Esiswini abakhulelwe

Ukukhulelwa nganoma yisiphi owesifazane, ngaphandle kokukhetha - kuyisinyathelo ibe impilo entsha, okuyinto kulindeleke ukuba nezikhathi eziningi ezinhle kule nkampani ingane othandekayo. Omunye izimpawu ezisobala kakhulu "ezithakazelisayo" isikhundla - esiswini ukhulelwe, okuyinto nsuku zonke kuba more. "Futhi kungani lokhu kwenzeka, njengoba ikhula futhi kuyabonakala lapho" - banesithakazelo Iningi lomama esizayo. Ikakhulukazi uma kuyintando comers lokuqala, futhi kungaba ukuthi ukukhulelwa kuphazamisa ngaphezulu eside elindelwe.

Ekuqaleni, impendulo ivele ibe sobala - ukwanda esiswini ngobukhulu, ngoba ingane ikhula ngaphakathi, futhi kwenzeka zonke efanayo, ngaphandle kokukhetha. Kodwa akubona bonke ngakho elula. Sisu abakhulelwe inezici abaningi lapho uchwepheshe ongamtshela eziningi izinto ezithakazelisayo. Ngaphezu ingane ekhulayo esibelethweni ngolimi utero kuthinte lingakanani kwesibeletho lakhulisiwe amniotic fluid , futhi yebo, inani ukudla kudliwa kowesifazane.

Njengoba kuphawulwe ngenhla, ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa lokuqala esiswini isikhathi eside ziyasibona ngoba imisipha ke kubuye eqinile futhi akukaze sesimeni ukungezwani oluqinile. Kodwa-ke wonkhe umuntfu kweyeme etinyatselweni izici bokuphila ufuzo umama okhulelwe kakhulu, ngoba zikhona izikhathi lapho isivele 10 ngesonto waphawula khona "puzozhitel". On tum isilinganiso kuphuma esidenyana uma sebehlanganisa amasonto angu-12 "ezithakazelisayo" isikhundla, futhi imizuzu 16 kuphela - akunakwenzeka ukuba uphawule. Lapha uqala cheers yabanye, ikakhulukazi nozakwethu bethokoza, "declassified" isimo sakho. Phakathi nale nkathi, isibeletho siyabonakala futhi palpable esiswini Kucacile, futhi esikhathini esingaphansi kwesonto konke okungenhla ophakamayo. Lapho ingane isilungele inqubo ukulethwa, kwesibeletho odlula phansi.

Kukhona futhi okuhlukile, lapho kwesisu abakhulelwe liyavela Ngenyanga yesikhombisa, yesishiyagalombili ngisho lesishiyagalolunye. Prakthiza ebonisa ukuthi umcimbi olumangalisa iyindawo ukuba, ngakho akufanele simangale uma isisu sakho ngosuku kamuva akakabi ebonakalayo ngokwanele. It ngokuphelele akusho ukuthi ingane ngokuthile akukwazi kwesokudla. Amacala lapho esiswini akuyona kuyofikwa kuze ukulethwa, ebizwa ngokuthi "ukukhulelwa olufihliwe. '

Isikhathi esining impela abesifazane Sikhathazekile umugqa ku esiswini ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Ufuna nje wazi ukuthi lo ngumkhuba lalivamile, ngenxa okuyinto akudingekile sokukhathazeka. Lokhu isiqeshana ensundu, etholakala maphakathi esiswini, zinyamalale benganakwa ngemuva kokubeletha. Futhi akukho kokungenela salokhu ayidingekile. Kuyefana nasendleleni le mnyama izinwele tum.

Enye ukuzwa, ngokuvamile ekuletheni omama abakhulelwe ukhathazeke - esiswini Friend ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Ngezinye izikhathi kuba lukhuni kangaka njengetshe. Uma lokhu kwenzeka emavikini lokugcina isimo, kungaba eyabonisa i okuseduze kuqala zomsebenzi. Uma Nokho, ku esifishane - ku ithoni kwesibeletho. Kulokhu udinga ngokushesha balahle yalesi umzuzu engiwukhumbulayo owawungemnandi, kudingeka uphumule, ulale ngohlangothi lwakho. Lokho ukuvimbela ukuphinda isisu Uqinisa, kubalulekile ukuba bangayeki ucasukile, umsebenzi sezinzwa, ukunyakaza kungazelelwe. Uma kwabantu esiswini aluphumeleli emahoreni ayisithupha, udinga i isisekelo esiphuthumayo ukufuna usizo lukadokotela, ngoba lisitshela usongo umbungu!

Ngokusekelwe kulokhu okungenhla, singathola waphetha kanje: esiswini abakhulelwe ingavela nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, noma ingaveli. Nokho, kukhona ezinye izici ezisiza ukunquma "ukubonakala" yayo kanye nesikhathi ukubukeka. Lokhu izici yokwakheka umama okhulelwe, uhlobo isethulo, ubukhulu ingane futhi ijubane ukukhula, inani kwesisindo futhi sokukhulelwa (wokuqala noma cha).

Kunoma ikuphi, kungakhathaliseki ubukhulu sesisu ekhulelwe, owesifazane kufanele ngayo umzimba wayo siqu kakhulu ngendlela ukunakekelwa kungenzeka nokunakwa.