Abesilisa nabesifazane basenza ungamazi lo ngomunye nomunye!

Omningi kwenzeka eyeqisayo ngamadoda nabesifazane, futhi kuphela ezinye zazo ziyiqiniso. Namuhla, sizobe ukuthi yiziphi yiwo ngempela futhi okuyinto - amanga amabi. Ungase uzibuze ukuthi siwenza. Sizokwenza hlola izibalo. Khumbula ukuthi iningi izibalo are fuduka phezulu, ngomqondo ongokomfanekiso, indlela amateur, futhi amanye amaphuzu ukungqubuzana nomunye, ngakho akufanele kuthathwe njengento ebaluleke kakhulu. Ngokwesibonelo, ngokuvamile bathi abesifazane ukuba nesikhathi esiningana phambi kwesibuko kunabantu. Kumane okuyize noma ezinye nengqondo kwale nqubo Usekhona? Ake sithole ukuthi kwakungani.

umsebenzi ngokomzimba

It is wayevame ukuthi amadoda kufanele bazikhandle ukuba ekhiphela up imisipha entabeni. Kuthatha isikhathi nomzamo, ukuzinikezela eside. Abesifazane belulekwa ukuba abe ovelele, imisipha ephakanyiswe. Sitshelwa ukuthi thina nje musa udla kakhulu, futhi uzama ukulondoloza sibalo ukwenzela ukungena okuncane kakhulu. Ngakho ochitha isikhathi esengeziwe kuyo?

Abesilisa bachitha ukuphila isilinganiso kweminyaka ecishe ibe mibili ukuqeqeshwa. Lokhu kuhlanganisa ezemidlalo nabangani gijima abayitoho noma uhambo ejimini.

Abesifazane bachitha isikhathi esingangonyaka ejimini. Noma kunjalo, nabo bachithe cishe 17 iminyaka uzama ukwehlisa isisindo, sizama zonke izinhlobo ukudla.

inhlanzeko yomuntu siqu

Uma wake nawu umbuzo, ochitha isikhathi esiningi amacala ngaphambi kokushiya indlu, impendulo Uncenga kubacacele abaningi. Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi lokhu kuyiqiniso ngoba abesifazane. Nokho, izibalo xoxa indaba ehluke ngokuphelele.

Abesilisa ukuchitha phambi kwesibuko bese sizibuza le imizuzu 81 ngosuku. Kuhlanganisa eshaweni, ukushefa, ukuhlanzwa, amafutha, izinwele isitayela kanye sigqoka.

Abesifazane nhlobo lokhu imizuzu 75 nje. Nansi eyodwa yesibalo ethile ezazibonakala kithi ethile ethakazelisa ngokukhethekile: amadoda ukuchitha imizuzu engaba ngu-18 ku-ukushefa, futhi abesifazane - 14. kuphela Kuyinto ongaziwa, akunjalo? Njengoba sazi ukuthi ukushefa zokugcina imilenze yabo, underarms futhi bikini ndawo, kuyilapho amadoda nje phuca ubuso bakhe. Kufanele kushiwo ukuthi isicelo ukwakheka akufakwanga lezi zibalo. Thina kuphela ukuqhathanisa okwenziwa kokubili amadoda nabesifazane.

yokuhlanza

I ubulili bubuhle ukuchitha iminyaka 2.5 yokuphila kwakhe-ke ukuthi ukugeza izitsha, nokuhlanza, dusting nokwenza zonke izinhlobo imisebenzi yasekhaya.

Abesilisa ukuchitha unyaka wonke ngaphansi - iminyaka 1.5 kuphela. Ngokuqinisekile, wonke ushaqekile izibalo. Akukona ukuthi ubulili namandla ngokucophelela, ngoba sonke siyazi ukuthi akulona iqiniso. Vele ezimweni eziningi, bakhatsatekile okuncane okumayelana ubumsulwa ekhaya lakho bese uphakamisa ukuthi intombi yabo (inkosikazi, unina) uzokwenza sona.

ukushayela

okutholakele zamuva ezibonisa ukuthi bobubili ubulili buyigugu ukuchitha cishe iminyaka emithathu ngemuva isondo imoto. Lokhu kungase kusimangaze abanye abantu. Futhi kuthiwani ngazo zonke nabesifazane abangabafundi abakhuthele besifazane? Abadingi ukuya uya noma ubuya emsebenzini.

Manje ake ucabange ngalokhu imikhankaso ngoba izitolo zokuthenga ukudla, mayelana ukuthatha izingane esikoleni ukuwathola ukusuka lapho ekhaya. Uzoba ngimangaliswe singakanani isikhathi esichithwa zonke lezi amaphuzu.

ukupheka

Izibalo zibonisa ukuthi abesifazane ukuchitha iminyaka emithathu ku ukupheka. Ulungiselela kwasekuseni, kwasemini kanye dinner for wonke umndeni uthatha isikhathi esiningi.

Abesilisa ukuchitha ingxenye ukuthi isikhathi yokupheka. Futhi ngokuyisisekelo sihlobana ukwakhiwa sandwich bakudala noma reheating kwasemini eqeda ku-microwave oven.

Singasho ukuthi lokhu wesibalo has nezihibe. Kufutfumeta okuthile ku-microwave nokupheka - kuhlukile.

ingxoxo yocingo

Akumangazi ukuthi abesifazane ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi ngixoxa ocingweni. Izibalo zibonisa ukuthi kuwukudlala mayelana 5.5 iminyaka yokuphila kwakhe. In amadoda, iya iminyaka emine.

Uyini umehluko? Abesifazane kufanele uthathe ngaphezulu namakholi angenayo. Noma kunjalo, zombili lezi izibalo abe asihlobene usuku ngalunye oludlulayo, njengoba sizama ukusebenzisa ama-e-mail futhi ukuthumela imilayezo ye-SMS. Lapho Wagcina nini wena ngokuzithandela waqoqa othile? Akubona bonke abantu abayofuna ukukhumbula. Ngosizo Facebook, Twitter, Instagram kanye imiyalezo sonke uhlale uthintana nabangani bethu, futhi ngenxa yalokho, thina asidingi wababiza.

dream

Ngokwe-abacwaningi, abesifazane achithe iminyaka 27 zokuphila kwakho embhedeni, amadoda njengoba kuthatha iminyaka 25,5.

Kufana kancane okungazelelwe, akunjalo? Ungase ucabange ukuthi abesifazane kakhulu uvuka ngaphambili. Sidinga isikhathi esengeziwe ukusebenzisa izimonyo futhi wenze ibhulakufesi. Futhi, uma ungumuntu umama, uzodinga isikhathi esengeziwe ekuseni ukuwasusa ecoca izingane, futhi lokho ingasaphathwa ukuqwasha ezihambisana nezingane. Nokho, kwathi le izibalo lihlotshaniswa ubude emifushane zokuphila zabantu.

yezitolo

Abesifazane bachitha iminyaka emibili yokuphila kwakhe ethenga uhambo, uzama izingubo futhi ukuthenga zonke izinhlobo imikhiqizo. Ingabe asole us? Banikezwe ingcindezi ukuthi abezindaba kusithinte, ephoqa ukubukeka kahle, kuba kungamangalisi ukuthi namanje uhlala hhayi ezitolo ezinkulu.

Abesilisa ukuyochitha unyaka on ukuthenga. Kusolwa ukuthi esikhathini esiningi bamane wadvonsa abesifazane kuyilapho benza ukukhetha imikhiqizo. Ngicabanga, uma bekungenjalo, yibona abazikhethelayo, ayengeke ukuyothenga, futhi egqoka okufanayo ubudala isikibha eminyakeni.

Ukubuka TV

Abesifazane bachitha iminyaka engaba ngu-nantathu ngaphambi kwesikrini TV. Izibalo zibonisa ukuthi abantu bavame ukubuka izinhlelo ze-TV ezahlukene kanye nezinye izinhlelo ze-TV ukuthi Ziningi zonyaka.

Abesilisa ukuchitha iminyaka eyishumi ngaphambi kokuba i-TV. Izibalo zibonisa ukuthi anesizotha ukubukela ezemidlalo kanye nezinhlelo mayelana nokudoba, abazingeli nokunye.

Sihambe ethoyilethi

Yilokho yokuthi kumnandi kakhulu ukuqedela uhlu lwethu.

Abesifazane, ngokusho izibalo, ukuchitha izinyanga eziyisithupha egumbini sigqoka. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi wonke umuntu ngaso sonke isikhathi kokukhala ngokuthi izintokazi ngena ekamelweni labesifazane e emihlambini futhi kukhona ngokoqobo amahora, amadoda esiningi ethoyilethi. Ngakho wazi, guys, siyakucela zokuchitha nje isikhathi, ukuvuselela yethu ukwakheka, uthuthukise, kodwa uma kuziwa inqubo olindele kunazo, senza konke ngokushesha kakhulu.