Amadoda ahamba phambili kakhulu emhlabeni

Kukhona inkolelo yokuthi amadoda amancane kakhulu abadlali, abadlali, abaculi abadumile kanye nabanye abathintekayo. Ingabe kunjalo ngempela, futhi ubulili buyini? Kuyini ukuveza - emisipha yensimbi, indima ye-hero-lover noma, mhlawumbe, ekuhlakanipheni komuntu? Ake sihlole izimpendulo ndawonye esihlokweni sethu.

Kuyini ubulili?

Kunezici eziningi kuncazelo yalo mqondo. Sizokunikeza okulula: ubulili buyintando yobulili obuhlukile, ukukhangwa kwabamele bayo ngendlela yangaphandle, imikhuba, ukuziphatha. Lokhu ukukhohlisa kuhloswe ukuvusa omunye wemvelo enamandla kunabo bonke - umuntu ongenamakhono okuzala, noma, ngokulula, ukukhiqiza. Siphetha ngokuthi amadoda amancane kakhulu awakhangwa ngokomzimba futhi abangela ukusabela ngokocansi (ngamanye amazwi, isifiso) kwabesifazane.

Izinkulungwane zeminyaka zidlulile kusukela ekuguqulweni kwesilwane sibe ngumuntu, kepha isisulu, okuthiwa uFrud, sasinjalo, njengoba kunjalo, sisona esiyinhloko. Lokhu, ngokuyisisekelo, kuyaqondakala, ngoba uma i-genus ingaziphindaphindi, iyafa.

Endle, abesifazane badonsela abesilisa (futhi ngokuphambene nalokho) ikhambi elinamandla kakhulu - iphunga elikhethekile. Lephunga elimangalisayo limadala abantu abesilisa futhi lenze isifiso sokuqhubeka le genus kuqala.

Kodwa kuthiwani ngabantu? Isayensi iye yafinyelela enqubekela phambili kangangokuthi nathi singadonsela abantu bobulili obuhlukile ngosizo lwephunga. Lezi yizidakamizwa ze-hormonal zokufakelwa - ama-pheromone. Zitholakala ezintweni ezikhishwe izilwane phakathi "nenkathi yokuvuna". Kodwa zingashukumisela izimo ezincane ngokulinganisa okungama-10-25%. Futhi utholaphi elinye i-75?

Amantombazane alula kakhulu kulokhu. Izingubo zikaFrank ngezinyathelo eziningi (ama-brassieres push-up okwenza isifuba siphumelele, sibambe iqhaza), izindebe ezibomvu nokuheha iphunga elimnandi lephunga - lena yingxenye enkulu yesithombe socansi. Yengeza lapha ubufazi obuncane nokuzwelana komuntu siqu (+ okusho ukuthi, esikhundleni sokukhuliswa nokukwazi ukuziphatha kahle) - futhi ingxube eqhumayo elwa nale ndoda isilungele.

Futhi kanjani ukuba umuntu? Umzimba womuntu ocansini akuyona njalo isihluthulelo sokuphumelela kwabesifazane, futhi ngisho nokubonisa amathuba akhe, uma kuqhathaniswa nobulili obuthakathaka, kusengaphansi. Pho-ke kungaba kanjani amadoda nokuthi ungadonsela kanjani abesifazane? Cabanga ngomqondo wobulili kumbono wesilisa.

Ubulili kumadoda

Sizochaza isithombe somuntu ofanelekayo ngokukhangisa:

• Umlingisi. Lapha konke kulula. Indoda kufanele ibe yindoda. Ngomlingiswa oqinile, othembekile, ophikelela, othakazelisayo nohlakaniphile. Kodwa kungenjalo kufanele umuntu adideke ukuzithemba ngokuzishaya indiva, nokubekezela ngokuziqhenya.
• Ukubukeka. Amadoda athile kakhulu kufanele ahlelwe kahle, ahlelwe ngendlela efanele, ngokufanele - enomzimba enomzimba omuhle.
• Isithombe esivamile. Ngeshwa, esikhathini sethu uhlobo oluthile lokufaka izimpahla zokuziphatha luyizinto ezibonakalayo, amanye amantombazane acabanga ukuthi ukuvikeleka komuntu, ukushayela ifoni kanye nesimo sezimoto ezibizayo kumenza angene ngokobulili. Lena umbono ongalungile. Sexy lapha akuyona insizwa, kodwa isikhwama sakhe. Ubulili besilisa abukalwa ngobuningi balokho, kodwa ezinye izingxenye zokukhangisa kwesimo somuntu zisabangela.
• Ukuziphatha. Yebo, ukuziphatha komuntu kuyingxenye yokuheha kwakhe. Ngeke sikutshele ukuthi indoda kufanele iphathe kanjani, ngoba konke lokhu kakade kuchazwe ezimisweni zokuziphatha. Izingxenye eziyinhloko zokuziphatha okunjalo zihlonipha futhi zikhuliswe, ukulinganisela nokugcina imithetho ye-banal: ukuvula umnyango phambi kwendoda, ukusiza ukuhambisa ifenisha enzima noma imishini yehhovisi kuzokukwenza ube yindoda yangempela emehlweni owesifazane.

Amadoda amadala emhlabeni - bangobani?

Cabanga ngezilinganiso ezimbili zokuqala eziphezulu eziphezulu.

Umagazini waseBrithani "Hot World" (Izwe Lokushisa). Indawo yokuqala isetshenziswa ngumdlali odumile webhola uDavid Beckham; Okwesibili - umlingisi oneminyaka engamashumi amathathu uRyan Gosling; Owesithathu nowesine babenamadoda amahle uRyan Reynolds noBradley Cooper; Ngesihlanu uJake Gyllenhaal. Kuyadingeka ukuthi indawo yesithupha lapha ithathwe nguRobert Patisson, okwesishiyagalombili akalahlekelwa isikhundla sakhe uJohnny Depp. Njengoba ubona, ukuqonda ukuthi ubulili besilisa bulula kangakanani ngosizo lwezibonelo zangempela.

Umagazini odumile wesifazane we-Glamor ubona amadoda amancane kakhulu anjalo. Indawo yokuqala nguMnu. Fidty shades of gray - odumile - uJamie Dornan. I-biker yesibili kanye no-Sherlock Holmes uBenedict Cumberbatch, uTom Hiddleston wesithathu, owesine "Edward" Patisson, owesihlanu - umlingisi waseBrithani uHenry Cavill.

Lawa madoda angama-sexy anento eyodwa efana nayo: ayinto engavamile, abezindaba zabo kubanika i-fleur engatholakali iphupho, elihle. Kodwa lokhu akuyona into esemqoka. Bheka amehlo abo: ubonani? Okokuqala, ukuzethemba. Bazithemba ngokwabo kanye nokukhathazeka kwabo, futhi kusukela kulokhu abakwazi ukuphazamiseka nokuthula. Kungenzeka ukuthi umdlali noma umdlali uqiniseke ukuthi ufuna yini? Cha, akunjalo. Udokotela noma unjiniyela, uthisha noma umshayeli wetekisi, imenenja noma umqambi - nabo bonke bangaqiniseka ukuthi bathanda umsebenzi wabo futhi baphumelele kuyo. Isiphetho asiyikuzwakala, yilowo nalowo makenze lokho ngokwakhe.

Ubuhle = ubulili?

Sasihambela kahle ngaphandle. Ingabe isisekelo sobulili? Amadoda amahle angama-sexy ajwayelekile, kodwa futhi ayengavamile ukuhle, kodwa ubuntu obungathandeki ngokuphelele. Ngakho-ke, impendulo ayikwazi ukungaqondakali. Kunezibonelo eziningi lapho umuntu okhangayo wangaphandle eqhubekela phambili ngezwe lakhe langaphakathi noma ukuziphatha. Amadoda amaningi amahle ayaziwa ngokuthi ama-narcissist futhi achitha ukuphila kwawo ekuziqhenyeni okuziqhenyayo, kuyilapho abafana abanomdlandla ojwayelekile kakhulu ngokubheka abalandeli ngokweqile. Ngakho-ke, ukubukeka kungaba ingxenye yezocansi, kodwa akulingani. Amadoda athile kakhulu ajwayele ukubonakala ngendlela evamile, ake sikhumbule uKazanov odumile: obani, futhi kunzima kakhulu ukumbiza ngokuthi mnandi.

Ungaba kanjani sexy?

Iseluleko sokuqala sokuba umuntu wesilisa ocansini kuyoba ngamaqiniso alula.

• Okokuqala, udinga ukuzethemba. Akungabazeki ukuthi abesifazane bayothola indoda ekhangayo emi, ekhonjiwe ekhoneni, futhi esaba ukusho igama.
• Okwesibili, ukulungiswa kahle. Izambatho ezivela kubadwebi abahamba phambili emhlabeni aziqinisekisi ngocansi, kodwa i jeans kanye nekhati elingcolile ngeke lengezwe. Udinga incazelo yegolide. Futhi ikhono lokugqoka izingubo. Abanye abantu basuke benesipho sokuhlanganisa izingxenye ezivame kakhulu zendlu yangasese ukuze babonakale besusiwe emasimini ase-pret-a-porter.
• Okwesithathu, inhlekelo yemvelo kanye nomqondo owanele wokuhleka usulu njalo. Njengoba, empeleni, nokuqonda. Uma ukhumbuza leli zwi: "Indoda kufanele ibe mnandi ngaphezu kwembongolo," khona-ke siyanezela ukuthi kufanele ahlakaniphe futhi.

Yimaphi amadoda ase-sexier, owesifazane unquma. Futhi ukuqonda + ukufunda, ikhono lokusekela izingxoxo akuzona izindlela ezimbi kakhulu zokuwunqoba.

Izitha zobungqingili besilisa

Kunezitha zangempela ezingakwazi ukubulala ubulili besilisa ngisho nakuFuthi. Asibize:

• Ukungalungi.
• Ukukhwabanisa.
• Ukungabi nomuzwa wokuhleka kwemizwa noma ukuzama ukubonwa njengobufakazi ngosizo lwamahlaya amancane.
• Ukungabaza.

Ngalaba abathintekayo, ukuheha abantu besilisa kunamathuba okuhlala bodwa. Ngenhlanhla, bonke bayesaba amandla futhi bayasuswa kalula.

Isivivinyo socansi

Siyakuncoma ukuhlolwa okuncane, okungawunquma ukuthi izinga lobuhlobo bobulili lungakanani. Impendulo yokukhetha ingu "yebo" (amaphuzu amathathu), "cha" (1 iphuzu) nokuthi "kungenzeka" (amaphuzu angu-2).

1. Ingabe uhlale uzwela izingubo zakho?

2. Ingabe ukhetha ukugqoka ngesitayela esifanayo?

3. Ingabe uyaqiniseka kuwe?

4. Ingabe unesizotha ngokweqile?

5. Ingabe uyenze umzimba wakho, uyayigcina uyibeke?

6. Kulula yini ukuthi ukhulume nentombazane oyithandayo?

7. Ucabanga ukuthi uyathandeka?

8. Unomqondo wokuhlekisa?

9. Ungumphefumulo wenkampani?

10. Ucabanga ukuthi abesifazane kufanele bathathe isinyathelo sokuqala, futhi unquma ukuthi ungaqhubeka kanjani?

11. Ingabe unemikhuba emibi ephikisa abanye abaseduze nawe?

12. Ucabanga ukuthi indoda kufanele inikeze umndeni?

Imiphumela yokuhlola

Ake sibone imiphumela.

Kusuka kumaphuzu angu-35 kuya ku-25.

Unezinga eliphakeme kakhulu lobulili. Ama-energetics akho ayisihluthulelo, futhi ubulili obuhle bubaleka njengezimbu. Kodwa kufanelekile ukucabanga ngalokhu: awufaki yini amandla akho amandla? Mhlawumbe kufanelekile ukuyilondoloza owodwa kuphela?

Kusukela ku-24 kuya ku-15 amaphuzu.

Ungumuntu okhululekile futhi othakazelisayo. Awunazo izinkinga ngobulili obuhlukile. Into kuphela engakuvimbela ukuba ungajwayele ukungaqiniseki okuphazamiseka kakhudlwana kuwe kanye namandla akho. Khohlwa inkulumo ethi "Ngifana nabantu bonke, akukho lutho olukhethekile ngami". Ngikholelwa, kukhona intombazane efuna wena, ungaphuthelwa wena nethuba lakhe lokujabula okuhlangene.

14 nangaphansi kwamaphuzu.

Wena uyindoda enhle / umfana okhangayo. Mhlawumbe ukhangayo kunabangane bakho abaningi. Ukukhathazeka kuphela ukuthi awukwazi ukuthi uzibonise kanjani. Ukuthobeka kuyimfanelo enhle uma ingaqhubeki ibe yinto engaqiniseki nokulungiswa ngokulinganiselwa kwayo.

Njengoba ubona, ukuhlolwa kobulili ngeke kukunikeze ukuhlolwa okuphelele kobulili bakho, kodwa ukukutshela ukuthi yini oyiphutha ekunciphiseni ukuheha kwakho kungaba kuhle kakhulu.

Iziphetho

Amadoda ashukumisayo afana nathi avela esikrinini se-TV nama-posters. Kubo bonke abesifazana beminyaka yonke bayaduka. Abantu abangenakho ukuqiniseka ukuthi kulula kakhulu ukuzidela ngokumelene nesizinda sobuhle babo, amandla, amandla. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqonda into esemqoka: ubulili obuhle bujabulela izithombe nezinkanyezi. Kodwa eduze komunye nomunye bafuna ukubona umuntu olula, omuhle. Ukuba yiyona ingxenye enkulu kakhulu kwesigamu sakho akunzima kakhulu: ukuzethemba okukhulu, amandla - futhi ngeke ushiywe wedwa.