Yini okufanele ibe lenani umama ubani ongafunda lo kid?

Lesi sihloko sixoxa umbuzo okufanele ngabe indaba mayelana unina, ezibhaliwe izingane. Futhi simo okuyisibonelo inikezwe lapha izigcawu nothando ngokwengeziwe ngabazali, okuyinto ingalungiswa nezingane enkulisa noma esikoleni sabaqalayo.

Umama - ke sasendlini, incekukazi upheke?

Iningi izincwadi izingane ezazibhalwa isifanekiso, esiza kufundiswe izingane esimweni sengqondo umthengi ngabantu. Ngokwesibonelo, ngokuvamile kakhulu indaba mayelana unina ukhuluma ingane baphila kanjani, ukuthi uzilungise, wapha, unesiphiwo amathoyizi futhi ezungezwe ukunakekelwa. Kodwa inzalo ngabongi lokhu akusho bayakwazisa, ilimaze abazali. Khona-ke baliphonsa, bese uya komunye umkhaya.

Ngakho ingane iba tight engenanina: elambile, abandayo, ikhaya kuba ezingcolile futhi unharvested. Kid uyazi ezimbi indlela uhlala wedwa, ephenduka ecela ngimxolele. Umama, yebo, uyabuya. Nalapha futhi ebusa endlini a cosiness ne-oda etafuleni ukudla okumnandi. Wonke umuntu uyajabula.

Lokhu inganekwane ngomama kubeka umntwana engqondweni umqondo: Abazali - izinceku khulula, okuyinto akufanele ubuhlungu, kungenjalo ungalahlekelwa induduzo evamile. Kuvele Eqinisweni ezithakazelisayo wukuthi ngisho ezinhlelweni Ukufundwa etemibhalo izingane kukhona umkhiqizo ezifana, okuyinto ugcizelela injongo eyinhloko unina, ukugeza, ahlanzekile, umpheki, isiqalekiso ngenxa yokungalaleli. Njengoba uma abazali bayazithanda kubalulekile okuthile!

Phonsa ingane ngenxa yokungalaleli - uyakufanelekela unyoko?

Ngokuvamile indaba yezingane mayelana umama nobaba, ngisho mayelana ogogo nomkhulu, iqukethe e indaba yayo okwamanje yesibili amahloni. Abazali kanye nogogo nomkhulu, ukhathele yokungalaleli njalo izingane, abaphonse dengwane uhambe. Lokhu kwenziwa Yiqiniso, mahhala ngezinjongo zokufundisa, ukuze ubonise izingane kanjani kanzima ukuphila ngaphandle ukunakekelwa omdala. Futhi nakuba ekugcineni izingane ukubiza abantu abadala emuva imindeni kusolakala ebusa uthando nenjabulo, kodwa inhliziyo yami ihlala inhlansi ukungabaza: futhi ukuthi abadala bayizakhamuzi ezivamile, beshiya izingane zabo ukuba bazibonele?

Ngisho genius umbhali zonke izingane neyaziwayo sika Sergei Mikhalkov, wabhala indaba yakhe edumile ethi "Bona Izwe Sokungalaleli," echaza okwakusobala icala ukucwiya kwengqondo yengane, eqinisweni, ubugebengu esibi kunazo, lapho kuphela indoda can - sokukhaphela. Futhi uye yenziwa mayelana igazi ingane.

Kuyamangalisa ukuthi ngisho nanamuhla, lokhu indaba mayelana umama, ubaba, ugogo, umkhulu, isithandwa abadala futhi ngokuvamile uwafunde kanye izingane ngenxa ukwakhiwa kwebandla. Ngeshwa, lokhu okungase kube nothisha bacabanga ukuthi izingane ngemva kokufunda lesi indalo ngeke balalele. Yebo, izinyane uzokwenza eziphethweni: akunakwenzeka vandalize, ukulalela, noma abazali Ungabeka wena. Futhi kuyakuba khona abahlala futhi bangabethembi kukamama ngigeza ...

Mhlawumbe kuye kwaba esinye sezikhathi labangakhoni ukufunda ebuntwaneni yezinganekwane, lapho omama waphonsa izingane zabo Ngobuwula, bese zikhula noninazala cuckoo, bobaba, owayecashele ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso? Mhlawumbe yingakho thina eRussia kukhona ezintandane ebesigcwele ngokweqile?

Tales of the Brothers Grimm

Namuhla okuningi inkulumo ngalokho kufanele kube ngokucophelela futhi sina ukukhetha imisebenzi ukufunda izingane. Ngokwesibonelo, abaningi eyabhalwa abazalwane Grimm inganekwane ngomama izingane asihambisani. Ngempela, abazali babo unqume kalula ukuthatha izingane zabo ehlathini nje ngoba ukuba ebusika elambile, futhi bayohlala asinalutho oludliwayo ngokwabo.

Nakuba nothayi banamuhla isithombe lomama esikhundleni usingamama, empeleni akashintshi. Ubaba uhlala umama, kodwa wenza lokhu Utshela indoda yakhe.

Yebo nosingamama empeleni akuzona njalo okubi ngakho futhi esikhohlisayo. nezindaba ezinjalo nje kuphela izingane sengqondo esingaqondile kuya wokutholwa abazali, ababheki, owakwakhe abazali ngemva kwesehlukaniso. Futhi lokhu, futhi, sibi.

"Mina ngeke sicele intethelelo yakhe," Sofi Prokofevoy

izenzo ezahlukene ngokuphelele le indaba. Nakuba has a bendabuko uthayi yokungalaleli izinyane, ukwemuka kwakhe ekhaya beyofuna umama, umlobi njalo ugcizelela elithi key - "uthando". Umfana wayethukile, lapho umama ezine nje: "? Singabonisa kanjani sonke nabo ngesikhathi esisodwa ngeke bathande" Yiqiniso, ufanisa omama engaba naye, kodwa isici esiyinhloko ikhono kanina enamandla kunazo zonke, akukhona esihlwabusayo ukupheka, futhi kwaba yinto yakhe. Waze kuqala okufanele ukhathazeke ngakho yena ngoba baqonda ukuthi umama bemlindile ekhaya nexhala.

Lomuntfu kangcono indima kamama - ihhashi edabukisayo - cishe kunomvuzo babe. Kodwa izinyane uye waqaphela kakade ukuthi uyazithanda umama wakhe, ngakho umama yesibili uthando uthando oluqotho fb umfana bengayi. Futhi inikeza ihhashi ubungane beqiniso.

Umama Kumelwe uthande nje ngoba uyakuthanda

Isiphetho esinjalo elula kungenziwa shi, uma uyowela ezandleni iqoqo imisebenzi, nombhali okuyinto Sergei Sedov. "Tales Omama", ebhalwe kuye, egcwele umusa okumsulwa amahlaya ukukhanya. Kunzima ukusho ukuthi ubani ngaphezu kwazo ziqondiswe - izingane noma abadala. Ngakho-ke kulula ukusho ukuthi lezi zindaba alungele Ukufundwa umndeni.

Izithombe lomama emincanyana yokuqala kakhulu. Zonke uhlamvu bahluke ngokuphelele. Kodwa kukhona ezinye izinto ezivamile. Lokhu ukuthanda izingane. Omunye umama heroically elwa rat, yena asaba ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye - akuyona feat? umama Okwesibili ukhulula wakhe kusukela indodana indoda yokudla wezintandane, yena udonsa wakhe ukupheka kubo eyodla. Kwakumelwe kakade 200, kuthatha bonke emkhayeni, baqinisekisa indodana ukuthi wake wathola umzalwane elahlekile noma udade isikhathi eside. Ngakho unina hhayi usindisa kuphela izingane yomunye - wasindisa kwasekuqaleni indodana yakhe, sifulathele ubugebengu bakhe!

Imisebenzi ukuthi usitshele mayelana nothando umama

emincanyana iDemo ngokwabo icele ukuthi iskripthi lalotshwa kuye. Inganekwane ngomama owayegula, futhi indodana yakhe, Hunter wagijima ehlathini, ukuze uthole amalungiselelo, uzobe kalula ukudlalwa ngisho izingane 3-4 iminyaka, ngoba kukhona cishe awekho amagama abadlali. Umbhali umbhalo ingafundwa umfundisi.

Futhi ezithakazelisayo iyona yezinganekwane indaba slononka nonina. Lo mkhiqizo ungadlala nezingane iminyaka 5-6 ubudala, ngoba kakade ngesikhathi abadlali babe nenani elincane amazwi. Nokho, ukuze enze okudingekayo zokubhukuda ezigcawugcawu. Kodwa yilokhu okuyomane kwenze kube mnandi - izingane uthando kangaka aguqule ibe nezilwane!

Ungakwazi ufake Prokofiev indaba "Mina ngeke ucele intethelelo 'esikoleni sabaqalayo. It is kakade cishe ngiwuqedile iskripthi play. Umoya owanele ukumelela imisindo nokuthi kukhona kweqhwa kungaba akuveza ukutshela izwi "ekusithekeni". Lokhu ukusebenza kuyoba eside ngempela, ngoba ke kukhona okuningi isigcawu. Kodwa uma abaculi kancane ukulungiselela kahle izindima zabo, izethameli bayokujabulela ukuyibuka kusuka ekuqaleni kuze kube sekugcineni.