Njengoba ubungani kubonakala ukuthi uyaphumelela yini ukuphila

Emphilweni bonke ubungane womuntu kudlala kungekho ayibalulekile kunalokho banetiseke noma umsebenzi impumelelo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi endaweni ethile kunabantu futhi ngiyabathanda wena, uyokusekela kunoma isiphi isimo futhi usizo. Kodwa akumelwe sikhohlwe ukuthi ukuze bathole abangane weqiniso noqotho kudingeka ukuba ngakho kwasekuqaleni uqobo.

Ingabe siyazi ukuthi yini ukwakha abangane?

Kukangaki ubona abangani bakho? Cabanga ukuthi ngoMgqibelo ebusuku igama lakho ukuza pizza abantu abaluleke kakhulu kuwe. Abaningi bebhekene nenkinga oluthandwa: Kunezinto eziningi okudingeka bakwazi ukuqedela ngosuku, futhi ngibe nabangane nabo ungazange ngimbone futhi udinga ukuxhumana nabo. Kungani sivamile senqabe Ongasinaki abantu? Ingabe sizilungele ukuza nosizo kaningi njengoba kucelwe omunye?

Ngitshele ukuthi obani abangane bakho ...

Mhlawumbe umbuzo uwukuthi, esixhumana unqume ukwenza abangane. Kukhona nalabo esizihlanganisa bajwayelene yobuntwana ukusekela zokuxhumana, ngoba ubuhlobo ladabula umlilo, amanzi nethusi amapayipi, okuyinto ukwenze ngendlela emangalisayo eduze futhi kubalulekile nomunye. Wena kokubili ukwethemba nomunye ezingabonwayo wazi kanjani ukuzwelana kanye nokwesekwa. Kubalulekile unakekele singalahlekelwa abangane abanjalo. Kakade, akekho umsebenzi ngeke ukwazi ukuba sigcwalise isidingo esinaso sokuba nabangane nokwethembela yokuthi asisodwa.

Esinye isigaba abangane - nakulabo esihlangana nabo abadala ngokuya usizo kithi noma umphakathi isithakazelo. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi laba bantu akufanele "ngikususe phansi." Ungenza abangane nabo ngokuqinile, kuphela uma abangane abanjalo kungangqubuzani kuzoncika khona kwakho njalo ezimpilweni zabo, uma nabo ozokhula nokusebenzisa isithakazelo okuthile. Lena ngenye zokuhlola ebaluleke kakhulu nothile wobulili obuhlukile. Zama zizungeze nabangani abakukhuthaza ukuba wenze izinto silwele ezinyoni enkudlwana, ube ngcono, ukufunda okwengeziwe, nakulokhu okulotshiwe nawe ejimini bese uya ukunqoba Everest. Khulisa ndawonye, besizana.

Kubalulekile ngezinye izikhathi ukucabanga mayelana ngubani oseduze kwakho. Thatha sihlolisise: uma aneliseke konke ubudlelwane bakho? Mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi ukuyeka ongenawo ukubaluleka kuwe, futhi kulabo zokuchitha isikhathi sakho?