Mina sathandana. Yini okumelwe uyenze?

Uthando lusishukumisela ilanga, uqondisa izakhi futhi sishintsha isakhiwo zemizimba obukhulu. Amandla uthando uyasondla futhi kusi-, ngesivinini futhi ithumela ezindizayo. Intombazane noma owesifazane, kuyahlanganiswa kuleli amandla iyeke ukuba ngiziqonde ngokoqobo ngendlela bekulokhu, futhi uyaqonda: "Mina sathandana. Yini okufanele ngiyenze? "Ngeshwa, namuhla, enkathini ukulingana kanye namathuba okukhulu, ubufazi iba ethunjwe ubudlelwano, nothando ngokuvamile kuletha usizi kunokuba kujabulise. Kungani lokhu kwakwenzeka? Ngenxa bephithene imiqondo. Namuhla, izingane zifundiswa ngokubhala, izibalo, isayensi kanye eziyisisekelo zokubala emkhakheni we emnothweni, kodwa musa ukufundisa umuntu ekutheni ihloniphe futhi izithobe ukuvikela wesifazane. Hhayi bafundiswe ukufunda izinhliziyo zabo, ukuhlukanisa phakathi uthando nothando. Izinhloso zizinhle kakhulu lula ukuphila, ososayensi baye encishisiwe ocansini nobulili. Kodwa abesifazane musa nje indiva inhliziyo Luhambo, nakuba abaningi kulokhu, njengoba beye babhekana indumalo wokuqala ...

Yini engiyenzayo uma ngithandana?

abahlakaniphileyo uthi, izinyawo zifudumale bese amabombo out emakhazeni. Kodwa, niyabo, lucky empilweni - ngiyizwe le yehle esibanzi ibe nogqozi: inhlitiyo ishayela endaweni ethile emphinjeni, umoya hot bome izindebe, isiyezi, izandla zakhe Bamanzi, futhi udokotela akazange ngisho ukubhalisa ukwanda lokushisa. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, uyazi, ngathandana. Okufanele ukwenze esimweni esinjalo? Uma uneminyaka engu-nambili kuphela ubudala, akusho ukuthi awakulindele novivinyo. Cabanga ngokwayo - manje, uma uku uthando, umhlaba wonke ukuthi ezinemibala nge shades entsha nsuku zonke uzizwa unomthwalo elimangalisayo injabulo. Ujwayele uvakashele fantasies uphikisana ukuvusa wonke iziqhumane.

Kodwa Wayengazi ukuthi indlela eya Sun ebhekene nokushiswa. Uma into kushisekela kwacina inkanyezi ingatholakali - uku inhlanhla. On ke ungakwazi uxoxe nabangani bami - ngeke aphule ngothando lwakho idyll. Kodwa imizwa umfana wangempela kuyodingeka ukugcina imfihlo. Kunzima kakhulu, kepha nina ninamandla;. Bhala phansi, futhi sithululele ukusakaza ngimnene ekhasini lakhe. Yini ukuphupha? Mayelana reciprocity? Lokho kuhle, kodwa kungenzeka ukhohlwe ukukutshela into eyodwa ebalulekile: ngisho noma umuntu omusha izimisele ubuhlobo nawe futhi efuna ukunakwa, udinga kuhlole, uthole ukuthi yini uhlobo lomuntu ayilo. A ukuqashelwa nethonya elibi nokunye imizwa - bavame ukuphuma.

Inqobo nje uma unesikhathi - ujabulele umuzwa uthando lwakhe yedwa. Hhayi ukudalula imfihlo yakhe kunoma ubani.

Uyosho ukuthi Romeo and Juliet babejabule ukuze sikwazi ufisa ukufa? Lalelisisa. Lokhu elithakazelisayo umlando Shakespearean futhi isiphetho yako edabukisayo, wonke umuntu akhohlwe ekuqaleni ezingengaphansi ezibuhlungu. Phinda ufunde, lapho iqala: Romeo kusukela ngomzuzu livela okokuqala play wayeseGibithe uthando - inkanuko futhi kabi, futhi, njengoba athi - for a lifetime. Nenhliziyo ingqondo yakhe igxile umfanekiso Rosaline. Kodwa kwenzekani ngemva kwalokho? amahora ambalwa kuphela emva ayobe inkulumo yakhe, futhi ukuhlupheka bangempela, sibona Romeo ofunga bathande Juliet. Uma base bechithe isikhathi ukuhlangabezana bese bazana, iphi isiqinisekiso sokuthi Romeo esikhathini esizayo esiseduze kakhulu ngeke waqondisa Juliet izimpondo ... Kunento Kufanele ucabange ngakho, akunjalo?

Ngingaba bazuze uhlanya zesikhashana?

Angicabangi ukuthi uthando - lokhu kuyinkinga intsha kuphela. "Oh horror, ngathandana, yini okufanele uyenze?" - kuphakama imibuzo enjalo abesifazane zanoma iyiphi iminyaka. Ososayensi bezinzwa, bengqondo, odokotela bengqondo bathi lokhu nakho esigabeni disorder esilawulayo-kuphoqeleke kuyinto ngempela kuyiqiniso. Uthando - ke kuyinto Inkinga esishukumisa owesifazane ecabanga ukuthi ifuna, kungani uyaphila. Noma iziphi izinkinga - kuyinto lungaba ukufa kanye nokuzalwa kabusha ukuze impilo entsha. Ngeshwa, esingenakukwazi ukuzikhethela zona - ukuthandana phakathi kwethu noma qha. Kuyinto ngokoqobo luyakhohlisa, isifo se-ingqondo nenhliziyo, esinikeza wona isasasa. Kodwa uma owesifazane yazi ukuthi ufanelwe - it has ithuba elingcono kakhulu ukuvula nkinga siyenze okuthile okuhle. Phela, akudingekile ukuba aphuthume baphulukundlela bangena maelstrom ka ngakhe ubuhlobo obusha.

Uma sikhumbula, abantu abaningi yokudala baye basebenzisa isimo uthando kwenta ncono emandla abo okukhuluma ngokomzwelo kwezobuciko. Aint it azi emuva alternative njengabakufanelekele ukuhlaziswa izinyembezi ku umcamelo?

Ngathandana, yini okufanele uyenze? Sebenzisa ithuba lakho!

Ungakwazi ungavumelani, kodwa naye uqobo, Ngiyathanda ukuba othandweni. Lo muzwa has a force anikeza ukuphila, okuyinto esingeke siyithole kungekho ikhofi, akukho utshwala, akukho ushokoledi. Ayikho Vitamin cocktail awuzange umi eceleni kwe isitsha injabulo, igcwele uthando. Empeleni, zonke intombazane iyakwazi ukuze zilahlwe ngendlela efanele lokhu kusaphaza okungaka. Uma wamthanda - yini okumele uyenze, nihlabelele, umdanso, ukudweba, ukubhala izinkondlo kanye temibhalo yephrozi. Sebenzisa ithuba lakho. Lokhu isimo indiza ngeke zihlale phakade. Yibeke imisebenzi. Fall othandweni esiningi siye sitholakale kubantu e izimbali esithombeni. Futhi njalo uthando nge zokuphila - imfihlo yenjabulo.