Abantu abasha bakhetha kanjani umsebenzi?

Kungani kunabantu abambalwa abajabula ngempela empilweni ? Ungakhetha kanjani ukuqeqeshwa labo abafinyelela impumelelo enkulu?

Ngokudabukisayo, yiziphi abazali kanye nesikole abasitshelayo isinqumo esibi kakhulu. Ake sikhumbule izibalo ezinhle zamasiko nobuciko. Abazali noma isiphetho kuhloswe ngazo indlela ethile (i-Vysotsky, i-Galich, i-Rosenbaum, iBulgakov ...). Noma kunjalo, ngaphakathi kwabo bathanda ngokuphelele Enye indlela. Abamabhizinisi abaphumelelayo bakhetha kanjani umsebenzi ? Abambalwa kakhulu phakathi kwabo yilabo abenza izinqumo ezibalulekile ngaphansi kwethonya lomkhuba womndeni, ukukholelwa kwabalingani nabo ekilasini noma abangane. "Ngenkampani", njengombuso, ungaba ngabachwepheshe bekilasi eliphezulu. Abantu abaningi bashintsha impilo yabo hhayi amakilasi ayishumi kuze kube yilapho bethola khona.

Abantu abasha bakhetha kanjani umsebenzi? Ngeshwa, abaqabukeli bacabange ukuthi bazozizwa bekhululekile kanjani kulokhu noma indima. Ngokuvamile, umlingiswa ozithandayo, ifilimu, umcabango mayelana "nomsebenzi ophakeme" noma ukubuka kwezingane kubaluleke kakhulu. Noma kunjalo, into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ngabe lo msebenzi uhambelana namakhono, ukwakheka kwengqondo komuntu, noma ngabe kuyodinga ukuphumula okukhulu "egameni lomqondo." Ukuhlolwa kwamahhala, okuyinto okumele ukwazi ukukhetha, awukwazi ukuhamba kuphela ehhovisi le-psychologist, kodwa futhi kunethiwekhi. Lemibuzo yohlu lwemibuzo yakhiwa ngokucabangela okushiwo yizinhlelo eziyinhloko zomsebenzi wesintu futhi isebenza njengethuluzi lokuhlaziya izinga umuntu othize angakwazi ukuzibona kulokhu.

Abantu abadlulile kanjani ukuhlolwa bakhetha umsebenzi? Baziqonda kangcono, ukuthambekela kwabo nokuzikhethela. Isibonelo, umkhakha wesenzo "abantu-abanye abantu" kufanelekile eyodwa. Lokhu kusho ukuthini ngokusebenza? Umuntu onjalo uzokwazi ukubona amandla akhe ekukhulumisaneni, ngosizo nokuxhumana nabanye. Angaba udokotela omuhle, uthisha, uthisha. Ukhululekile nabanye abantu, uyazi ukuthi ungabasiza kanjani futhi uzizwa ulungile. Futhi ukuthi ungakhetha kanjani umsebenzi labo labo abafake umsebenzi wabo obhekene nawo ohlotshaniswa nezinhlelo zokubonisa? Bazizwa "endaweni yabo," basebenza nemibhalo, izimpawu, amatafula, idatha. Abadingi futhi baphazamise nokuxhumana okuningi ngokweqile, baboniswa ngezethulo. Bathanda ukusebenza ngokuthula nangokugxila.

Abanye bangakwazi ukuqaphela ngempumelelo amandla abo emkhakheni wezemvelo. Abadingi ukuxhumana njalo nabanye, kodwa bazizwa bekhululekile nezilwane, izitshalo. Abantu abanjalo bayoba izazi zezinto eziphilayo ezinhle kakhulu, izazi zezilwane, izilwane zakudala. Ungakhetha kanjani umsebenzi ngokuthanda kwakho? Ngaphandle kokuhlola, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuzilalela. Uma ukhonywa kwezobuchwepheshe, uma ungakwazi ukuphuma egalaji amahora, uyazi injongo yenkokhelo ngayinye egijimeni, futhi abazali bakutshela ukuthi "umsebenzi ohlonishwa kakhulu ngummeli," zilalele. Ukusetshenziswa komuntu okungakanani angayithola kule sikhundla, uma ehamba nokusebenza ngokuzonda, uma umphefumulo "ungaqambi amanga" ukusiza abanye abantu. Futhi ngokuphambene nalokhu: labo abangakwazi ukucabanga usuku ngaphandle kokukhulumisana ngeke 'bazizinikezele' kumanani omisiwe noma idatha. Bayozizwa kangcono kakhulu ekuthengiseni okuqondile, lapho bexhumana nabantu, kunokuba bodwa nekhompyutha.

Labo abafuna ukuphila ngokuvumelana nabo kanye nezwe bakhetha kanjani umsebenzi? Abazami ukuziqhayisa, ukuhlabelela nokuqinisekisa ukuthi "kuyadingeka", "abazali bayayifuna", "kuyoletha impumelelo." Benza lokho umphefumulo ongenakho. Kuphela kule ndaba kungenzeka ukuthi ukhulume ngempumelelo.