Ifenisha Igumbi osemusha: kanjani ukukhetha?

Namuhla, sizobe ikutshele ukuthi ukhethe ifenisha ngamagumbi osemusha, ngoba umfana akhule ngokwanele noma intombazane ayisakwazi ukuphumula egumbini ibhecwe amathoyizi. Kakade bazibone omdala ngabanye, futhi akuyona neze into engenakwenzeka enqabela ke ukwenza. Ngakho-ke, uma ingane yakho, akhula futhi idinga kuyinto izimo kancane ezahlukene, sizokutshela ukuthi ezokwakha lezi zimiso futhi wenze ukuphila kwengane yakho agqamile bajabule.

Ngokwezibalo, ubudala esanda kweva eshumini nambili ubhekwa iminyaka 11-15 ubudala, lapho ingane uqala ukwakha iphuzu yabo buka, izinto zokuchitha isizungu, izithakazelo. Uthatha isithakazelo ezintweni eziningi ekuphileni bese uzama iqhaza konke. Kuyinto kule futhi udinga ukugxila, ngokukhetha ifenisha for amakamelo osemusha. Nokho, imingcele ecacile kanye nemithetho, indlela podobodrat ifenisha, alikho. Une ukuzizwa intuitively ukuthi kufana ingane yakho, futhi uholwe ingqondo kanye Imicabango nokwabelana. Qaphela ukuthi uma ingane yakho ayisekho eshukunyiswa enophephela emhlane kanye unodoli ithoyizi, kodwa, isibonelo, uthi ufuna ukuba umuntu othanda ukuvakasha, lokhu kufanele ukuthi lokhu kusikhuthaza ukuba ushintshe isimo ekamelweni lakhe. Futhi akudingekile uyephuza le nqubo, kungenjalo lokho kuyoholela ukuxabana, ukuthukwa.

Lapho ingane yakho ikhula, nawe kumele kube sobala ukuthi ifenisha zezingane for girls kakade kumele kube ngokuphelele sihluke ifenisha sabafana. Futhi uma ngaphambili kwakunokwenzeka ukukhetha umbala isebenziseka ngezindlela eziningi, kodwa manje "namaqhinga" enjalo ingane yakho akayiqondi.

Ukuze uqale nomunye imininingwane encane kodwa ibaluleke kakhulu. Ngaphambi olukhethayo ingane yakho umbala iphepha lokunamathisela odongeni, ifenisha, amakhethini kanye nezinye, kanye nezindawo konke ozibheka ngayo kufanelekile. Nokho, manje, kuyafaneleka ukukhumbula ukuthi ingane cishe umuntu omdala futhi ilungiselelo egumbini uthola umsebenzi walo oyinhloko, ngakho yonke ifenisha for amakamelo intsha kufanele kukhethwe ehambisana nesiphithiphithi. +

Lokho kufanelekile abafana

Isikhathi esining impela, intsha, abafana baqala "ukuqinisekisa" abazali babo ukuthemba, ukuze bakwazi ukunikeza njengoba umbala izindonga abamnyama. Nokho, ungesabi, ngisho nabaqambi black yesimanje ungavula ningene ekukhanyeni ngempela hhayi ngaso sonke kwangethusa lokho. ifenisha Wezingane intsha kakade, yebo, ngeke zisebenze, ngakho udinga ukuze ubuke nge ingane yakho kahle kuhlanganiswe ingaphakathi, wabulawelwa isitayela yesimanje. Njengoba abafana kakhulu othanda ibhola futhi ngokuvamile cishe yonke ezemidlalo, kungenziwa anamatheliswe ebodeni egumbini amaphosta namathimba namaqembu ozithandayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngisho ifenisha zingabonisa izinto zokuzilibazisa wengane. Konke kuncike ukunambitheka yakho futhi lokho ufuna ingane yakho. Ngokwesibonelo, umbala izindonga, ungakhetha mnyama ekamelweni kwakusengathi inqaba ephakathi, bese "uyiqhawe" lenu kuyoba khona ukhululekile ikakhulukazi.

Lokho kufanelekile amantombazane

Lapha, Ngakolunye uhlangothi, i-licace egumbini, ngcono. Le ntombazane ngokuqinisekile wayengafuni ukuchitha isikhathi sabo mahhala egumbini amnyama ephethe ibhola indaba ephathwayo. Faka isicelo egumbini isitayela bubuhle, noma ulisebenzise uthanda: pink izindonga, ubuhlalu uhlanganyela, izesekeli emhlophe. Nokho, khumbula yokuthi igumbi esikhanya kakhulu ekujabulisayo ingqondo, lo mntwana uyoba kubi ukulala ebusuku. Ekhumbula lokhu, zama ukunciphisa lodonga ngokuhlakanipha. Kungenzeka izithombe egqamile futhi amaphosta, kodwa abawona esikhanya kakhulu. Ifenisha ngamagumbi intsha   amantombazane angaba njengento enhle noma "zobuchwepheshe" nesitayela. Kube kufanele bakhethe kwakho nengane yakho.