Iminyaka engu-16, lomshado, weminyaka

iminyaka engu-16 - itopazi lomshado. Lesi sidingo ngokwengxenye ukwazi konke. Wedding - emkhosini emangalisayo futhi okuthakazelisayo, zikwenze uzitshele ukuthi ukhona yini umkhosi othile enjalo bayokujabulela eziphilayo womshado kanye kuphela, futhi ngenxa yalokho kufanele kudlule ukuze inkumbulo wahlala iminyaka eminingi. Naye zonke izizwe ubulokhu uhlotshaniswa nge izinhlobonhlobo zokuthembela ezeni eziningi namasiko. Thina amakholwa lomshado kuhambisana emikhosini emangalisayo zenkolo: lomshado ebuKristwini, Islam Nikah, njll

Ngamunye mbhangqwana has iholide ayo, futhi lokhu - ngosuku lomshado, usuku lokuzalwa umndeni omusha. Le iholidi, imikhaya eminingi ukunikeza anencazelo ekhethekile njengabakade kubonisa ukuzinza inyunyana ahlangene ukukhetha abathembekile mutual, naphezu kwakho konke vicissitudes zokuphila. Ngamunye esenzeka emshadweni kuba ehlukile lifanekiselani kule nombolo fanele wedding yokugubha usuku eminyakeni 16, futhi ngayinye kuwo lugujwa ngendlela ekhethekile.

eyedlule womshado zingase zihluke, kodwa enjabulweni yomshado yakhiwa onqobayo ngokuhlanganyela. Futhi isinyathelo esilandelayo phakathi neminyaka ujabule ukuthi bahlala ndawonye, uneminyaka engu-16 yomshado. Lesi sigameko esiyingqophamlando, naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi usuku, njengoba besho, "round", ubalulekile futhi. Abelana nomndeni wakho, izihlobo nabangane injabulo enjalo siqu njengoba wedding yokugubha usuku eminyakeni 16, kuzoba umqondo omuhle kakhulu, kanti lokhu kungaba push lonke ikusasa, "nemigubho" kanye nenhlangano yalo mkhosi. Ukuze behalalisela kungafaneleka ukwethula izipho ezenziwe ngezandla zabo - njengoba iwuphawu lokuthi injabulo yabo komlayezo thina. Nikeza umbhangqwana oshadile, lowo mkhosi onecala, passport noma isitifiketi, okuyinto kwasho iminyaka engu-16 sishadile, zafinyelela by. ukumangala Special kuyoba isipho, etholakele ezandleni zabantwana.

Bambalwa imibhangqwana ukuthi yini umshado iminyaka engu-16, lokho igama ukuthi, futhi, banquma ukugubha, ngoba ngempela isikhathi eside zasemshadweni ngemuva futhi bahlala ndawonye isikhathi eside ngokwanele, lo mbhangqwana ngakujwayela komunye nomunye, ngisho nemininingwane emincane watadisha imikhuba, ezinhle futhi ezimbi. Zaphinde zafunda ukuba sivumele ukunqotshwa impikiswano kuphakama nezimo ezinzima ngenxa ekuqondisisaneni, ukusekelana emkhayeni. Ngakho-ke, 16 iminyaka, imishado , futhi, yokugubha it has isiko lalo negama: lokhu lomshado - isafire noma ngenye itopazi. Itopazi thola ephulukisa talisman evikela umndeni kusuka ukubukeka okubi futhi ezihlukahlukene nezifo. Futhi kunenkolelo ukuthi leli tshe ine yangaphakathi okukhanyisa impahla ngoba sici - i play emangalisayo sokukhanya obala, ukuthi owuthanda abantu. Isipho esikhulu labo abangase babe umbhangqwana kuyoba ubucwebe kanye izesekeli stylish.

imibhangqwana okahle okwazi baphile ngenjabulo futhi ngokuvumelanayo, uthanda ukuhlela nemikhosi emikhulu inala izivakashi. Lapho umenywa ukuba a weminyaka engu ezifanayo iminyaka engu-16 sishadile, yebo, udinga i isipho yasekuqaleni. Kuvulwe ukwethula lo mbhangqwana ewusizo izihloko umnotho. izipho bendabuko itiye, ikhofi kanye yokudlela amasethi, amatafula-TV, izingubo zokulala kusofa, ikhofi abenzi, kettles, labathaki bamafutha, kungaba eside uhlu, konke kuncike emcabangweni wakho. Kuyadingeka ukuba acabangele ukuthi ukubaluleka isipho kufanele kube silinganisela ngendlela enengqondo. izinto ezibizayo futhi esiyigugu ezivame ukuvezwa nge eziseduze.

Uma sigubha wedding yokugubha usuku lwabo 16, ngandlela-thile, kufanele wenze isipho wabekela womshado yakhe ethandekayo. Lolu suku akuyona isiyingi, futhi banamathele emasikweni ikakhulukazi akusito ngesikhathi umnikelo. It has ithuba eliyingqayizivele ukwethula isithandwa sakho into noma into, okwase kuyisikhathi eside ngiphupha.

Mark kwalolu suku kungaba ndawonye futhi ukungcebeleka ngokusebenzisa ozithandayo, indawo yabo eyigugu, futhi dinner emangalisayo endaweni yokudlela ethokomele, futhi uhambo ku imvelo, kanye yesikebhe. Ungakwazi ukuqasha indlu esikhungweni nokungcebeleka, lapho ngenxa izoso kusihlwa ukhululekile kakhulu ukuchitha isikhathi nabangane, le bashayanisa izibuko ukuthi Uyomemeza "Kiss!"

Noma yimuphi ekugubheni inketho obakhethayo, waphinda uqinise uthando onalo, isisa nothando ngomunye nomunye.