Ubudlelwano phakathi kwamadoda nabesifazane

Ungasho ukuthi, nezintokazi ezibuka 'oseqinile, namanje ukuthi yini ukuthatha izinsizwa!

Ngolunye usuku, ehlangana nomngane wakhe omkhulu, sakhuluma ngesihloko esivuthayo. Isihloko ingxoxo yethu kwaba, cha, cha, hhayi amadoda njengenjwayelo (nakuba hhayi ngaphandle kwenkokhiso, akekho kuncike esifazane) futhi owesifazane alale nowesifazane, kusobala amadala kunathi. Le ntokazi - yobudala efanayo omama bethu noma ukubabiza izintokazi "oseqinile".

Ngakho, umngane wami kwaba Sikhatsateke kakhulu lo mbuzo: "Kungani amadoda uthanda amantombazane amahle, amadala? Labo ababa nakho abesifazane abaya ivumelane umama wabo?! "Iyini imfihlo futhi ukuthi kukhona catch in ubuhlobo obunjalo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane futhi?

Uma sithatha isibonelo umngane wami, kanye nabanye abangane hhayi kuphela, kodwa futhi, zinzima wokufuna amadoda unethemba obani esingaqala nabo ukwakha ubuhlobo obungathi sina, nokuthi akukho mfihlo, futhi hhayi nje sina. Ngempela akukho okwenzeka, kodwa uma kuvela ukuthi ngeviki okungenani. Kodwa, uma ukuthatha abangane abaningi omama bethu, zizokwenziwa zibe wayenomona kule ndawo! Lezi zintokazi ngaphandle kobudisi futhi umzamo kungaba zabeka izinyawo zazo cishe kunoma iyiphi indoda omdala, futhi iqiniso, futhi yimuphi young! Ngaphezu kwalokho, abesifazane bahluke ngokuphelele futhi ihluke nomunye kusiphi isigaba sezenhlalo, isikhundla impahla, njengobe labanye sebanemkhuba, nezingane ezincane kakhulu. ... Kodwa akazihluphi umuntu, futhi akekho kubo ishiywa ngaphandle indoda isikhathi esingaphezu kwenyanga, Ngokungafani passion yami, okuyinto basalokhu bengakakwazi ukuthola indoda ehloniphekile, akayena yokukhula, it is engaboshiwe, kahle, mhlawumbe okubaluleke kakhulu, akusiyo ngokwezimali kahle off!

Cishe, kungcono maqondana kwabo amadoda, ukuze indlela babo siqu ngamunye. Phela, amadoda - kukhona omdala "izingane", futhi zonke izingane ezahlukene zabo, futhi "ingane" ngamunye ukuze uthole siqu indlela ekhethekile zabo, okuyinto ukukhokha ukunaka ngokwengeziwe lapho ukuthi sipho usizo, ngokuvamile ukwenza ukuyekethisa kwasekuqaleni ukufunda ukubethemba. Phela, ungatsheli, futhi amadoda kakhulu linamathele konina, ngakho bafuna ezinye emithanjeni kamama, ukwesekwa umzali umlingani. Mhlawumbe, lokhu akwanele amantombazane asemancane, okuyinto manje ngakho baye baba ngamagovu futhi uzicabangela wena ukuthi basuke ngempela nje selikhohliwe ukuthi indoda akuyona into hhayi "ukheshi inkomo"! Wayengaphezu kwabo bonke indoda, ogade imizwa futhi udinga ukuthi aphansi ufuna ukuzizwa ukuthi uyidinga ngempela yini-ke! Lapha-ke ukuza owesifazane kakhulu esifanayo, ngemuva elisemandleni eziningi nakho futhi omazi ngempela yini amadoda ufuna. Yingakho, futhi akukho nobunzima ukunqoba umuntu ibuphi ubudala. Ngakho, musa ukusho, futhi okuhlangenwe nakho - into enkulu! Ngalo, siba buhlakaniphile, mnandi, futhi okubaluleke singakwazi ukuthola okuthile ngaphandle esingakwazi ukuphila kule Umhlaba ... amadoda ethu! Ngakho funda, intsha!