Izilinganiso ngokuhlala ngokwahlukana: ukufunda ukuze sihambe ekuphileni okusha

Ubuhlungu, oshade naye, amanga izimo. Konke lokhu kuvame ukuholela ukuphela efanayo - wahlukanisa. Indlela okuba asinde kulokho kuhlinzwa, bathi isizwe esikhulu nje labo ebhekene nalo, khuluma ngezinto izingcaphuno yokwehlukana. Izitatimende kungasiza ukuveza imizwa, futhi mhlawumbe ukufunda ngendlela ehlukile ukuze abone okwakwenzekile.

Izilinganiso mayelana okuvalelisa nge othandekayo umuntu

• "Kusukela amadoda kudingeka ukuya isikhathi lapho yena namanje akusho ucabange, ungamyeki khona."
• "Isikhathi ngaphezulu isidlulile kusukela ngokuhlukana, umhlangano abafiseleka ngokwengeziwe futhi ezithakazelisayo."
• "Ngezinye izikhathi, siqhubeka Ningamdabukisi umuntu, kanye nezinhliziyo ezichichima izinkumbulo ngaye."
• "Uthando kubonakala sengathi nje ngemva kokushonelwa kwakhe."
• "Madoda akwa-akudingeki nhlobo indlela ukushiya kahle. Abesifazane - lapho kungcono ukwenza."

Izilinganiso mayelana ukuhlukana phakathi abathandekayo Avame ukutholakala ngesimo isimo amanethiwekhi omphakathi. Lapha kukhona ukudabuka okukhulu nokukhungatheka, nenzondo, ngisho ukubonga. Ngakho-ke, iqoqo imizwa jikelele, ijwayelekile abantu abaningi. Futhi, kwaba ukuqaphela ukuthi awusiyena lokuqala owazi lokhu kungase kakade kube kulondolozwa azungeze endleleni eya ukuthula kwengqondo.

Izilinganiso ukuhlukana sad

• " 'Nxa umuntu ulahlekelwa konke futhi wonke umuntu omthandayo-ke kulula ukusho goodbye, futhi yena."
• "Vele abe indoda ukhohlwe, ngoba uma ubuchopho ukhumbula ukuthi lanamuhla lwakhe lokuzalwa futhi uyabathanda amakhabe ngaphezu ikhabe."
• "Lapho uthando iletha usizi, indlela engcono kakhulu - ukushiya."
• "Ukwahlukana uyakwazi ukubeka umoya phansi kuphela uthando iyadlula. Njengoba umoya extinguishes lekhandlela. Uthando ku sokuvalelisa lukhula kuphela. Njengoba igqamuka emoyeni emlilweni."
• "Umuntu kuthiwa engcono libhekene yokuthi ukuthi uzokwazi ukusho Some owesifazane, musa babukise wakhe."

Izilinganiso futhi be ku okuvalelisa ukusetha isimo

Izilinganiso mayelana ngokwahlukana ngokuvamile kukhona hilarious. Lokhu kusebenza futhi nakulabo abantu asebethole owashonelwa lokuqala kafulawa, noma labo banethemba lokuphila. Kwakamuva uqinisekile ngokwahlukana - lena elinye ithuba. Ithuba ukuthola omunye umuntu ukuqeda amaphutha odlule futhi sicabangele yena. Ngandlela-thile, kodwa izingcaphuno funny kungasiza ukubheka inkinga esuka ngolunye uhlangothi:

• "Breaking up kuyadingeka. Ikakhulukazi uma sewazi ukuthi ngaphambi ozithandayo ayidingi sikhule Futhi. Wena kuphela ukwehla."
• "Ukuze kubhubhe sibe sinye kuphela okungokwakho. '
• "Owesifazane ngemva breaking up iba nesizungu futhi oludonsa futhi mahhala."
• "Ukuyeka ebusweni bakho, balahle isidingo kabusha izingcingo zakho ke."
• "Uma ungeyena lucky othandweni njengomuntu omdala, ahlakaniphe, futhi alethe ngokwami, futhi manje ake ke ongaqhubeki nawe."
• "Uma behlukana, zama ukubonga and smile emuva. Sizofika isikhathi lapho omunye uyaqaphela kwakukubi, futhi ukukhumbula nomusa wenu."

Yini abantu bethi ngalamadoda olukhulu sokuvalelisa?

Izilinganiso ukuhlukana nge wayebathanda abantu omunye omkhulu futhi abonisa le nqubo ngezindlela ezahlukene. Othile uthi into mayelana usizi nokukhungatheka nokwaphuka kwenhliziyo, umuntu uphuma lesi sifundo ukuphila. Khona - izibonelo ezimbalwa ngokukhuluma ukwehlukana zokugcina izibalo olukhulu isiko.

umqondo abathandwayo uzwakalise sefilosofi Schopenhauer: sokuvalelisa kunikeza umuntu umuzwa ngokufa okusondelayo, ngosuku olufanayo - lolu vuko. Yingakho abathandi wangaphambili uqinisa ithemba ngisho nangemva kweminyaka eyishumi, bayoba ndawonye.

Zothando Lermontov waphawula kahle ukuthi kulapho siyazi injabulo sothando, kumunyu kuyoba ngokuhlukana. Shakespeare waveza ukuthi ubuhlungu bokuhlukaniswa kwenza abantu buthule ngokuphelele.

Imbongi Ovid Antiquity amazwi ingasetshenziswa njengendlela isikhumbuzi kulabo owaqala ikhefu: "Ukuze sikwazi ukuya - akunzima ukuze bakwazi ubuye."

Enye AMAZWI ukuthi ayemakhulu amathemba ababenawo kungokwalabo Richard Bach. Kufanele libe isikhumbuzo kunoma ubani isebujameni ukuphelelwa yithemba. Uthi ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukuba bahlale wokudangala ngemva ukudabula. I last - lena nje izaba umhlangano. Futhi umhlangano kungenzeka kuphela kulabo besilokhu singabangane.

Ekuphetheni, ngingathanda sibala njengesibonelo ezihlobene Remarque sokuvalelisa: ngokwahlukana akusona isiphelo njalo, kaningi kangakanani esigabeni sokuqala okwenyuka.

Izilinganiso ngokuhlala ngokwahlukana - is, eqinisweni, ngomzamo sihlaziye isipiliyoni sakho ezimbi, ukuze ukuyibeka ngamazwi, futhi isinyathelo sokuqala endleleni eya wenkululeko. Ngisho odokotela bengqondo ukuncoma ukusho okulimaza e umphefumulo. Kulula ukuqonda ukuthi kwakwenzekani enkundleni. Futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ayeke besola wena noma omunye isiphetho ukungabi nabulungisa, futhi siphathe njengobufakazi isipiliyoni.