Halala ngosuku esenzeka lama-40 owesifazane

Wamashumi amane lokuzalwa - yobudala ezithakazelisayo kakhulu kwabesifazane. Khumbula ukuthi inkulumo ethi "eMoscow Akusona Kholwa Nezinyembezi" kusukela ifilimu othandekayo "Life after amane isiqala nje, ngiyazi lwato"?. Nokho, ukuphila akulona lonke owesifazane kokuba imicabango efanayo. Ngakho-ke, siyakuhalalisela ngosuku esenzeka lama-40 owesifazane, kanye edilini ihlelwe behlonipha unyaka wayo, kufanele ukumenza akholwe ukuthi wayengaselona kancane efiselekayo nabathandwayo kunangesikhathi uphendukela amabili noma amathathu.

Kuthethe iminyaka ematjhumi amane nginithandile (igama) yethu -

Lona ekuqaleni ukuphila kwakho kuphela.
Hlala njengoba umuhle,

Kakhulu izimbali kithi.

Ngakho ekhaya lakho umama noma umfazi uphendulela amane. Ingabe wayekhulelwe wayenomona, ngoba uma ufunda lesi sihloko futhi uya ahlele ke abanye ukumangala kukarisa angakwazi kakade ucabange ukuthi wahlala cishe ingxenye yalo eminyakeni eyikhulu Akusikho lutho, phela yena onesithakazelo ukuphila kwakhe futhi ufuna ukumjabulisa.

Sondela njengendaba engathí sina lokhu nokubhala iskripthi wokugubha kweminyaka engu-40 owesifazane. Kule nkathi akunakwenzeka ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa njengoba kwasho insizwa, isibonelo, ukuhlela ephathini zomkhosi kanye ababemenyiwe ingubo fancy. Halala ngosuku esenzeka lama-40 abesifazane futhi kudingeka uzwakale okuqinile kancane xaxa, nakuba okwamanje ngokusemthethweni.

Kuphi ukuqala ukulungiselela edilini? Nge uhlu izivakashi, kanye befuna ezihambisana ngesipho iqhawe zakho ozithandayo kosuku kanye search Inthanethi kuyo inkulumo ethi "usuku lokukhumbula iskripthi iminyaka engu-40 owesifazane." Kugcine - into ebaluleke kakhulu kohlu, ngoba incike, ngeke kanjani usuku lokuzalwa kwakhe. Zama ukukhetha ombhalo siyakuhalalisela, okuyinto iningi lihambisana ubunjalo intombazane lokuzalwa.

Okulandelayo iwukuba ukuyothenga, ngemuva kokwenza uhlu. Izimbali (in inqwaba), amakhandlela, Balloons, amakhadi whatman, elula amabhanela kokufunda mayelana lokuzalwa, amakhrayoni, amapensela, upende, njll Ngaphandle kwakho konke lokhu okungenhla, ungakhohlwa scan inani elikhulu izithombe kanye kabusha uzitholele kubo. Zama ukuqala ukupheka siyakuhalalisela ngosuku esenzeka lama-40 abesifazane okungenani 2 amaviki ngaphambi iholide, ngoba uma kungenjalo awukwazi ukubamba kakhulu. Phela yezitolo udinga ukuba ukhethe indawo izenzakalo. Kungcono kakhulu uma ihholo idili encane, okuzokwenza ukuhlangabezana abangane nomndeni ntombazane lokuzalwa oseduze kuphela.

Vumelana nesimiso sokuqondisa ehholo, ukuze bavunyelwe ukuhlobisa it, athembisa ukuthi izindonga engabathinti ngobuhlakani bakho, nokuningi! Buza abangane abaseduze ambalwa ukukusiza ekulungiseleleni amaphosta ukuthi ubhale eziningi izinkondlo, kanye siyakuhalalisela ngosuku esenzeka lama-40 abesifazane engibathandayo konke lokhu kuyalungiswa. ungakhetha imibhalo mayelana ezifana:

Kuthethe iminyaka ematjhumi amane - magic isikhathi sowesifazane!
Phela, impilo akazange bavame,
Futhi kubonakala kuphela abasebasha,
Futhi amadoda konke bakuthokozela ukuba lady:
Kuthethe iminyaka ematjhumi amane - magic isikhathi sowesifazane!

Futhi omunye Whatman nje ukuhlobisa izimbali futhi izinhliziyo idwetshwa ke. Esikhathini esizayo, kuzomele uqinisekise ukuthi zonke isivakashi wakwazi ukushiya iziphakamiso zakho kanye nemigqondo Hero of the Day iholide. Uzihlanganisa amabhola etafuleni ngalinye ubeke vase izimbali, futhi bebonke, kube umcabango yokudala futhi ukuhlobisa igumbi kahle, siyakuhalalisela ukuze weminyaka engu lama-40 owesifazane kwakuzwakala esimweni zemikhosi futhi kumnandi.

Uhlu lwesivakashi uhlole amabhokisi aseduze amagama alawo abahlanganyeli abafisa ukusho amazwi ambalwa mayelana iqhawe kosuku, ucele ukuba sithathe nkondlo ngokuthi ubhontshisi.

Yiba abathandekayo enhle,

Lokho ukwakheka zigcwaliseka - ukuza.
iminyaka engamashumi amane, umuhle,
Vumela inhlanhla ulinde nje!

Ungakhohlwa mayelana umculo: kubalulekile ukuthi kwakungeyona rock kanzima noma rap kanye soulful umculo ozithandayo intombazane lokuzalwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungakwazi zihlanganisa amaculo eziningana ukuthi khumbuza wo ebuntwaneni, iculo kusukela opopayi noma amafilimu.

Ngakho, siyakuhalalisela ukuhlela iminyaka engu-40 owesifazane akulula njengoba kubonakala. Khumbula ukuthi konke ukuqhutshwa kumele kube imfudumalo nothando ngoba intombazanyana lokuzalwa, kubalulekile ukuthi yini kube buhlungu ngenxa yobudala bakhe, kodwa ngempela Kunalokho, ezimnandi futhi ukuphila ahlangabezane ukuthi uye zanqwabelana. Raduyte ke, eziletha ukufudumala, uthando nesisa, ngalolu suku nje kuphela, kodwa ngaso sonke isikhathi.