Nokukhula okuvamile abafana ngokobudala bazo: itafula, izinkambiso kanye egunjini lokuhlolwa kwezifo.

With ukuthuthukiswa ubuchwepheshe yesimanje umama Ungakwazi ukulandela ijubane ukukhula kwengane yabo kudala njengoba isikhathi lapho esesibelethweni. Ukuvakashela e-US ehhovisi abazali ukuba kuphetha kokuthola lesi sivumelwano, izilungiselelo enganeni ngalesi sikhathi. Ezinye zezinto ezisemqoka okuphawulekayo ukukhula abafana noma amantombazane, ke, kanye naletinye tindlela tekuphila etholwe ngosizo ultrasound. izilinganiso ngamunye iqhathaniswa idatha okulinganiselwa ku. Kuyinto le ndlela (uma kuqhathaniswa ne mayelana nemithetho) kufanele kusetshenziswe njengoncedo ukuhlolwa isimo ingane ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa nobudala kwalo okwalandela.

Kulesi sihloko sibheka ukuthi amadoda esizayo kufanele athuthukise. Ithebula ubude nesisindo abafana abonisa ngokucacile ukuthi iyiphi izinkomba ezibhekwa sivamile elinikeziwe bobunye ubudala futhi ukutshela kafushane mayelana uma udinga ukuba banake sincane kakhulu noma enkulu ekukhuleni kwengane.

Yini kuyinto evamile?

Ezweni lethu, asanda kuyinsakavukela izingane ezinye izinkomba zayo zishintshwe. Ministry of Health, kwanqunywa ukuba ayiyeke le ngentuthuko ephelelwe yisikhathi kweSoviet futhi ukuhlomisa idatha yesimanje, lapho luhambisane izitayela global.

Kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi i-WHO omamukele izindinganiso esifundeni iplanethi ngalinye, zisekelwe izifundo anthropological futhi zofuzo kubantu abahlala ensimini inikezwe. Abantu bezizwe ezihlukahlukene ezikhona ezindaweni ezihlukile kwezezinye, lungase lungafani ngokuphelele okufanayo, ikakhulukazi ukukhula abafana namantombazana, isisindo sabo kanye izinga yentuthuko nazo ziyehluka.

Ukuqhathanisa ingane yakho kwemigomo nezinye izingane, kufanele sinake izinto eziningi (izakhi zofuzo, isimo sempilo, indlela yokuphila, ukuvivinya umzimba, ukudla okunomsoco).

Njengoba ubona, ukuphakama nesisindo abafana unikezwa ethebuleni ungaba ukusabalala abalulekile. Kunoma ikuphi, ingane ngayinye eba luyingxenye ngabanye, futhi esimweni ukushoda imingcele ethile yobudala efanayo ngemva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha noma unyaka, ingane ingenza eqa esemqoka ekuthuthukisweni ka bokuphila noma, Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukumisa ijubane ekukhuleni kwayo.

Against izakhi zofuzo akukho reception?

ukubukeka komuntu selibekiwe ezakhini zofuzo, ngisho okwamanje lapho iqanda ihlangabezana isidoda kanye kokukhulelwa isifika ke. Kulapho-ke kuyacaca ukuthi ucansi ingane kuyoba yini uyoba amehlo, ibala lesikhumba, ukubonakala. Nokho, lokhu akusho ukuthi isimo semvelo sawo original, akukuniki noma ukulungiswa kuyoba ingashintshiwe kukho konke ukuphila.

Yebo, emehlweni kanye izinwele, isikhumba tone zingashintshwa ukungenela-third party, kodwa labo amehlo aluhlaza nezakhi izohlala kuze yokuguga. Kukhula abafana, isisindo sabo nebala zikuthinta ngokuqondile ekuphileni, izimo lapho zikhulela nokuthuthukisa. Ngezinye abazali ongaphakeme lakheka ngokubizwa indodana ngenhla ukukhula Ngokwesilinganiso, kulapho awukwazi uchithe yokuthi izakhi zofuzo zidluliselwa izizukulwane eziningana, ngakho akekho umntwana oyedwa ungase ungabi ithopholoji ngqo konina begazi futhi obaba. Kungashiwo ukuthi umuntu kulula ukuba zimbi kakhulu ukubukeka futhi nempilo yabo, kunokuba ngcono.

Lapho ukuphambuka kusuka kuyinsakavukela wukuthi ezimbi?

Uma abazali uqaphela ukuthi ingane yabo kakhulu ngemuva ontanga yabo, noma okuphambene nalokho (kufika abafana, isisindo nokuthuthukiswa jikelele ngokuvamile ukudlula amazinga isilinganiso) - ke kuba yisikhathi ukubiza ngemiyalo yezokwelapha.

Ngaphambi ubheka zofuzo engcono izinkanyezi wezokwelapha emhlabeni, ngokwanele ukuba wenze sibonane nodokotela wakho umndeni noma ukunakekelwa okuyisisekelo wezingane. Irekhodi yezokwelapha kwanoma iyiphi ingane, isimo onempilo ukubukela abazali, kukhona idatha ku Dynamics sokuthuthuka, esekelwe kudokotela wabo oqeqeshiwe singafinyelela eziphethweni ezithile mayelana nezinga lokukhula kwengane.

Izinkinga singenzeka kulezi zimo ezilandelayo:

• ukuguquguquka kwama-hormone ngenxa ngesikhathi sokuthomba;
• iziyaluyalu level "ozokusebenzisa";
• ukubambezeleka entuthuko;
• nobunzima elihlobene ne okungafanele kwengane esiswini;
• izifo ezibangelwa ufuzo.

Manje uyazi ukuthi hlobo luni ukukhula kufanele kube umfana ube neminyaka ethile ubudala.