Izincomo nezeluleko kubazali: indlela yokulungisa ingane esikoleni

Ukulungiselela ingane esikoleni kuyisikhathi esicindezelekile nesomthwalo wemfanelo ekuphileni komzali ngamunye. Abaningi bayabuza ukuthi yini okudingekayo ukuthi bayenze futhi yiziphi izinyathelo okufanele zithathe ukuze zivumelanise izingane nezimo ezintsha njengezifundiswa. Uma uhlanganisa wonke amathiphu kubazali ukulungiselela izingane esikoleni, khona-ke ungakwazi ukuhlukanisa izinkomba ezintathu eziyinhloko.

Ukuthuthukiswa okujwayelekile

Isibonisi sokuqala ukuthuthukiswa kwengane. Ngesikhathi ingane ihlala edeskini, ukuqeqesha kwakhe konke kufanele kube nezinga elithile. Lokhu kusebenza ngokuyinhloko ekuhlakanipheni, ekukhunjweni nasekunakekeleni. Iseluleko kubazali ekulungiseleleni izingane esikoleni iminyaka emi-5 kuya phambili kuhloswe ekudaluleni ulwazi olukhona lwengane kanye nanoma yimiphi imibono mayelana nezwe elikuzungezile, kanye namakhono akhe ukwenza izenzo engqondweni nasekucabangeni.

Ukuphathwa okungaqondakali

Isibonisi sesibili ukulawula okungahambisani nawe nemicabango yakho. Abasenkulisa babenombono oqhakazile kakhulu, inkumbulo enhle kakhulu futhi bayashintsha kalula, kodwa abazi ukuthi bangakuphatha kanjani lokhu konke ngokugcwele. Ukuze ukhumbule into yonke imininingwane futhi isikhathi eside ingane ingakwazi, uma inesithakazelo kuyo, kodwa kunzima kakhulu ukugxila kulokho okungamzwisi isithakazelo.

Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuphuma nokugxila kulokhu ikhono ngaphambi kokuya esikoleni. Amathiphu kubazali, indlela yokulungisa ingane esikoleni, kubonisa ngokucacile - akumele akwazi ukwenza kuphela lokho okufunayo, kodwa lokho okudingayo, ngisho nangesikhathi lapho kungathandeki ngaso sonke isikhathi.

Izinhloso

Inkomba yesithathu ukwakhiwa kwezinhloso ezinganeni, ukumkhuthaza ukuba afunde edeskini. Lokhu akukona ngentshisekelo yemvelo ukuthi bonke abazali bayona: ukuxhumana nabangane babo, imidlalo, njll, okungukuthi, isisusa esijulile esiqondisayo futhi yisisusa sokwamukela ulwazi esikoleni. Zonke lezi zikhomba ezintathu zibaluleke kakhulu ekuqaleni kwemfundo yengane ephumelelayo.

Izinto zokulungela esikoleni

Kunezici ezimbalwa eziyinhloko ezibonisa izinga lokulungela izingane ekufundeni:

• Physical. Kunezinqubo ezithile zokuthuthukiswa ngokomzimba ezinganeni zasenkulisa, ezithathwa yizinkomba ezifana nesisindo, ukuphakama, umbono, ukuzwa, amakhono emoto, ithoni ye-muscle, isimiso sezinzwa kanye nempilo ngokujwayelekile.
• Isici sobuhlakani. Iseluleko esiningi kubazali ekulungiseleleni ingane esikoleni sinconywa ukuba sigxile kule nkomba, kepha lapha, okubaluleke kakhulu, ungayidluli futhi ungadumisi ingane encane yesikole ekufundeni. Lokhu kungafaka: umbono jikelele wengane, isilulumagama, izinga lolwazi lwezwe elizungezile (ukucabanga nokucabanga).
• Isici sezenhlalakahle. Izingane kufanele zibe nesithombe somuntu siqu senqubo yonke ekuqaleni kwenqubo yezemfundo: isimo senhlalakahle nesimilo sokuxhumana nabangane nabantu abadala ("Kuhle" nokuthi yini "embi").
• Isimo somzwelo. Othisha, enikeza abazali abazali indlela yokulungisa ingane esikoleni, cabanga ngalesi sici sakha uma umfundi ekwazi ukusetha imigomo, uhlele izinhlelo ezithile, enze izinqumo futhi enze imizamo yokuqaliswa kwazo okulandelayo.

Ngokubanzi, zonke lezi zici futhi ubonise izinga lokulungela kwengane yenqubo yokufunda.

Imigomo yokulungiselela

Ngaphezu kwezici ezithinta inqubo yezemfundo yesikhathi esizayo, kungenzeka ukuthi uhlukanise ezinye izindlela zokulungiselela ingane:

• Ukuthuthukiswa komzimba kanye nokusebenzisana - ukuzimisela kwezandla ukwenza izinyathelo ezincane nezinhlobonhlobo (ukuthola ipeni, ipensela nebhashishi).
• Izinto ezidingekayo zokugqugquzela ukufunda - isimo sengqondo sokufunda, njengenqubo ebalulekile yokuphila, inzalo ekuzilandeleni.
• Ukuziphatha - ikhono lokuhambisana nombuso wesikole nenhlangano elula ngesikhathi sesifundo.
• Umsebenzi wengqondo uyakwazi ukugcina izinto futhi zikhomba izimfanelo, izindawo kanye nezinhlangothi zabo, kanye nokuqonda nokukhumbula ngekhono lokho okushiwo.
• Ukuzimela - ukuzama ukuthola izindlela ezahlukene zokufeza umgomo, izindlela zokuxazulula inkinga ethile kanye nokwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kosizo olungaphandle.
• Iseluleko kubazali, indlela yokulungisa ingane esikoleni, iqukethe ekuthuthukiseni ikhono lomntanakho lokulalela othisha nabakwa-comrades, okungukuthi, ukusebenza eqenjini.
• Umsebenzi ukwazi ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukusebenza, nesifiso sokukwenza hhayi kuphela wena, kodwa kwabanye, ukuqaphela umthwalo wemisebenzi eyabelwe.
• Amandla okuhamba - umfundi kufanele abe nomqondo wesikhathi nesikhala, amayunithi wokulinganisa (ihora, usuku, kude, eduze), kanye nokukwazi ukubona lezi zinkomba.

Izincomo eziningi kubazali indlela yokulungisa ingane esikoleni, zifakazele ukuthi izingane kakade ezineminyaka engu-6-7 ziqala ukusebenza zonke izidumbu zokuqaphela. Kuyi-sikhathi lapho ivolumu yokuqala yolwazi namakhono ekwakhiwa - ukucabanga okunengqondo, ukucabangela nokukhumbula inkumbulo, okukuvumela ukuba uqondise ingane ngendlela efanele: ukulalela, ukukhumbula, ukuhlaziya nokudweba iziphetho.

Yini okufanele ingane yasenkulisa ikwazi ukuyenza?

Ngaphambi kokuba uhlale edeskini, ingane kufanele ikwazi ulwazi oluthile namakhono.

• Ukunakwa sicela. Ngaphakathi kwemizuzu engu-15-20 ukuze ukwazi ukwenza imisebenzi eyabelwe - igxile futhi ingaphazanyiswa. Thola ukungafani kwamane ezintweni, ukuxazulula izibonelo ezilula kumodeli. Ukuze ukwazi ukukopisha izinto ezilula - amaphethini noma ukunyakaza.
• Imemori. Funda imemori yamavesi ezingane, khumbula izithombe eziyisithupha noma eziyisikhombisa bese uphinda umusho ozwakalayo wemigqa emibili noma emithathu.
• Ukucabanga. Ama-puzzle namaphosta. Ukuze ukwazi ukuchaza ukungafani okusobala ezithombeni, ukuthola izinto "ezengeziwe" phakathi kwalabo abahlongozwayo, ukuhlaziya nokuchaza lokho abakushoyo.
• Izibalo. Ukwazi ukulandelana nenani lezinto ngezinombolo, ubale ngokulandelana phambili nokulandelana kuya kokuyishumi. Engeza bese ususa usebenzisa izimpawu ze-arithmetic. Yiba nomqondo ngobude bezinto, hamba ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
• Inkulumo. Yenza izindaba ngezithombe noma empilweni yakho okungenani ngemisho emihlanu. Memezela kahle imisindo bese uhlukanisa imisho ngamagama.
• Ngesithuthuthu. Ukutholakala kwepensela, ipeni nebhashishi. Ukuze ubonise kulo mfanekiso izinto eziningana ezihlanganiswe isakhiwo esivamile. Ukuze ukwazi ukudweba, ukushaya, ngaphandle kokushiya impikiswano echazwe. Yazi ngokulingana kwendaba kulo mdwebo (indlovu kanye negundane) futhi unamakhono amancane okusebenza ngezincwadi zokuzivocavoca emgodini nombusi.

Izwe elizungezile

Izincomo kubazali zokulungiselela ingane esikoleni, ezibalwe ngezansi, abaningi banaki noma bavele bakhohlwe ukugxila kubo. Kodwa ingane kufanele iqonde ngokucacile futhi ikwazi isibongo sayo, igama kanye negama lakhe, kanye namagama abazali, igama lomuzi ahlala kulo, izitaladi, inhloko yezwe lakubo, izinsuku zeviki, izinyanga ezihambisana nokulandelana nokuya kwezinkathi zonyaka, izinhlobo zezimbali nezinyamazane Izidakamizwa, izihlahla, izihlahla, izihlahla), kanye negama leplanethi esiphila kuyo, nomngane wakhe.

Akuzona zonke izeluleko kubazali ukulungiselela ingane esikoleni ezifanele izikhungo ezikhethekile, kodwa izinga lezimpendulo zemibuzo engenhla mayelana nezwe elizungezile kulinganiselwa ukuthi lilinganayo. Impendulo yempendulo efanele kumbuzo yilezi: ubaba usebenza njengodokotela, igama lomama nguSvetlana Smirnova, kunalokho: ubaba usebenza emsebenzini futhi igama lomama nguSveta. Ngokusho izimpendulo zemibuzo enjalo elula, kungenzeka ukuthi kunqume izinga lokulungele ingane yasenkulisa.

Indlela yokulungisa ingane esikoleni - iseluleko kubazali

Ukuze ingane ilungele inqubo yokufunda futhi ngenjabulo eya ebangeni lokuqala, kufanelekile ukunaka izincomo ezilandelayo.

Awudingi kakhulu kumntwana. Akukho phuzu ekubuzeni ngakho konke ngesikhathi esisodwa. Khumbula ukuthi imizamo yakho ekulungiseleleni kufanele ihambisane nezinga elijwayelekile lokuthuthukiswa kwengane yasenkulisa, ngakho-ke akukho mqondo ekumfundiseni amanye amakhono avela emakilasini aphezulu.

Izimfanelo ezinjalo ezidingekayo njengokunemba, umthwalo wemfanelo nokukhuthaza akakaze zenziwe ngokushesha - lokhu kuthatha isikhathi nomzamo. Ngokuvamile ingane idinga ukwesekwa okulula okuvela kumuntu omdala.

Amaphutha nemodi yosuku

Izingane zihlale zinelungelo lokwenza iphutha - lokhu kuvamile kubo bonke abantu ngaphandle kokuhlukile. Kubalulekile ukuthi ingane ingesabi ukwenza iphutha. Abazali abaningi bahlambalaza izingane ngenxa yalokhu, okuholela ekunciphiseni ukuzethemba nokwesaba kokwenza ukuhamba okungafanele. Uma ngabe ingane isenzile iphutha, kuzomele likhonjiswe futhi lihlongozwe ukuba lilungiswe. Okudingekayo ukusebenzela amaphutha kuyindumiso. Ngisho nangempumelelo encane noma ekufezeni izingane, umvuzo kufanele uvuzwe.

Nakani futhi uma kunesidingo ukulinganisela umsoco wengane, umbuso wosuku, isikhathi sokuphumula kanye namakilasi. Lungisa isigqi sesikhathi esikoleni bese uzama ukunamathela kuso.