Umshado ekahle noma ukumema ukuba emcimbini wedding abazali behlukanisile.

Ukuba ingane abazali kudivosa, Cishe ziyofunda ukuxhumana ngempumelelo enabo bobabili abazali, naphezu isehlukaniso yabo, ngoba naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi abazali baye bayeka ukuba abangane abaseduze nomunye - base yonke imindeni ekuseni futhi kubalulekile kuwe.

Le nkinga ishise ngokwanele enhlanganweni celebration wedding futhi inqobo iningi lomshado abasanda kushada - umcimbi akwenzeki nsuku zonke. Ngifisa ukuthi lutho wedding emcimbini empunga, efana ukuba ukumamatheka elikhanyayo ngokunganaki, ezokwazi ukuthwebula kahle photographer wedding, Ngifuna ukuhlanganyela izithombe lomshado nabo bobabili abazali, ngifuna ukuba uthole wedding ephelele.

Nokho, le nkinga ungakwazi shí ukudideka. kabi kakhulu uma une ukusukuma phambi ukukhetha - uma umenywe emcimbini wedding - umama noma ubaba wakho. Ikakhulukazi uma ukwehlukana abazali kwakunzima kakhulu, futhi omunye wabo ishiywa ukwakha ubuhlobo obusha komunye umuntu. Lesi simo ezimweni eziningi buhlungu kakhulu.

Okuphuma kulesi simo isobala - into esemqoka ukuba zithembeke. Ayacelwa bakwazi ukuxoxa ngalesi simo nge bobabili abashadile. Ungashayela ke umkhandlu umndeni. Okuyokusiza kudingeke ngobuqotho nokufudumala, okuyinto ungakwazi, ezikwenza ucacelwe yayo eqolo kubantu emhlabeni - Umama nobaba - njengoba engekho omunye wabo ku emcimbini wakho umshado ungase usithibeze lokunqoba usuku ezifana kubalulekile kuwe.

Bakholelwa ukuthi abazali abanothando uzoya ukukuhlangabeza, ngisho naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi abazi ukuxhumana iminyaka eminingi futhi singathanda ukuxhumana nomunye uthando ngisho 400 ubudala ngawe ngeke abanike amandla ukudala emshadweni umuzwa wakho nomndeni, ukuthula, injabulo.

Nokho, lokho akusho ubuhlungu lokuqoka umuntu obhekene abanakekela abazali bakho kulo lonke imicimbi yemishado. Lokhu kungaba noma isihlobo sakho noma umngane wakho oseduze kakhulu. Into esemqoka ukuthi umuntu uyakwazi ngesikhathi ukuqaphela ugqozi ezikhulayo kanye nesikhathi ukudambisa ukungqubuzana ezikhulayo.

I ehilelekile kuphela kulokhu yokuthi inhlangano yomshado kungcono ukuba abeke ngokuphelele emahlombe abo, kodwa noma kunjalo hhayi ohlukanisile abazali, ngoba azikwazi ukufinyelela esivumelwaneni yisiphi isikhathi bekhohlisa enhlanganweni lwakho lomshado, okungase ashisise ugqozi futhi kwandiswe amathuba ingxabano.

Usuku lapho kuyoba yakho emcimbini wedding kungase kube uvivinyo kanzima abazali bakho bahlukene. Kwangathi abuyisa izinkumbulo zakudala futhi imizwa bobabili wazizwa emshadweni wakhe siqu. It kungafika kwamanzi yobuhlungu amaphupho zingagcwaliseki. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, bayazi ukuthi ukuba khona emshadweni wakho, abakwenzayo into elungile, ukwenza umsebenzi wakho sabazali, nge ukukuthumela ingane yakhe ozithandayo uhambo olude ngoba abaphilayo ozimele.

Bethandana futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthi abathandekayo akuzona eduze kumnyama noma kubomvu njalo. Ngithemba ngobuqotho ukuthi umshado wakho kuyoba ephelele. Ozithobayo, photographer professional leonid Starikov.