Njengoba indoda ecabanga, noma kungani ubuhle akuqinisekisi injabulo

Feminists iyiphi inombolo ukuqhubela kulo imihlangano mayelana nokulinganiswa kobulili, kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane kunomehluko omkhulu. Futhi akasiye ngisho umehluko bokuphila, kodwa ezingeni ukwazi. Owesifazane angeke ucabange njengoba umuntu ecabanga, futhi okuphambene nalokho. Empeleni, lena ubuhle yonke. Lokhu zinakekelwe Mother Nature, ngakho kuwufanele liphikisa wakhe? Iphuzu lapha yilona isimo kule ubudlelwano phakathi ama- ingqondo. Ngesikhathi ubulili bubuhle izixhumanisi phakathi kwawo, bona bayakwazi ukucubungula ulwazi oluningi ngesikhathi esisodwa, kodwa ucansi namandla "ephendula" kulula ukuqala ukuxhumana okunengqondo, ngokushesha okukhishwe into ebaluleke akuyona umklomelo trifles.

Yazi ukuthi kumelwe acabange kanjani indoda, owesifazane kufanele abe ukuze ugweme amahlazo mayelana trifles. Kumele baqonde ukuthi ezinye izinto akakwazi ukuqonda, hhayi ngoba abanonya, ngabandayo, nokunye. D., Futhi ngoba bezibona ezahlukene zomhlaba. Isibonelo Classic: amasokisi nihlakazeke, izitsha kuthebula, i ukungakwazi ukuthola into elungile ekamelweni. zithobeni ukuthi ngokuphelele izitho zomzimba. Izinto ehlakazekile ngenxa yokuthi ukuthi "kuphawula le nsimu yayibona", kusho kuye: "Ngingumfana boss lapha." Ngesizathu esifanayo, musa ukugeza izitsha, hhayi icala wasebukhosini. A alikwazi ukuthola into elungile ekamelweni, ngoba semali ngokuningiliziwe ngokushesha sidilize kuye ibhalansi, futhi ngo kubo owalahleka.

Enye ewusizo ukwazi ukuthi nokuthi indoda ecabanga abesifazane. Kuyadingeka ukuba abone umehluko phakathi kwezinkolelo kanjani ladies ngokwabo, futhi kanjani they ihlobana Cavaliers. Bonke abesifazane ufuna ukuhlangana indinganiso ezithile ubuhle obukhona okwamanje emphakathini. Ukulandela fashion uya eziningi imihlatshelo, wobulili buthaka ngokungazi ukholelwa ukuthi le ngokushesha ubone ucansi namandla. Kodwa into funny wukuthi iningi amadoda zokukhwabanisa bamane awuboni. Cabanga Like A Man, khona-ke uyobona ukuthi singakanani eyayingalungile. Zibona isithombe iyonke. Uma owesifazane ukuthandwa, noma nguye uthando naye, akanandaba nalokho igqoka, lokho kwekhanda lakhe. It kuvela ukuthi abesifazane uchitha isikhathi nemali, hhayi abantu, kodwa ngenxa intandokazi, ukuthuthukisa ukuzethemba kwabo, ngenhlanhla, kubaluleke kakhulu, kodwa ngaphandle ngokweqile, sicela.

Mbiko ubuhle futhi akucaci kahle. Okwamanje, into eyodwa - indinganiso ukubukeka socialite kakade bored. Njengoba lapha imithetho Macroeconomics: umthamo omkhulu iziphakamiso njalo kwehlisa izindleko umkhiqizo ngokwayo. Ikakhulukazi manje ubuhle - akulona sipho imvelo, futhi amakhono udokotela ohlinzayo sika, beautician kanye nobukhulu utshalomali. Njengoba indoda ecabanga kulesi simo? "Bonke bangabalandeli ngokufanayo!" Futhi uyakwazisa owesifazane, hhayi njengomuntu kodwa ibhekwa khulula kuya "Mercedes" noma amawashi ayebiza. Lokhu kuyiphutha elikhulu ukucabanga ukuthi imali Ungashintshanisa imizwa. Amantombazane amaningi lapho ukhohlwe ukuthi yokwakha yaseGrisi isambatho sengcebo ungalilahli umuzwa injabulo. Futhi ngokushesha noma kamuva, ubuze ngaphakathi kuyowuthonya. Zithanda noma zingathandi, kodwa hlobo kuya empeleni Ungakhohliswa futhi ikusasa kakhulu. Kufanele ukhokhele konke.

Ithiphu: Cabanga unjengomuntu, njengekhampasi wesifazane. Ungenza umsebenzi umbukwane, thola ohmurit "Papic" beveza nokuqalisa eziningi uhamba uhlakaniphile futhi ujabulele bokuphakama yabo. Futhi ungakwazi nje ube nguwena, othandekayo, umkhaya futhi bajabule. Nguwena ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho.