Indlela ukukhetha imbiza for abafana simfundise ingane

Lapho ingane ikhula, abazali bafuna ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze bafundise izingane zabo ukuba ibhodwe. Zibaluleke kakhulu kule ndaba kuyinto isikhathi lapho umntwana ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo salokhu "abavuthiwe". Zonke izingane zihlukile, ngakho ayaqala ukuba njalo ukuya potty emazingeni ahlukene - abanye bakwenza kakade esikhathini esingangonyaka nesigamu, futhi enye - kamuva kakhulu. Kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ekuqaleni ukuqeqeshwa potty kwenza akukho mqondo, ngoba kungathatha isikhathi nomzamo abazali, futhi, eqinisweni, kungenzeka ukuqagela esifanele kuka ukuqeqeshwa langempela. Abazali kufanele ukuvumela ingane noma eyokufunda ukulalela izifiso zabo futhi linxusa ukuba ngokwabo. Boys avame ukuba kulesi sici kancane ngemuva amantombazane.

Esiyingqopha kubaluleke kakhulu iba ukuthenga imbiza. imbiza Wezingane intandane ukunethezeka, okuhlala, efanelekayo ukukhula kwengane, futhi yebo, umnikazi wakhe Yinhle kancane. Phela, lokhu into siqu kakhulu ukuthi ingane ubona njengendodana yakhe.

Embizeni umfana inezici ezithile eziqondile. I ububanzi wokuvula yayo akufanele kube kuncane kakhulu, kudingeka ezinye isikhala margin ingane yakho ukuba ikwazi ukuthwala ngxenyana efinyelela lapha ngqo phansi ebhodweni (lena ukulungiselela kancane nesitendi lokubhala). Umbala imbiza kubafana ukukhetha okungcono ngokwesiko "owesilisa" - ziluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, ziphuzi noma oluhlaza kungaba, kodwa ngokuqinisekile ngeke pink.

Kukhethwa izimbiza manje nje omkhulu - uhlobo oluhlukile kakhulu, ngesimo izimoto izinhlamvu Fairytale, umculo (ukudlala umculo uma ketshezi singena kubo). Embizeni umfana kungcono ukukhetha zendabuko ezingaphezu, kodwa ayiphelelwa yisikhathi ithoyizi, kanti nesimo sayo sengqondo ukuthatha izinto ngokungathí sina ngempela.

Okokuqala, ungazama ukutshala ingane kwi potty nge izingubo, futhi kuphela uma ingane sihlezi khona, azizwa unethemba ukunikeza yena ukuba akhumule panties kanye ahlale nqunu empangweni. Uma imibhikisho ingane, akudingekile ukuba akuthonye, ngoba kuphela kuholela ukumelana kakhulu futhi unomphela "uyasikrufulula" kid kusukela imbiza.

Standing umfana okufanele unikele ukubhala kuphela ngemva akufundayo ukukwenza ehlezi. Ngaphandle isibonelo kule ndaba, awukwazi ukwenza, isibonelo esinjalo kungaba ubaba noma ubhuti. Kodwa ngokushesha ukuze kungadingeki ukuba size siye ukuba izenzo ezinjalo, uma ingane wayehleli kamnandi ukubhala, kunzima kakhulu evamile. Lapho ingane yakho ifuna ukuya akhulule ngokwakhe emgwaqeni, ukuthi banganikeza kokukhomba imbali noma itshe. Embizeni abafana abaye bafunda azikhulula "omdala" iyadingeka manje kuphela "izinto ezinkulu."

Abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuthi kulapho ingane ukuchitha isikhathi ngaphandle inabukeni, ngokushesha uzoqala ukucela ebhodweni. Akusona Empeleni. Kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi enuresis e izingane ezineminyaka engu-amadala akuhlangene ne egqoke namanabukeni, noma wakhuluma ugogo - i owayephikisana namanabukeni yesimanje. Ngakho wonke umzali kufanele siqondiswe hhayi nje ngenxa isifiso ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze abantu abangu kanye ingane imbiza, kodwa futhi induduzo ingane, futhi lula yayo.

Ukuze siphumelele ngamunye udinga ukuba adumise indodana, kodwa ukuba okungcono yohambo ngayinye imbiza ukwenza umcimbi ke akudingekile. Izingane zingase kube novalo ngenxa ukunakwa kakhulu. Ungalokothi yikho okumele kusolwe ngokushona ukwehluleka kwengane, nje ukubekezela konke sibuyela kwesejwayelekile ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kodwa ungafaka isikhathi yokukhangisa - isibonelo, ngemva kwenye inhlanhla ake kid balindele ukuba angene ngendlela isimanga kancane esihlwabusayo. Kuhle ukuthatha isithombe imemori ingane, lapho usukwazi ukudlala kahle imbiza. Izithombe leli cebo bheka inhliziyo, ikakhulukazi ngemva kweminyaka embalwa.