Indlela ukucacisa ukulimala ngokwakho

Uma une izitha futhi ababeshisekela, ungathola kuzo ekulimaleni noma neso elibi. Yiba kuncike kulimaze noma yimuphi umuntu, kodwa uma kuhloswe ngenjongo balahle ithonya imilingo nzima. Kufanele wazi ukuthi ukunquma umonakalo bona nabathandekayo babo, kodwa sizokwenza ukubhuka ngesikhathi esisodwa ukuthi lo dokotela kuphela ngendlela efanele futhi ngokuphelele ukuthi yini uhlobo umonakalo ibekwa futhi obani.

Izindlela kanjani ukucacisa ukulimala kubhekwe efana self ngaphambi kokuya esibhedlela. Wena neze kahle abaphulukisa bebodwa noma bakwazi ukubeka ukuxilongwa, kepha ungacacisa ezinye zezimpawu ezikhombisa ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuba ufune usizo.

Omunye izimpawu ezinkulu umonakalo - isimo sakho ebandleni. abantu Spoiled neze umelana inkonzo Onqobayo ubuthakathaka bayo kanye Yawning, abanye ngisho ufikelwa esontweni. Uma ikhandlela futhi bazingcwelisa ukuwudabula, wuphawu lomonakalo amalangabi yequbula futhi ukuvela black umule. umonakalo Sinzima kubangela ikhandlela ucime.

Ngakho indlela ukunquma umonakalo muntu phakathi nokuvakasha kwazo esontweni, ungeke ukwazi ukuphendula njalo uchungechunge lwemibuzo:

• Ingabe kwenzeke uzizwe iphunga "ndawo" ukuzwa imisindo abangayiqondi efulethini, eqaphela ekhoneni iso okuyisithunzi izibalo?
• Wena baba ngokuzumayo ulahlekelwe isisindo, ubuhlungu yizifo ezingaziwa, sitholakele lapho odokotela abakwazi ukucacisa?
• Ingabe ukhathazwa amaphupho amabi, ukwesaba akunasisekelo nokulindela into eyesabisa futhi engaziwa?
• Ingabe unenkinga ubuka reflection wakhe esibukweni?
• Awucabangi ukuthi wenzani-ke namanje, futhi sikufisela?

Unxenxwa noma wacosha nge ngumfokazi indawo "okubi" umonakalo. Indlela ukunquma uma ungazange wathola ukulimala, akusho ukuthi yenzelwe wena? Izimpawu zayo ziyefana esiku kodwa avele ngemva umcimbi othile noma vakashela indawo ethile. Ukuze uzivikele ekulimaleni kwengozi, ulandele le mihlahlandlela.

Okokuqala, ungazami Ukunquma off ushintsho phansi. Ngezinye izikhathi ngisho zemali encane ukusakaza ngamazwi ekhethekile esiphambanweni lomhlaba noma abanye izibalo imilingo ukudlulisela umonakalo.

Okwesibili, eduze emathuneni nabandla akufanele sibheke emuva uma sokuqhamuka isihambi. Awukwazi ukuphendula imibuzo, 'Uma umfokazi ngaphandle kokuqale wabingelela.

Okwesithathu, ulandele imithetho yokuziphatha eduze emathuneni noma esontweni. Abhapathizwa emnyango futhi ophumayo wesonto, musa ukukhuluma ngezwi elikhulu ngisho eduze lezi zindawo, ningathinti izinto zabanye abantu, ngisho nje ukubheka.

Thina kuphela wakhuluma kafushane, indlela ukunquma umonakalo kuwe. Kukhona umuntu enze imicikilisho yokushiswa akhethekile ukubhula, ezifana sikhipha iqanda, lapho kuqala ukuvela izimpawu umonakalo. Uma ubhekene bemangele ngezinye izikhathi ngokwakho kumephu, umonakalo ngeke uvumele wena ukubikezela isiphetho - ikhadi uzoya e ukungqubuzana noma ezingahlobene isimo lihambisana, ezimweni kuyovama umbala isiqongo noma yezembatho Izinkemba (uma ezibuza ku Tarot).

Ibhekisela ngemilingo noma izangoma owazi indlela ukunquma umonakalo wena ucacise noma ukuphikisa izinto ezibakhathazayo. Ngezinye izikhathi khona umonakalo wazibona abantu lapho bangakwazi konakalisa ngokwakho noma ikusasa lakho buthelela izono.