Njengoba incwadi iphupho uthi, umgwaqo - lokhu kuyisixwayiso, futhi ubhaka ezinkulu - sikhona ukuze ukukhulelwa

Amaphupho lapho olele ubona yena owayehamba njalo wavakashelwa abantu babo bonke ubudala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lezi amaphupho dream ngisho ekhubazekile, abantu ngisembhedeni noma abadala ukuthi elahla incazelo ukuthi iphupho laliphathelene nokushumayela izenzakalo abanolwazi. Cishe, njengoba kuboniswa incwadi iphupho, umgwaqo - kungcono isixwayiso.

Ngokuvamile ngamaphupho anjalo baxwayisa ukuthi maduze kungase kube izinkinga kuyoba nzima ukuzixazulula. Futhi lena incwadi iphupho sikhuluma ngokuhoxiswa ngokwengqondo: umgwaqo cishe kubonisa ukuthi maduze umuntu angase afune ukushintsha isithombe zokuphila kwakhe.

izibikezelo ezahlukene kancane kulabo ukuhamba hhayi kuphela ngezinyawo ngesitimela. Uma umuntu ukuphupha ncwadi ujantshi iphupho uxwayisa ngokuthi kungase kube ukungabaza nokungaqiniseki ezivela ngokuhlobana ocansini. Ngakho-ke, akufanele silindele, lapho lezi zinkinga uzobe ezibhekene indoda ukuphakama kwakhe okugcwele, futhi ngokushesha silinake ngokungathí sina zempilo yabo, ku ukuziphatha kwabo kanye sengqondo maqondana uzakwethu.

Uma umuntu othanda enomuzwa wokuthi ngeke ngokwanele liziphatha kabuthaka nangokuthula ngokucophelela maqondana ngasekupheleni, isikhundla lesifanele emiphongolweni. Enye into, uma liqala ukwenza ngokuhambisana izinkanuko zabo, sithembele impendulo iphupho. Nemiphumela yokuziphatha okunjalo kungaba neze kwakubikezelwe.

Nokho Freud ubuthongo, lapho umuntu ohamba, akufanele ngokuhunyushwa ngendlela mfushane, okuthiwa ifomu elithi "ubumsulwa". Lapho indima enkulu eyadlalwa isimo, imvelo, "ngemuva" ukulala ngisho "ngxenye yesithathu". Ngokwesibonelo, uhambo uzungezwe abangane abahle noma inja ethembekile (inja ephusheni - uphawu nomndeni kweqiniso abangane) - I-inhlanhla kanye kudalwa le umndeni, ukujikeleza elamadwala angaziwa - amabhizinisi amasha kanye namabhizinisi kuzodala eziningi ngokuphazamisa nobunzima.

Ngokuqondene ujantshi, ukuhamba kwakhe ukuhamba ngokwayo agudle, sandise phezu belele, lingahunyushwa ngalezi zindlela ubunzima, umsebenzi onzima, ekunqobeni izithiyo. Kuyinto futhi ubuthongo ngempela okuhle ubikezela uma kukhona NTU astray. Lokhu kungasho ukuthi maduze wenza iphutha, okuyiwona kuyodingeka bakhokhe. Kukhona futhi ukulahlekelwa kwezimali.

Nakuba ujabule Abesifazane IPHUPHO Book: umgwaqo ephusheni intombazane limelela ushintsho elibukekayo, futhi nokuhlangabezana uthando entsha! Yini enye engcono? Futhi evumayo iphupho lapho uhamba isihambi endleleni kanye ezimila ezihlahleni ezinde, eziqhakaza izimbali ezinhle. Kuyinto isibikezelo inhlanhla ezingalindelekile, mhlawumbe futhi uthando. Yiqiniso, ngesikhathi ecula izinyoni kanye izimvemvane elikhanyayo Phakathi nohambo neziphandla harbingers isikhathi kuhle futhi kumnandi empilweni yangempela.

Kodwa kaningi ubachazela ncwadi iphupho: umgwaqo ephusheni - ukuhamba ngokoqobo. Umbuto ukutsi noma kungaba ngale ndlela, ukuthi yini okufanele yenziwe empeleni, kumnandi, ngokuzithandela, noma - eziphoqelelwe lisuselwa emagameni ngaphandle ezingezinhle? Ngakho-ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sinake Eqinisweni, iziphi izinto aqoqene ngoba yalolu hambo yakho? Lokho ngeke veza lokho kushintsha kungalindeleka emphilweni indoda ababone angazifaki noma nje ubukele umgwaqo.

Freud unaka ngokukhethekile ukuba "ngxenye yesithathu" uhlelo ubuthongo. Phela, njengoba waveza ngu incwadi iphupho, ukuqoqa izinto endleleni kakade lokho kubonisa ukuthi umphefumulo ngamunye kukhona injabulo, efingqa eminye imiphumela. Kusho ukuthi umuntu futhi kufanele uzinike isikhathi ekuphileni kwangempela, njengoba ngephupho. Kodwa into ebaluleke kakhulu ngalowo muntu zingatholakala ohlwini lezo izinto ukulala Kubutsa ngendlela yakho. Uma uye eqoqwe emthwalweni ebuthongweni voluminous kakhulu futhi esindayo, kungasho ukuthi empeleni, ngamunye uzizwa burdened nga ngalindelekile ukonga omubi phakathi nesikhathi sokuphila kwawo. Kanti kwezinye izimo nojosaka besiyoba sikhulu futhi kube ngisho amapotimende ukufanekisa umthondo zesifazane. Nakuba iningi lemikhandlu umbhuli kufanisa ukunothisa ingane ukuzalela imibono ebalulekile nganoma yimaphi amapulani engathi sina ngekusasa.