi enesibopho yomsebenzi;
- isimo - umuzwa lokushisekela ubuzwe nesithunzi kazwelonke.
Izinhlobo izinqubo ngokomzwelo
inqubo Emotional - uhlelo zezici elawula umsebenzi ngokomzimba noma ngokomzwelo womuntu, okuyinto eyenzeka ekuphenduleni zezemvelo nokushukunyiswa indawo. Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi okwamanje alikho iyiphi ithiyori owamukelwa ukuthi wayeyobanika incazelo eqondile leli qiniso.
Ukukhuluma mayelana nenqubo ngokomzwelo, kuyafaneleka ukuba khona eziningana izinhlobo zayo:
- kuthinta - kungcono esifushane, kodwa izinkulumo sasivumela ezinamandla ezingokomzwelo, okuyinto singawathola yomsebenzi omkhulu ngokwengqondo noma ngokomzimba;
- imizwa ukunikeza umuntu ukuqonda subjective of isimo, okuyinto neze ukuhlanganiswa nanoma into ethile;
- imizwa, njengoba kuqhathaniswa isigaba odlule, isimo sengqondo esicindezelwayo ukusabela womuntu ehambisana nanoma iyiphi into ethile;
- Mood - izinqubo ngokomzwelo lide, okuyizinto ezihlobene ne esikuyo ezivamile okubandakanya kokubili izenzakalo futhi izinto.
Siyini isifiso
Ububi yiziphi izinto noma emizweni ingabagulisa umuzwa othile. Desire - lokhu ingenye zokukhulekela zenkolo ezazivame kakhulu izidingo. Lena akuyona nje yokungazi ngaso kunoma iyiphi izinto noma emizweni, kodwa futhi nekhono isamukele inombolo yezimpikiswano ezavela:
- Yini kahle hle engilufunayo? Ikhono ukuchaza ngokucacile into lapho kunesidingo noma isidingo esiphuthumayo.
- Kungani ngifuna? Ukukwazi ukunquma ngesisusa, okuyinto eyaqanjwa ukuvela isidingo lutho.
- Kanjani ukufeza umgomo? Ulwazi noma thola imizila ethize noma izindlela ezikuvumela ukuba uthole into oyifunayo noma ukufinyelela kunoma isiphi isimo.
imizwa Human elihlobene ne izifiso, singenzeka for yezizathu ezihlukahlukene. Abakwazi kubangelwe kokubili izici zangaphakathi nezangaphandle. Ekhuluma okokuqala, kuyafaneleka kokukhuluma isidingo somuntu siqu noma ukungabi kwanoma iziphi izinzuzo. Enye imbangela kungase kube isifiso ukulandela imfashini, futhi isifiso sokuthutha ukulingisa ubuntu namandla noma abaholi bamaqembu nomphakathi.
Kubonakala sengathi isifiso, zingagcinwa isikhathi eside futhi kungaba ngempela unomphela. Esimweni sokuqala, ungakwazi bavame ukukhuluma izidingo ezingokomzwelo ukuthi ngeke sigqibe ezibonakalayo. Kodwa izifiso ehambisana nanoma iyiphi izinto esithile noma izihloko zingashintsha noma zinyamalale ngokuphelele ngenxa yezinguquko Amathrendi.
Kanjani ukuveza imizwa
Ukubonakaliswa Komusa imizwa akufanele sibhekwe nje njengoba isimangaliso esithile noma inqubo, kodwa futhi njengoba kudingeka kwenziwe umgomo, okuyinto sici for umuntu ngamunye. Kungenzeka ukuhlonza inombolo yezici ezithile, esizolokhu inkulumo ethi imizwelo:
- umsebenzi Ukuxhumana wukuthi wonke umuntu njalo odinga ukukhuluma. Vumela okusinika ithuba lokuveza imizwa futhi sibudlulisele kwabanye isimo sabo sengqondo kulokho noma lowo mkhuba, futhi uthathe ulwazi olufanayo kusuka interlocutor yakhe noma Umphikisi. Abantu Yaveza isimo sabo maqondana nomunye. Kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi ukukhulumisana senzeka kuphela zokuxhumana ngomlomo, kodwa futhi esebenzisa ukuthinta, imibono, kanye nezinye izenzo ukunyakaza.
- zokukhwabanisa umsebenzi (noma ithonya) uvumela umuntu ukuthumela ngendlela ethile yezenzo kanye ukuziphatha kwabanye abantu. Le nqubo singenzeka ngokushintsha ithoni nokuphakama kwezwi lakho, ukuthinta asebenzayo, kanye ezithile sobuso. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungase futhi ofuna ukulawula abanye ngezitatimende ezithile ezibonisa yakho isimo esingokomzwelo.
- umsebenzi olungokomzwelo ukukhulula imizwa. Ingqikithi zalesi simo itholakala lokuthi ukuthi ukucindezeleka ngokwengqondo avame ukunqwabelana kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umcimbi noma mkhuba lalibizwa (emihle noma emibi). Ukuzwakalisa imizwa yakhe, umuntu ivame ukuba balahle kubo. Ukuzwakalisa imizwa yakho interlocutor (ngomlomo noma ngohlolo ngokusebenzisa ukushukuma komzimba), umuntu angase abe nomuzwa impumuzo ngokomzwelo futhi unciphise ukungezwani sezinzwa. Odokotela bengqondo amacala lapho ukungakwazi ukuba baphathe umsebenzi ngokomzwelo kuholela iziyaluyalu ingqondo okungathí sina noma yokuziphatha.
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